Joan L. Wing

Joan L. Wing obituary

Joan L. Wing

Joan Wing Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 9 to Dec. 10, 2009.

Joan Loring Wing, local Rutland attorney, wife of Alvin B. Figiel and mother of Mark Kevin Foley Jr. and Megan Smith Foley, died on 8 December 2009 as a result of a motor vehicle accident.

Ms. Wing was born on August 26, 1948, the first of nine children of Leonard F. Wing Jr. and Mary Costello Wing. She was raised in Rutland and educated at Mount St. Joseph Academy, Castleton State College and Marymount College in Tarrytown, N.Y.

After employment in various capacities at the old Carriage Room restaurant, the Fairmont Restaurant and as manager of the Brookside Tennis Club, she decided to study law and became associated with the firm of Ryan Smith & Carbine Ltd., a firm her grandfather had established as Fenton, Wing & Morse. She studied under the sponsorship and tutelage of R. Clarke Smith, Esq., Harold P. Berger, Esq., and R. Joseph O'Rourke, Esq. She practiced law with Ryan Smith & Carbine until 1997 when she established her own practice.

After her admission to the Bar, Wing became active in the Bar Association and other professional organizations. She was a member of the Vermont Bar Association, Young Lawyers Division, as a board member and as its chair. She was elected to and a member of the Board of Managers of the Vermont Bar Association from 1987–1998 and served as the Bar president in the years 1996 and 1997. She followed both her grandfather and her father in that office, one of fewer than five families in the United States to have three generations serve as president of their Bar associations. She was twice honored by the Bar Association with the President's Award for outstanding service to the Bar. In 2009, Attorney Wing was elected as a Bar Association representative to the Federal Judicial Nominating Advisory Committee.

Ms. Wing was a member of the Rutland County Bar Association and a member of the New England Bar Association where she served on the board of directors from 1991–1994 and as its president in 1993-1994. She was a past member of the American Bar Association and served two terms as the Vermont Bar Association representative to the American Bar Association House of Delegates. She also served on the board of the Vermont Bar Foundation.

She was a member of the Sterry R. Waterman Inns of Court, served on its governing counsel and as its president. She was also on the counsel of the organization Lawyers Concerned For Lawyers.

Ms. Wing had a quick wit and was frequently sought out to emcee statewide judicial retirement parties and, with her entertainment partner, Karl C. Anderson, had written and presented the entertainment portion of the annual Rutland County Bar meeting for over 10 years.

In 1998, the Vermont Supreme Court appointed Attorney Wing to the then Professional Conduct Board, later the Professional Responsibility Board where she served as a board member, vice-chair and longtime chair until 2007. In July of 2004, Gov. James Douglas appointed Wing to the Commission on Wind Energy Regulatory Policy which took testimony and presented the governor with a comprehensive report.

Ms. Wing served on the Board of Directors of the Rutland County Court Diversion Program from 1987–1995 and as its president from 1989–1995. During this time period, the Rutland County Court Diversion Program established Vermont's first juvenile sex offender program and treatment program and Vermont's first domestic violence offender program. She was also one of the organizers of the Rutland County Small Claims Mediation project in 1990, a project which used lawyers as "acting judges" in the Rutland County Small Claims Court, and, coupled with a mediation program for litigants, allowed the Court to schedule its time for criminal proceedings in District Court. Joan gave longtime service as a police commissioner for the city of Rutland acting as that commission's vice-chair and chair.

Ms. Wing also was a member of the Rutland Area Retarded Citizens Association, now ARC, and was a board member from 1983–1990 and its president in 1989 and 1990.

Ms. Wing was a member of Christ the King Parish and served on the Board of Directors of the Vermont Catholic Charities Inc.

Ms. Wing was active in Vermont Republican politics and served on various local and state campaigns and committees.

