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Larry Oakes Obituary

Larry Herman Oakes, of Rocky Mount, passed away Thursday, June 24, 2010, at the age of 60. He was preceded in death by his parents, Herman and Flora Oakes; and his wife, Phyllis Wingfield Oakes. He served in the United States Army in the Republic of Vietnam. During his service, he received the Marksman Badge with Rifle Bar, National Defense Service Medal, Vietnam Service Medal, and the Vietnam Campaign Medal. He was awarded the Purple Heart for wounds he sustained in combat. He was very proud to serve his country in the United States Army. Surviving are his daughter, T.J. Agee, and husband, Scott; son, Cale Oakes, and wife, Traci; four grandchildren, Kevin Sawyer, Caleb Oakes, Tanner Oakes and Jackson Agee. He is also survived by his fiancée, Vickie Dalton; brothers, L.D. and Teddy Oakes; and his sister, Diane Ashby. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the Wounded Warrior Project, P.O. Box 758517, Topeka, Kan. 66675-8517. His family will receive friends from noon to 3 p.m. Sunday, June 27, 2010, at the home on Bowles Valley Road. A private memorial service will be held at a later date. Arrangements by Flora Funeral & Cremation Service, exclusive local provider for "Veterans & Family Memorial Care", Rocky Mount.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Jun. 26 to Jun. 27, 2010.

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July 16, 2010

Our hearts go out to this whole family.We are so sorry for your loss.Please know that you all are in our prayers.Larry was my buddy.He took me on my one & only deep sea fishing trip.Memories are treasures. Rhonda,Mary Ellen & Robert

June 28, 2010

L.D. My prayers are with you and the Family. My deepest sympathy.

Betty T. Bernard Alby (Pelham, AL)

Tonya Brummitt

June 28, 2010

Cale and T.J. you guys are in my thoughts and prayers. I can still remember your day at those softball games when we used to play T.J. My heart goes out to you guys.

Benjie & Deena Hodges

June 28, 2010

I thought I would still have a while before I had to leave a comment like this for Larry. There are so many good times we have had with him and he was always like family to us. He was "Pops" to our kids and was always there to do whatever he could for or with our family. He is very much missed and will always hold a special place in our hearts. If there is anything we can do for you Cale or TJ please let us know. We love you Larry.

Paul Wright

June 27, 2010

I can remember as a boy, seeing Larry at Thanksgiving and Christmas, wearing a cowboy hat and a smile . I thought he was the coolest person I'd ever met, I still think so. Larry, you will be greatly missed by many, thanks for the memories and your great service and sacrifice to our country. I hope you and Hilton are having a great time rabbit and bird hunting in Heaven!

June 27, 2010

Thinking of you at this time of sorrow and hoping to ease some of your pain. Joe and Elaine Gilley and Malanni and Devon

DON HODGES

June 27, 2010

may god blees your family and keep you in his arms.prayers and thoughts are with you all.DON HODGES

Patti & Jarrett Amos

June 26, 2010

We are very sorry for your loss.

Joan Sowers

June 26, 2010

Cale, So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. Joan Sowers, Roanoke, VA. (Itt)

Cindi Hodges

June 26, 2010

So sorry for the family's sad loss. Larry was a nice man. I can remember between softball games, watching the men play, and Larry could SMACK a softball, over the fence. I hope all your memories help with your pain.

Freddie Hodges

June 26, 2010

We are very sorry for your loss. Larry was a good man and will be missed. I will never forget all the hunting trips and days at the cabin. Cale if you ever need anything I am always here for you. God bless you and the entire family..Freddie, Lynn, Ryan and Dylan Hodges

Dusin Powell

June 26, 2010

Sorry to hear about the death. Larry was a great man He will be truly miss. I am Dustin Powell on of his friends son's.

David Holley

June 26, 2010

I met Larry at my brother Lee's home several years ago;and i found out I had went to school with his kids;last year I got to help him and Lee make fish for a get together and it was always a joy to hear him and Lee talk about fishin,huntin and racin.Thanks for the memories Mr.Oakes.

Kim Hodges

June 26, 2010

Thinking of the family at this sad time. Larry will definitely be missed by a lot of people. He always had something nice/funny to say that would put a smile on everyone's face. Hope the memories of him will bring smiles even in the future.

betty meeks

June 26, 2010

SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR LOVED ONE DEAR FAMILY WE ARE THE PARENTS OF JACKIE MEEKS AND MY HUSBAND KNEW HIM .
MAY GOD'S BLESSINGS BE UPON YOU ALL AT THIS AND ALWAYS J.H. AND BETTY MEEKS

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