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Raymond Ference Obituary

RAYMOND 'RAY' FERENCE, 87 ROCKFORD - Raymond "Ray" Ference, 87, of Rockford died at 5:02 a.m. Sunday, June 5, 2011, at Provena St. Anne Center. Born Aug. 25, 1923, in Christopher, the son of Stanley and Barbara (Filipiak) Ference. He lived 63 years in Rockford, coming here from Christopher. Married Lois Confer on March 4, 1950, in Rockford. Ray was employed as a construction maintenance supervisor for 25 years with Nicor. He was a veteran of World War II, serving the Navy on the USS Oakland as a plank owner. Member of Emmanuel Lutheran Church. He also belonged to the Navy Club, American Legion, VFW, Navy Memorial, and Star in East Lodge 166. Ray loved going to the ship reunions, was an avid gardener and went to the farmer's market every year. Survivors include wife, Lois; daughter, Laura Telling; sister, Virginia Cravens of Portsmouth, N.H.; brother, Eugene (Pat) Ference of Mount Vernon; grandchildren Shellie (Jeff) Johnson, Anita (Dan) Beard, Carrie Nelson and Aaron Nelson, all of Rockford; nine great-grandchildren; and numerous nieces, nephews and cousins. Predeceased by daughter, Debbie Nelson; sister, Stella Smith; and brother, Joseph Ference. Masonic service at 9:45 a.m. and funeral at 10 a.m. Wednesday, June 8, at Gasparini & Oliveri Funeral Home, with Pastor Sandi Olson Decker officiating. Interment in Willwood Cemetery. Visitation from 5 to 7 p.m. Tuesday, June 7, at the funeral home. Arrangements by Gasparini & Oliveri Funeral Home & Cremation Services, 707 Marchesano Drive. Leave condolences at www. gasparinioliverifuneral.net.

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Published by Rockford Register Star from Jun. 7 to Jun. 8, 2011.

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Rosie Marley

June 13, 2011

Lois
I am so sorry for your loss Ray sure was a wonderful funny man l had taken care of Ray l will always remember Ray he was such a joy to take care of he always had something funny to tell me he use to talk about you and the grandkids a lot he loved you all very much l will miss seeing Ray he always seemed to make me smile he sure like his lotto tickets :) he will always be in my heart it was a joy to meet you and take care of your loving husband he will be missed dearly God Bless You and your Family

Rosie Marley

June 11, 2011

Laura, wow do you look like your dad!!!! I am so sorry for your loss. There is never the right time to lose someone you love. He must of been a great man, because he raised a great daughter!!! We love you-the Cacciatores.

Pat Becker

June 7, 2011

Hi Lois,
Love the picture on the obituary. Good looking guy. I'm sure just by looking at his picture you have such wonderful memories and those will stay with you forever.
You are in my thoughts and prayers and remember, God will take good care of you loved one. Call me if you need anything or stop to talk anytime.

Karen Crosser

June 7, 2011

To..Carrie and her family. Sorry to hear Grandpa had passed. He was a very good, kind man that cared about family values.
He will be missed.

Tiffany (Confer) Villarreal

June 7, 2011

Uncle Ray will be greatly missed, but he will forever be remembered in the wonderful memories he left behind for everyone who knew him. I will forever remember corn boils, picking grapes, and the Uncle Ray classic of "cutting off ears". My thoughts & prayers are with Aunt Lois and the rest of the family.

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