In addition to her husband and children, Ms. Wing is survived by three grandchildren, Jack Henry Foley, Abigail Margaret Foley and John Christopher Foley, all of Rutland. She is survived by her mother, Mary Costello Wing; by four sisters, Mary Jane Wing Soares of Londonderry, N.H., Ann Kidder Wing Lee of Casper, Wyo., Patricia Wing Bartenstein and Katrina Wing Clark, both of Rutland. She is also survived by four brothers, Leonard F. Wing III of Rutland Town, Christopher Wing of Durango, Colo., Timothy D. Wing of North Reading, Mass., John B. Wing of Rutland; and many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her father; her nephew, Baxter Clark; and niece and Goddaughter, Evelyn K. Bartenstein.

A funeral Mass will be celebrated Saturday at 10:00 a.m. in Christ the King Church.

Friends may call at the Clifford Funeral Home on Friday from 3 to 7 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, Ms. Wing has requested that contributions be made to Evelyn's Fund, a scholarship program for disadvantaged children, 22 Deer St., Rutland, VT.

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December 31, 2009

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December 16, 2009

Anita Bizzarro posted to the memorial.

December 15, 2009

Barbara Henle posted to the memorial.

December 31, 2009

Dear Alvin and Family,

We were deeply saddened to hear of Joan's passing. She was truly a wonderful woman who will be deeply missed.

Judy & John Blanchard, Middle River, Maryland

Anita Bizzarro

December 16, 2009

Wing Family
A classmate,friend,and a great lawyer, she was to us. We will miss her laughter and talks about MSJ. She was an amazing person. Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to the Wing family

Chuck,Anita,Stasu and Scott Bizzarro

Barbara Henle

December 15, 2009

I met Joan once or twice over 20 years ago through my husband's work and had not seen her since. However, it seems like I just met her yesterday. That's how much presence she had. She was a dynamo...and then some. My thoughts go out to her family, friends and co-workers for their irreplaceable loss.

Greg Barsanti

December 15, 2009

Dear Alvin, my deepest sympathy with your loss of Joan, she was truly a special woman who will be missed.

Beth Kersten

December 15, 2009

Mark,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in our prayers. God is with you during this difficult time.

Ed Seager

December 14, 2009

To the Wing's and Costello"s,
Joan was a product of the union of two great Rutland families. She had it all; brains, morals and a great sense of humor. Always looked forward to a case with Joan for all of the above reasons. Can't get her passing out of my thoughts. So sorry.

Kathy Sullivan

December 14, 2009

Dear Tim wing and family,
My thoughts and prayers go with you and your family during this difficult time. May you find comfort in your memories.

Susan Woodbury

December 14, 2009

She will be missed that,s for sure.My thoughts and prayer,s go out to all her family

Maria Joseph

December 14, 2009

Dear Tim and the Wing Family,

My heartfelt, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. I hope you can take comfort with your family and friends to help you along the way.

Marcia Taylor

December 13, 2009

I was a classmate of Joan at MSJ and have very fond memories of her as we went through our four years together. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to all her family at this sad time.

Anne Soulia

December 13, 2009

Dear Alvin, Mary, Mark, Megan and all of Joanie’s Family,

What a wonderful delight, was our dear friend Joanie! What a force of nature! I was so lucky to be numbered among her many friends and, through her, friends of her family. Stories of our NYC trips with some of our other special friends will keep me entertained for a long time to come. To be considered one of Joanie’s good friends was a privilege I hold dearly, especially at this sad time.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this most sorrowful time, and I know that her strength and love will help guide you through the coming months and years ahead. She was well loved and I will miss her terribly.

My love to all of you.

Will Hunter

December 13, 2009

At South Station yesterday afternoon, Joan's presence was so powerfully felt by all of us there it was hard to believe that she was not with us in the flesh. As Bill Carris said at Christ the King, she cared. She cared about her fellow lawyers and about politicians and her clients. But she also cared about people whose lives pass most of us by. She did it in a quiet (maybe that's not the right word for Joan; "unassuming" might be better) way, never asking for anything in return. And she had fun while she did it. What a different world it would be if there were more people like her.

