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Deborah Gross Obituary

Deborah Brown Gross, 42, of Thaxton, Va., went to her heavenly home on Tuesday, April 7, 2009. She was preceded in death by her father, Raymond Brown; and grandparents, Eural H. Sigmon, and Harold and Pauline King. Mrs. Gross was a 1984 graduate of Liberty High School. She is survived by her husband of 24 years, Timothy Gross; and daughter, Chelsi Gross, of the home; mother and stepfather, Eloise Brown Fralin and Fred; father-in-law and mother-in-law, Robert and Jean Jenkins, of Vinton; much loved sister, Wendy Seamster and husband, Phillip, and their son, David, all of Thaxton; grandmothers, Agnes Sigmon, of Thaxton, and Maggie Brown, of Roanoke; and numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. Funeral services will be held noon on Friday, April 10, 2009, at Oakey's Vinton Chapel with Pastor Michael Duvall officiating. Interment will follow in Mountain View Cemetery, Vinton. The family will receive friends from 2 to 4 p.m. and from 6 to 8 p.m. on Thursday, April 9, 2009, at Oakey's Vinton Chapel, 540-982-2221.
Published by Roanoke Times on Apr. 9, 2009.

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Theresa Butler

April 20, 2009

Timmy & Chelsi & Family
All though I never got to meet Debra I felt
Like I knew her well. She wrote to my Mom
all the time and my Mom spoke of her constantly. Mom said I would have fallen in love with her and her personality. Mom
said she always smiled and made her laugh.
Mom also told me of her great love for you
Timmy and you Chelsi and how proud she was
of you. I will keep you and your family
in my prayers. May the beautiful memories
you have of her warm your hearts and make
you smile always. God Bless You.
Love
Theresa Butler

Carol Jones

April 16, 2009

Chelsi,
Chris let me kow this morning about your Mom! I am so sorry I didn't know earlier so that I could be there for you and your family. Please let me know if there is any way I can help you all. I will keep you all in my prayers! If you need to talk please call me. Chris can give you my number!! I am praying that the Lord will work out the school situation, I know your Mom wanted you to be able to finish your education here at LU and the Lord will make it happen sweetheart. Don't worry about that. I hope that your memories of your mom will give you great peace and comfort! I Love You Chelsi!!!

Trish McGuire

April 16, 2009

I got to know Deb at the post office several years ago. She began coming to my salon to have her hair cut, etc. and was wonderful advertisement- she sent me so many people that we often joked that she needed to collect a commission. Her laugh, her bright white teeth..the ability she had to bring such life into any situation are just a few things I won't forget. To her Mom, Grandma Agnes, Chelsi, Wendy, Tim...I think of you all and pray your memories will bring you smiles when tears come to your eyes...

Amy Schuette McKinney

April 16, 2009

Deborah and I grew up together out in Union. I considered her one of my best friends. After moving we lost touch but ran into each other time and again. I always loved her laugh and her smile. She was a truly one of my favorite people. I was sad and shocked to hear of her homecoming. My deepest thoughts and prayers to her husband, Chelsie, Wendy and the rest of the family

Heather Dunbar

April 16, 2009

I worked with Deborah for a short while, but it felt like a lifetime. We would talk like we had known each other for years. She always made me laugh. Deborah had a wonderful spirit about her. She could always brighten up a room with her smile and laughter. She will truly be missed. Your family are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

WENDY SEAMSTER

April 14, 2009

DEBORAH...
I WILL ALWAYS MISS YOU!!! NO DOUBT YOU ARE IN HEAVEN WITH DAD, YEA YOU BET ME THERE!!
MY LIFE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME. LOVE YOU FOREVER!! YOU SISTER

Ellen Bittler

April 11, 2009

I knew Deborah because we went to Liberty together. She always lit up a room. She made tough days go easier. What an awesome and vibrant personality! My deepest sympanthies to you at this time. May the Lord give you comfort!

Dana & Eileen Jackson

April 11, 2009

God Bless all of you

Bernie Lenart

April 10, 2009

My wife Carol and I send our condolences to you Fred and all members of your family.
God grant you all peace...
Chapter 78, VVA, will keep you all in our prayers also.

Sue Mullen

April 10, 2009

To Deborah's Family
I am so sorry for your loss. I only knew Deborah for such a short time while working at Liberty, but she always made you feel like you had known her for years. Although you will miss her, she is always with you in your heart. I pray that God will comfort you in this time of great loss.

Adana Preston

April 10, 2009

Tim and Chelsi, Im so sorry for your loss. I met Deborah when we worked together at Orvis she and I really bonded she was truely a special person to me and I am thankful that God brought her into my life. I always looked forward to her cards and letters. I will miss her greatly. You all are in my prayers. God Bless you both.

Jessica Collins

April 10, 2009

To the Family, I'm so sorry for your loss of a great woman. I remember Mrs. Gross from years ago when she worked at Great Beginnings Child Care in Vinton. She was always full of life and loved her Waltermelons. I will keep you in my prayers during these difficult times.

Todd Hannabass

April 9, 2009

Dear Tim and Chelsi,
Deborah and I recently found each other through Facebook. We went to high school together. She was an amazing person. I'm thinking of you both and wishing you peace.

Kelly (Lam) Ward

April 9, 2009

Dear Tim and Chelsi~I had the pleasure of knowing and working with Deborah at Vinton Day Care Center. It has been a long time but I have very fond memories of her. She always wore a smile and was able to make anyone laugh-she could brighten anybody's day with her great personality. Chelsi, you were so young back then but your mom was so proud of you. I am deeply sorry for your loss and your family will be in my prayers.

