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Harry Whiteside Obituary

Harry W. Whiteside Jr., 83, of Roanoke, Va., passed away on Saturday evening, April 10, 2010. He was a member of Virginia Heights Baptist Church, where he was a member of the Fellowship Sunday School Class, was a deacon, a member of the Sanctuary Choir, and former finance committee chairman. Mr. Whiteside was a naval veteran of World War II.
He graduated from William Fleming High School (where he was senior class president) and was also a graduate of Roanoke College (where he served as president of the student body). Harry graduated from the University of Indiana Savings and Loan Graduate School. He was the former president of First Federal Savings and Loan Association, the former vice-president of Charter Federal Savings and Loan, and a past chairman of the Virginia Savings and Loan League.
Mr. Whiteside was a past president of the Roanoke Valley Speech and Hearing Center, a past president of the Backbone Club of the Roanoke Valley Chamber of Commerce, and a past chairman of the Roanoke Valley United Way. Harry was a past president of the Golden Colonels of William Fleming High School. He was a member (since 1964) and past president of the Cosmopolitan Club of Roanoke, and was a leader of the club in organizing the annual Cosmopolitan Track Meet beginning in 1966. Mr. Whiteside served 28 years as a football official, and was a past secretary of the Western Virginia Football Officials Association.
Surviving are his wife of 27 years, Rebecca "Becky" M. Whiteside, of Roanoke; three children and their spouses, Katherine and Dean Anderson, of Garrison, N.Y., Harry W. III and Joan Whiteside, of Knoxville, Tenn., and Tom and Kate Whiteside, of Durham, N.C.; a brother and his wife, Bob and Carol Whiteside, of Roanoke; two stepchildren and their spouses, Sue and Les Saunders, of Cary, N.C., and David and Ann Watson Irvin, of Richmond; and 13 grandchildren, Micah Hales, August Hales, Emily Whiteside McCoy, Grace Whiteside, Ben Whiteside, Ripley Whiteside, Alice Whiteside, Phoebe Dodge, Elizabeth Hartley, Matthew Hartley, Ben Saunders, Taylor Irvin, and Jack Irvin.
A memorial service will be conducted 1 p.m. on Wednesday, April 14, 2010, from Virginia Heights Baptist Church with the Reverend C. Nelson Harris officiating. Interment will be private. The family will receive friends during a reception at the church immediately following the service.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggest memorials be made to Virginia Heights Baptist Church, 2014 Memorial Avenue, SW, Roanoke, Va. 24015 or to the Cosmopolitan Track Scholarship Fund, Attention: Randy Lower, 1234 Maple Avenue, SW, Roanoke, Va. 24016. Arrangements by Oakey's Roanoke Chapel, 540-982-2100.


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Published by Roanoke Times from Apr. 12 to Apr. 14, 2010.

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Katherine

April 14, 2010

my condolences to the Whiteside family. I came to know "harry" when my ex-husband worked for him at First Federal Savings and Loan many years ago. Mr. Whiteside seemed to be a reilably fair and understanding boss. He was a fun person that never made you feel uncomfortable to be around him. I know he will be missed

Martha Williams

April 13, 2010

Buddy, I'm so sorry for your loss.

Cheryl Kessler

April 13, 2010

Buddy,

My sincerest sympathy in the loss of your Dad. My prayers are with you and your family.

Cheryl Overacker Kessler

Norma Ree Sisson

April 13, 2010

Dear Becky and family of Buddy Whiteside.
My association with Buddy goes way way back. Our parents were the best of friends. We grew up together as childreen through their friendship. After his Mother;s death Harry, Sr. married Nora Mitchell that lived in my home. I still remember all the good times with Buddy and Bob. My thoughts are with you at this special time. Norma Ree Craig Sisson.

Diane Smith

April 13, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of Harry's passing. He was a wonderful man. Becky, you are in my prayers.

Ed Bennett

April 13, 2010

Harry was my fraternity brother, having been initiated into Pi Kappa Phi at Roanoke College. We will miss him and extend our condolences to his family.

Ned Rhame

April 12, 2010

All of your friends in First United Methodist Church (Cary, NC) Unity Sunday School Class are so sorry to hear the news of Sue's father's death. Your extended family in North Carolina sends our deepest sympathy and prayers for all of Harry's family and friends.

Our Christian love to you all.

Beth & Ned Rhame

Eunice Bishop Quisenberry

April 12, 2010

A very sad feeling to learn that Harry has passed away. To his family I send sincere sympathy. I have such warm memories of the Whiteside/Quisenberry friendship. The families were firends and neighbors in the Wm Fleming - Williamson Rd community and as Harry and Ernie married and started their families that friendship continued. I am so grateful for those memories. God bless and keep each of you, Eunice Bishop Quisenberry, Laguna Beach & Tallahassee, FL

Candy and Walt Wallace

April 12, 2010

To the Whiteside family.I hope peace will be with you in your time of loss.
You are in our thoughts.
Candy and Walt

Steve Ferguso

April 12, 2010

Buddy,Tommy,Kathy, I'll always have fond memories of Harry Baby, Hy deepest sympathy. Steve Ferguson

Mark Malcolm

April 12, 2010

To the Whiteside family, please accept my deepest sympathy. I have very fond memories of your dad with the 4th of July celebrations and parades down Wright Road. Your family always show true neighborliness and friendship that we shared as we grew up.

Sharon Alexie

April 12, 2010

Buddy, I am so sorry to hear about your dad. Please accept my sympathy. Sincerely, Sharon Spradlin Alexie

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