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Harry Gray Obituary

Harry Allen Gray, 71, of Roanoke, Va., passed away on Monday, June 7, 2010, at UVA Medical Center. He was born in Ivanhoe, Va., on January 22, 1939, the son of the late Homer H. and Sallie Lowe Gray. He was predeceased by his former wife, Frances Barber Gray; brother, Clifford Gray; sisters, Euna Lambert Brown and Helen Pierce Shiflett; and nephews, James Pierce, Larry Gray and Mark Shiflett. He is survived by his son, Michael Gray and wife, Denise Clark-Gray, of Blue Ridge, Va.; brother, Frederick Gray, of Roanoke, Va.; nieces, Teresa Shiflett Moore and family, of St. Louis, Mo., Sonya Shiflett and family, of Madison, Ala., and Penny Gray and family, of Chesterfield, Va.; nephews, Billy Shiflett, of St. Louis, Mo., and Dennis Gray and wife, of Richmond, Va.; his very close friends, Lawrence, Betty and Chad Clark, Bobby, Sandy and Matthew Brown; his mail carrier, Bill Green, all of Roanoke, Va.; his fishing buddy and former co-worker, Earl Fields, of Salem, Va.; and a host of cousins. He served in the United States Navy for four years from 1956 to 1960. He began work in 1960 for Dixie Bearings, Inc. which later became Applied Industrial Technologies where he retired as a Mid Atlantic Regional Manager after 44 years of service in 2004. The family would like to thank the staff of Lewis-Gale Medical Center, Springtree Health and Rehab and UVA Medical Center for their care. He was a kind and giving man that will be missed by all that knew him. In lieu of flowers, please make a contribution to the charity of your choice in his memory. Funeral services will be held 5 p.m. on Thursday, June 10, 2010, at Oakey's North Chapel, Roanoke. The Rev. R.C. Wagner will officiate. Interment will be private. The family will receive friends from 3 to 5 p.m. on Thursday, June 10, 2010, at Oakey's North Chapel, 540-362-1237.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Jun. 9 to Jun. 10, 2010.

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Ted Carl

June 3, 2025

My memories are one of a true gentleman.

Gary LANTZ

June 15, 2010

Mike,Your Dad hired me away from motion.I thanked him several times for the trust he had in me.He was one of a kind with his relationships with his fellow workers. You can hold your head high as your dad was a wonderfull man.

Ted Carl

June 14, 2010

I had the wonderfull experience of working with Harry for 10 years or so at Applied. I looked to Harry to help us keep the ship on course, and keeping our Core Values a part of our everyday business life. He also became a personal friend of my wife Stephanie and our daughter Katie.

Thanks Harry for the great times.

Ted Carl & Family

Joy Cheek

June 14, 2010

Mike, I would like to share with you how much your Dad meant to me. He taught me so much. He was a true gentleman in every way and always showed respect for all those around him. Harry never made light of any thing that he said because if Harry said it, he meant it, and you could count on it. He was a man of true integrity and everyone that knew him respected him because he didn't demand your respect, he earned it.

I am thankful to have known your father and worked with him and most of all thankful for all he taught me.

Joy Cheek

Bill Russell

June 14, 2010

Mike and Denise,
Harry not only touched my life, but also touched the lives of my family. Harry was a true friend and he was alway there when I needed help. I'm glad he was part of my life.

Danny Bryant

June 13, 2010

Mike and Denise,
My memories of Harry will last for the rest of my life. He was my boss, my mentor and most important my friend. The things I learned from him have made me a better person and manager.He will be remembered by many people that he touched.

June 12, 2010

The Gray Family
I would like to extend my sympathy to your family...Mr Gray was a wonderful person and customer when I worked at Valley Cleaners, I always enjoyed talking to him. My prayers go out to your family.

June 12, 2010

Mike and Denise,
I truly thought the world of your dad. He was a wonderful person and he'll be missed.
I wrote to Harry to ask him if he was saved and he told me that he was. He received salvation when he was six years old. His mother led him to Christ. I was so happy to know that.
Harry is with our King now and out of pain.
He's most likely doing a dance of joy.

Harry had the best memory of anyone I know. He would say things like "I remember when so and so happened, it was March 29th 1964on a Monday at 2:00 and it was raining that day."
Amazing isn't it?

Take care and God bless you both.
Mary Bryant

Nancy Powell

June 11, 2010

Dear Mike
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
I met Harry while on a visit to Cleveland for a regional managers meeting. While here he made a point of coming to meet me and when I heard someone say, hello Ms. Nancy, I recognized that voice and turned and gave him a big hug. It was so good to place the voice with the face, after all these years. We always talked by phone about his service centers and associates regarding their incentives. He will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Applied Industrial Associate

Rick Thompson

June 11, 2010

Mike and family,

I would like to extend my condolences in this time of sadness. May God bless you.

Rae French

June 10, 2010

Mike,

So sorry to hear about your dad. Harry was a true southern gentleman and honest as the day is long. It was truly an honor to have worked with Harry and have him to be part of my life.

Barry Cronise

June 10, 2010

mike and denise,
I am so sarry to here that my buddy Al passed. he has been a good friend to me.and will be missed

Earl Fields

June 9, 2010

Dear Mike and Denise,
So sorry to hear of your loss, Harry was a good friend and fishing buddy. He will be truly missed. Sorry that I am unable to attend due to my health.

Sincerely,
Earl and Carolyn Fields

Bill Scarborough

June 9, 2010

I can't think of anyone I'd rather have doing the pre-fishing. You find them Harry, I'll be along to help.
Your fishing buddy in PA.

Pam Meador

June 9, 2010

Dear Mike,
I am so sorry to hear about Uncle Al. He was such a special man. I have so many great childhood memories of your mom and dad and of course my cousin. Losing a parent is so very hard; cherish your memories and let them carry you through. You, Denise and Freddie will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Much Love,
Pam

Adriennne Smith

June 9, 2010

Mike and Denise, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything that you may need. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Jeff and Adrienne Smith

Bobby, Sandy and Matthew Brown

June 9, 2010

Dear Mike, Denise and Fred,

We are so sorry for the loss of your dear dad and brother. He was a fine man and a precious friend and neighbor. We have wonderful memories of many great times with Al, especially the 4th of July firework displays. He will be forever in our hearts. He was a neighbor that can never be replaced - always caring and giving of himself to others. Even though he suffered in his last days, he is now healed and resting in his eternal home. Our prayers and condolences go out to all the family.

Love,

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