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Martha Scalise Obituary

Martha F. Scalise Loving Wife, Mother, Nana, Great-Nana and Sister ROCKFORD - Martha F. Scalise went peacefully to be with the Lord on Thursday, June 2, 2011. Born Martha F. DiBenedetto on Nov. 21, 1921, in Tickfaw, La., to Sam and Mary DiBenedetto. She married the love of her life, Carl J. Scalise, on Dec. 26, 1942, a union of love and respect that lasted 681/2 years. Martha was a lifelong member of St. Anthony of Padua Church. Martha's first loves were God and family. She helped with a number of St. Joseph altars and even held altars in her home. She enjoyed camping, fishing, a variety of crafts, palm weaving, reading and traveling. Some of her favorite destinations included family vacations to various lake resorts, Hawaii and a trip to Sicily to visit the birthplace of her father. Martha was a passionate baker who shared her love of Italian cooking and traditions with her family and friends. She loved life and enjoyed being around people. She took great pride in her family and loved visiting her sisters and family in the south. Martha was a dedicated employee of Woodward Governor until her retirement in 1983. She donated much of her time and talent to many charitable organizations, including Marine Auxiliary, Mother of Twins Club, St. Mary Good Time Club, Catholic Women's League Charity Guild, Belvidere Craft Group, and Sew-B-It Quilters. She is survived by her loving husband, Carl; sons, Carl (Sharon) Scalise, Sam (Margee) Scalise and Dan (Merlene) Scalise; twin daughters, Rosie (Craig) Sheridan and Patti (John) Steinkamp; grandchildren, Carl (Robin) Scalise, Crystal and Trisha Wolford, Karl, Nick and Chris (Angela Garcia) Steinkamp, Heather Scalise, Grant Scalise, Marta (Chad) Sheridan and Tricia Sheridan, Tiffany (Leo) Villarreal, Eric Drake and Lisa Hicks and Matthew (Carie) Shealy; great-grandchildren, Nicole and C.J. Scalise, Miaca, Alex, Riannon Perez, Darren Hicks and Mason Drake, and Alana and Marik Shealy; sisters, Rose Cotton and Jeanette Perise. Preceded in death by parents, Sam and Mary DiBenedetto; brothers, Roy and Gus DiBenedetto; sisters, Josephine Liles and Sarah Peebles. The family would like to thank the staff and residents of River Bluff Nursing Home for their loving care and friendship, especially Meghan. Mass at 10 a.m. Monday, June 6, in St. Anthony of Padua Church, with visitation from 9 a.m. to service time. The Franciscan Friars will officiate. Burial in Calvary Catholic Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorials can be made to River Bluff Nursing Home Activities Department. Arrangements by Fitzgerald Funeral Home, Riverside Chapel. To send condolences, visit www.fitzgerald fh.com.

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Published by Rockford Register Star from Jun. 5 to Jun. 6, 2011.

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Robert & Sandy Tan

June 10, 2011

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Somehow words can never express enough our sympathies. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

June 10, 2011

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Martha was a jewel. I worked with her for years at Woodward.

Janet Wilkins Clark, Camden, AR

Larry Gorman

June 9, 2011

Carl II, Carl III and other family members,

So sorry to read of your loss.

Amy Herrera

June 7, 2011

Nana always made me feel just like one of her grandchildren and was one of those people who can touch your life like only a few people can. I remember her homemade cooking, granitas, skating down the Rock River path with Marta and Grant, and wonderful days spent at Table Rock Lake. You will always hold a special place in my heart. Love and miss you.

Amanda Perise Ridgel

June 6, 2011

To All My Family,
I love you all , So sorry I am not there with you.You all are in my prayers,

Conrad Ruybal

June 6, 2011

To all: The words to express my condolences do not suffice; but let me say that I wish everyone could have a Martha in their life at one time or another. What a better world this could be.

Toni Sparacino

June 6, 2011

Rose & Pat,

I was so sorry to hear about your mom. Cherish the memories of all the good times that she had with all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Tom DiGiovanni

June 6, 2011

To Sonny,
I remember your mom and dad from our younger years. Your Mom (and Dad too) always had a nice smile and we all always enjoyed being around your family.God Bless you.

Quinn Fairchild

June 6, 2011

Martha was always such a generous and kind person, and I don't doubt that she touched the lives of many. She certainly touched mine. I'm going to miss her quiet spirit and her delicious, homemade cookies.

Jo Spoto

June 5, 2011

We are so sorry to hear that we lost Martha. We have wonderful memories of Pignolati making at St. Anthony and lots of fun with the Scalise family. Love, The Spotos, Lucia, Jo & Nina

Paul & Cheri Rostan

June 5, 2011

Carl, we were very sorry to hear about your mothers passing. Our thoughts & prayers are with you and your family.

Pam Meserole

June 5, 2011

Scalise Family, our thoughts are with you....and Nana will be forever in everyone's hearts with great memories and things that she taught you. She has been so great to my sister (Robin) and the rest of our family. Truly a blessing for us...Pam & Chris

June 5, 2011

Rose and family, I am so glad I got to you and your mom a few weeks ago. I am sorry for your loss.

Cheryl Maggio and Family

Marjorie Bengston

June 5, 2011

I remember Martha from our Mothers of Twins Days. Sympathy to all of her family.

Paul Pirrello

June 5, 2011

Carl,
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

John Leggero

June 5, 2011

Dan,and the Scalise Family, I'm sorry to hear of your Mothers Passing May she rest in Peace...

Gene Fedeli

June 5, 2011

Thanks for the great times that we had nanna.

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