Cody Taylor

December 12, 2009

Very sory to hear of Joans passing. Many fond memories from CKC and MSJ.

Norman Watts

December 12, 2009

Joan was a warm, joyous, rambunctious, clever attorney and mediator. She settled every case I brought to her -- probably 20-25 over the past few years. Her skill and demeanor clearly impressed the parties in our cases, as well as the attorneys.
She described herself as "an equal opportunity abuser" as she (gently) beat the participants into submission/compromise.
I loved working with her even though there were times when she beat up on me! Pressuring me to settle a hotly-disputed case, in private, she would aver "Norm, how could you bring such a weak case?"
She was a master at the art.
But she was also a sweetheart. She was so sweet I enjoyed her (gentle) brutality!
I miss her every day. No more sage advice.
So do many, many people.
Alvin, Joan and I discussed your travels together often, especially Italy. It was so clear to me that she love you and enjoyed being with you in life's journey.
I am so sorry that you will not be traveling together on this planet. But you will be together again.
There is so much more to say. But, I guess I've said enough.
She made all our lives richer. Thank you for sharing her with us.

Rick Savage

December 12, 2009

It is with deep sorrow that the news of Joanie's passing reached me.
She was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed.

Sheila Buswell

December 12, 2009

To: Alvin, Megan, Mark and all of Joanie's wonderful family. We spent 22 years living next to Joanie and Alvin on North Street and it will always be fondly remembered as living next to the greatest lady. Although I have remarried and moved to Montana I will always remember those years.She was an absolute "Mom", funny as all get out about things that would have stressed the rest of us out. Between our Janoski girls, Foley kids, and the Otoka kids the street was always a whirl and Joanie and Alvin's house was right in the middle.I am so sad for all of you in your loss and will remember all of you in our daily thoughts and prayers.

Chip Mitiguy

December 12, 2009

Dear Alvin and all of the members of this wonderful family,

The world has lost one of its brightest lights. We are all poorer for Joanie's passing, and so very rich for having known her. There are few people about whom we can honestly say, "She saved my life." Joan saved mine. If only she could now heal my broken heart.

Nancy Manning

December 12, 2009

To Mr. Fiegel and the entire Wing family. Joanie was such a selfless person and always looking out for the good of others. She has left a huge void in Rutland County. My thoughts and prayers are with you all in this time of sorrow.

December 11, 2009

As relatively new members of the Rutland community we honor her service and remember her kindness.
Joan Wing's legacy will long be remembered by so many here in Rutland County.
Our thoughts are with her family and friends.

Herb & Roberto Font-Russell
Rutland, Vermont

Jamie Ward

December 11, 2009

John, Trish, Katrina, Ann, your Mom and the Entire Wing Family, what a heart breaking situation and a devistating loss for your family. Even though I did not know Joan, from reading some of these stories on this guest book, what an amazing person she was. My thoughts and prayers go out to you at this difficult time in your lives. May God hold her in the palm of his hand, RIP Joan. God Bless your family.

Jamie Ward & Family

Donna Knipes

December 11, 2009

Megan and Mark,

I was so sorry to hear of your unexpected and tragic loss of your mother. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.

Marylynn Sotell (Cunningham)

December 11, 2009

Dear Alvin, Mark and Megan,
Our deepest sympathy for your loss. May god and his angels comfort you while you are grieving. Joanie was one of a kind. I am so fortunate to have had her as my cousin, I have wonderful and fond memories of her thoughout my childhood and into adulthood. What a loving and kind soul she was always. We are so sorry for your loss and will have you all in our prayers. God bless you all.

Ian Berger

December 11, 2009

Megan, Mark, & Alvin. My deepest condolences. Joanie was a great lady, and I have thought of little else this week. She was a wonderful friend to my father, and she will most certainly be missed by all who were fortunate enough to know her.