Deborah Tuck

April 9, 2009

Dear Chelsi,
I am so sorry for you and your dad and family for the loss of your mom. I will always remember when you and your cousin David attended Montvale Elementary and your mom was often there cheerfully helping in various ways. At the Thaxton P.O. she always made me smile with her bright and joyful face and laugh with her funny anecdotes to share. You both once attended a Christmas program at my church (Walnut Grove Union). I will miss her, even though I hadn't seen her for awhile. My dad (George Walker)really enjoyed seeing your mom at Union Church as well as at the Post office. Please know you all are in my thoughts and prayers now and ongoing. May the Lord give you comfort and peace. Philippians 3:14, 4:13

Kelly Seitz

April 9, 2009

Dear Tim and Chelsi, I am so sorry for your loss. I had just met Deborah when she came to work at Liberty. She had such a sparkling personality I don't think she had ever met a stranger she got to know everyone. She made a lasting impression and will be greatly missed.

Rena Anderson

April 9, 2009

Chels,
I am so sorry to hear of your moms sudden passing. She was a great lady. Greg thought alot of her. You are like her in many ways. She has left you as her legacy. Continue on your journey in a way that would make her proud. If you need anything I am always here for you. Love and prayers to your entire family.
Rena Anderson(Greg's mom)

Laura Morck

April 9, 2009

Chesi I am so very sorry for your loss, I did not know your mother, but she has done a wonderful job raising you and you will always carry her within yourself. I hope to see you soon. Your friend, Laura Morck (Wes' mom)

Janice & Timmy Waldron

April 9, 2009

Timmy. You were very lucky to have Deborah for a wife. So beautiful, funny and well loved by all. We love you and Chelsi and pray for you. Your sister Janice husband Tim kids Kenny and Reathy.

Patricia & Mary

April 9, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you Tim and Chesi. We all were in shock learning about your wife's passing. We hope and pray each and passing day will ease the loss of your loved one.
Love, Tri Tech production crew aka (LINE 2)

Angie Robertson

April 9, 2009

Sorry for your loss, she was a very friendly person.

Tina,Ken,Taylor Conley(Larry Brown Daughter)

April 9, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Vicki Elliott

April 9, 2009

With sincere sympathy in the loss of your loved one. I met Deborah and Chesi when they visited Mountain View Baptist Church for our Christmas play. We know her nephew, David and his family and also Fred and Eloise. Our thoughts our prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Mark, Vicki, Danny and Stephanie Elliott

Tammy Kovacs

April 9, 2009

I worked with Deborah for a short time while she was at the Bedford County Nursing Home. She had a shining personality; always happy, friendly and care-free. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family in their time of sadness. God Bless.

Joyce & Carl Ballinger

April 9, 2009

Wendy,

May God bring you some peace during this time. We were so sorry to hear about your sister. I know you and Carl had just spoken of her on Saturday. He was in shock along with many others when we found out. May you know our hearts and prayers are with you and yours. Sorry we can't make it to the viewing and funeral our prayers are with you. God Bless you and your family and may he find someway to ease your pain. Love you

Wayne Collins

April 9, 2009

Myself and my wife were very thankful to know Deborah and I ejoyed getting to work with her at the Thaxton Post office. She is definitly going to be missed, especially her laughs and smiles. My prayers go out to her husband and daughter and the rest of her family.

Connie Morton

April 9, 2009

Tim, Chelsi, and family,
Deborah was such a sweet friend. She made people feel at ease right away in her presence. She had such a great sense of humor, but could speak in a sincere way also. I will miss her beaming smile and personality.

Teresa Noakes

April 9, 2009

Deborah was one of a kind! Our time of working together and the friendship we created will always be a special place in my heart. She had a heart of gold and never missed a chance to smile and to make me smile. My heartfelt sympathy to her family-you are not alone in your saddness.

Rachel Feierabend

April 9, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Bruce & Linda Murphy

April 9, 2009

Dear Eloise & Fred, We were devestated to hear of your beautiful daughter's homegoing. Our hearts ache thinking of the loss to you, your daughter's husband and her daughter and all those who loved her. We know "the Lord is near to those who have a broken heart . . . " and pray you can feel His presence now when you need it most. With much love and prayers,

FREDA BURKS TOMS

April 9, 2009

I KNEW DEBBIE WHILE SHE WAS WORKING AT THAXTON POST OFFICE, ALWAYS TALKING AND LAUGHING. SHE ALWAYS MADE ME LAUGH EVERYTIME I SAW HER. SHE WAS A PRETTY PERSON INSIDE AND OUTSIDE. SHE WILL BE MISSED. MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO HER FAMILY

Tina Toms

April 9, 2009

Deborah brightened many of my days when she worked at the Thaxton Post Office. I will truly miss her smile. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. God Bless you all.

Crystal Cawley LPN

April 9, 2009

I would like to give my sincere condolences to the family during their loss. I met Deborah recently from her injury/surgery as I was her nurse at Roanoke Ortho Center. She was a very sweet and loving person, and I am deeply saddened to hear of her passing. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers! God Bless

Marie Huffman (Gentry)

April 9, 2009

I love you and will miss you. Wendy and Eloise you are in my prayers love you both.

Sharon Lauderback

April 9, 2009

GOT TO KNOW DEBBIE DURING THE TIME SHE
WORKED AT THAXTON POST OFFICE. SHE WAS ALWAYS SO FRIENDLY AND NICE. HADN'T SEEN HER SINCE THAT TIME. I AM TRULY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.

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