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Merrill Butler Obituary

MERRILL 'BUD' FRANCIS BUTLER JR. SULLIVAN'S ISLAND, S.C. - Bud was born March 1, 1923, in Rockford, Ill., the only child of Merrill Butler Sr., and Vera Butler. He was first married to Barbera Vasey Butler (d. 1980). He later married Nancy Katherine Lundeen Butler. He loved his life in Rockford with his large, fabulous family and wonderful group of loyal, lifelong friends. Bud had five children, Carol, Mark, Holly, Dan and Bill. After Barbie's death, he fell in love again and married Nancy. He embraced her five kids, Susan, Julie, Philip, Sally and Maggie. Bud had more than two dozen grandchildren and great- grandchildren. In 1997, Bud and Nancy moved to South Carolina. Bud served in the U.S. Army in Italy during World War II. He was a graduate of the University of Illinois school of engineering, president of Pearce Butler Construction Co., and of the Illinois Contractors Association, and held leadership roles in the Rotary Club, the Board of Governors of Rockford Country Club, Shiners and other community organizations. Bud was larger than life with his love for his family and friends. He traveled all over the world, had a fierce competitive spirit, boundless generosity, an amazing zest for life, endless compassion, and adored his dogs. He will be greatly missed by the many who loved him. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be sent to Sunrise Presbyterian Church, 3222 Middle St., Sullivan's Island, SC 29482.

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Published by Rockford Register Star from May 12 to May 13, 2011.

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Neila Stroman

May 19, 2011

Dear Nancy & family,
I am so very sorry for your loss.Please know that you all are in my thoughts & prayers.
With deepest sympathy,
Neila

Sue & John Nuernberger

May 17, 2011

Dear Nancy, John and I are saddened to hear of Bud's passing. We learned just now through our Sunday School class email prayer list (Beth Carnes asked for prayers). How hospitable you & Bud were to us in Rockford. We have so many fond memories. Fondly, Sue & John

Billy Waters

May 17, 2011

Bill, Our condolences go out to you and your entire family for the loss of your Father. Many fond memories of your lake house, RCC, and the many sleep overs where he always made me feel welcome to join in on family gatherings. Take good care my brother...

Jackie Davis

May 14, 2011

Nancy, I didn't get a chance to talk to you at the service but wanted you to know that I always credit you and Bud for introducing me to most of my friends at Wild Dunes. When we had just moved down and were building our house, you and Bud invited me to your Valentine's party. I had a friend visiting from Charlotte, but you said, "Bring her along!" You both were so welcoming and kind. That was where I was first introduced to most of the Wild Dunes people who would become my dear friends. Thank you. Bud was a special person and so are you. Bless you both.

Pat and Gregg Kennedy

May 13, 2011

Nancy and family,
Gregg and I were so sorry to hear of Bud's passing. We heard the news while out of town visiting relatives and will unfortunately be unable to attend the service on Saturday. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Bud was such a wonderful man that we were proud to know, if only for a too short time.
Pat and Gregg Kennedy

Diane Psaltis-Mallett

May 12, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. I grew up with Holly and I knew Bud. To me he was Mr. Butler. He was always kind and compassionate. I have many fond memories of time spent with Holly and her family. Please let Holly know she is in my prayers and thoughts. We have lost touch with each other over the years.

Tammy Westlake-Adkins

May 12, 2011

Nancy and Family,
I'm so sorry to learn of Bud's passing. He was such a kind and generous man. I will never forget working at Katherine's and how he always brought
you flowers every day without fail. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.

Angie Psaltis Klouda

May 12, 2011

Nancy and Family,,,you are in my thoughts and prayers. I always look back at the time I spent working at Katherine's with great fondness. You and Bud were always so kind, loving, supportive, and fun. May his memory be eternal.

Dr. James K. Smith, Sr.

May 11, 2011

Nancy and Family: Lynne and are are so sorry to loose such a great friend. Bud was certainly fun to be with and it has been our honor to know him.Our thoughts and prayers will be with you on Saturday and we will be with you in spirit. Dr.& Mrs.James K. Smith, Sr.
" Jim & Lynnhe

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