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Michael Kuby
April 30, 2010
I am deeply saddened to hear this news. I went to high school with Mike and reconnected with him when we were both living in Boston in our 20s, but it’s been years since I’ve seen him. I will cherish my memories of skiing, camping, playing ultimate, and hanging out with Mike back in the day. He had a great sense of humor and was fun to be around, but I will also remember his intellectual curiosity and his kind heart. Though we had lost touch, I am grateful for our time together during and after high school. My best wishes go out to Lydia, Grace, and the Bird family.
Ryn Gluckman
April 22, 2010
My deepest wishes for peace for the Bird family. When I was a teen MiKe helped me apply for and get into Hampshire College. My memory of him is one of profound kindness and generosity. His commitment to the alleviation of suffering made a deep impression on me as a young women. There aren't any good words to describe his gift to this world.
April 16, 2010
Lydia, I hold you and Grace in my prayers and thoughts. In sympathy, Vicki, Camp Arcadia
Lynn Reardon
April 14, 2010
My condolences to the Bird Family
Mike was one of my most treasured role models. He was kind, had a great sense of humor and he was real. I had not talked with him recently but thought about him often. I was hiking the Long Trail in February 2010 and was in the Hartsboro Road area. I rode by the home he was living in when we were students together at Antioch and I wished he was there. We rode together to Antioch once a week for two and a half years and we were good for each other at the time. He lightened my load...and I like to think I lightened his a bit as well. He respected all and treated people with dignity. He was able to laugh at himself and found the humor in some challenging situations. His spirit lives on in my life. Peace
Terye Wohnus
April 13, 2010
I just heard about Michael yesterday. We worked together at Beech Hill and have been friends for 12 years. Lydia, I am so sorry for your loss. Know that the best of him is lives on in the patients and clients that he reached out to. Many of them are better because of his work. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Grace.
Alison Kelly
April 11, 2010
Lydia and Mike's Family,
My heart goes out to you at this sorrowful time. Mike was truly a giver of hope to so many. May you be comforted by the love of your family and friends. With Sympathy, Alison Kelly (Tampa, FL, Formerly of Brattleboro, VT)
Stephen Flynn, RN
April 11, 2010
Though I knew Mike for only a short time I saw something that I rarely see in the healing profession, and that is the open-mindedness and wisdom to see that sometimes what is perceived as a problem simply isn’t, and all that is required is acceptance. He was a wise healer and will be remembered for that.
Trish Coyne
April 11, 2010
I just learned of Mike's passing and am just devastated. Lydia, tried to call and leave you a message but no answer. Please know MJ and I are here for you and Grace should you need ANYTHING at all. Our love and prayers are winging out to you and to all who loved Mike and love your family. I know Mike is hanging out with Norman and Mary now, and he is smiling and at peace. I share your grief, my friend, and love you so much. Call if you wish -- 221-0465. Would be glad to have Grace with our girls here should you need any childcare...oh honey, I don't know what to say except I am so sorry.
Pamela St. Mary (previously DeWitt)
April 11, 2010
MIchael will be greatly missed by all who have been privileged to know him. May God wrap his loving arms around Lydia and Elizabeth Grace, mom, Tim, and Beth, and comfort you as you heal from this unfathomable loss.
April 10, 2010
Lydia, my thoughts will be with you and your daughter. I can't even begin to imagine the depth of your loss. Know that many hold you in their hearts. Norma
Ted Wirt
April 9, 2010
Lydia
My heart goes out to you and your family. I only met Mike a few times -- he seemed like a nice guy. I wish strength and peace to you and your daughter in the coming months.
My condolences,
Ted Wirt
Isabella (Izzy) Sielawa
April 9, 2010
Mike was a very good friend and a great therapist.He was the only one who was able to turn my son around and gave him hope!!! He was truly gifted! You will be missed my dear friend!!!
Chris Johnson
April 8, 2010
Mike was an extraordinary person. I will miss his insight, his guidance, his curiosity, his wit, but most of all, his laughter.
Don
April 8, 2010
I'm so sad. I miss Mike. He was a good man who carried a lot of weight. Much love to you and Grace, Lydia.
Tammy Olszewski
April 8, 2010
Mike was a truly gifted counselor, and trusted friend, who helped me recover from numerous struggles and losses that fibromyalgia had brought into my life. I now feel like a whole person again. I am now hiking again, thanks to his support, encouragement, and compassion. I offer prayers of peace and strength to his family, especially his daughter Grace,
for whom his love was endless.
April 8, 2010
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
April 8, 2010
Lydia, i remember Mike so easily as a dedicated dad and a lovely, graceful man who cared for others and shared himself comfortably. I will ask a loving God to comfort you and give you strength and peace, for yourself and Grace.
Pam Harvey
April 8, 2010
I knew Mike as a dedicated social worker and colleague with whom I was honored to collaborate. His wonderful sense of humor and compassion made people's struggles easier. My heart is with all who loved him and who will miss him so much.
Darcy Gingerich
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