Marylynn Sotell

December 11, 2009

Our familys deepest condolences are with all of you for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.
Words can not express the sorrow I feel for all of you for the loss of Joanie.
What an amazing woman she certainly was. She is so loved and will be remembered always.
I know she will be guiding us from heaven.
Love and hugs to all the family.

Joan Doucette Parker

December 11, 2009

My thoughts and prayers to Joans family. She was a '66 classmate and dear friend. Such a great loss. She will be MISSED.

Greg Henry

December 11, 2009

It is an honor and a pleasure to know the entire Wing family. When one of you hurts, we all hurt. God bless.

Corey Bond

December 10, 2009

Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to our family friend, Tim Wing and all of Joan's family, friends and loved ones. With love and prayers,
Corey Bond & Family

Linda and John Berryhill

December 10, 2009

Dear Alvin and all the Wing Family,

Joan's passing is too soon, too sudden and too unfair. She was a truly unique woman with many wonderful facets to her personality. Those of us who knew her will never forget her!! Our thoughts are with you at this sad time.

Linda (Savage) Dukeshire

December 10, 2009

Rest in Peace Sweet Angel, for you have done well and now you are where all Angels go.

My thoughts and prayers are with those you left behind.

LIVIA WALKER

December 10, 2009

TO ALL FRIENDS AND FAMILY,

LOOK TO THE SKIES SEE THE BRIGHTEST
STAR, IT IS JOAN IN ALL HER GLORY!
GOD BLESS.

Kim Hunter

December 10, 2009

I was a Court officer in family court in Rutland for 6 years. Joan Wing was a person who touched all. Joan has put a lasting memory in my heart. Joan was always willing to listen, help and touch many lives. I looked up to Joan. Joan to me was funny, hardworking, spirited, opionated, and did everything possible to help everyone she touched. I was very saddened to hear of her passing. I am honored to know her, and saddened to loose her. My prayers are with your family, now we have an angel watching over all she touched.

Barbara Rodgers

December 10, 2009

To Joan's family,

I am an older woman, recently admitted to the Rutland County Bar Assn and the Inns of Court. As I walked into these rooms, knowing almost no one, Joan reached out to me and made me feel welcome in both groups. Her life's accomplishments were so very outstanding, but she didn't let her stellar career go to her head. She was funny and practical, and I liked her enormously. I was hoping to get to know her better, and I will miss her. I cannot imagine how difficult this tragedy is for you. You and Joan will be in my thoughts and prayers throughout the Christmas season and into the years to come. She was an amazing and life-filled woman, and I am sure she was an inspiration to all who knew her.

You have my deepest sympathy.

Kelly Welsh Ellis

December 10, 2009

Joan leaves a void that will be impossible to fill. I feel fortunate to have spent time in her company, and my heart goes out to those who knew her best.

Marian Berryhill

December 10, 2009

Dear Alvin, Mark, Megan and the Wing family,

What terrible news. What terrible, terrible news. I am so sorry that you are going through this awful experience and send you all deepest condolences.

Nancy Barone-Sevigny

December 10, 2009

Dear Alvin and family,
I was so saddened to hear of this horrible loss. I knew Joan from the time we were both in high school. While she had so many and great accomplishments, Joan was always, first and foremost, Joan.
There are few people who can make anyone feel comfortable and welcome. Joan had that gift and never hesitated to share it with all of us.
My deepest condolences to you and your family as you deal with this tragedy.

Sarah Peabody Downey

December 10, 2009

Words cannot express how sorry we were to learn the terrible news. Joan was such an inspiration to our family. She always took time to listen and care for others. She will be missed by the many, many lives she touched. Our prayers are with you during this sad time. Love and strength to you all.
Shirley, Suzy & Sarah

Mary McGinnis

December 10, 2009

Tim: I am so sorry to hear this terrible news! No one can prepare for this. She was so self accomplished from reading her obituary. What a woman Joan must have been. I, personally, can feel for your pain, as my brother was in a fatal accident 5 yo. With time, the pain lessens, but my SINCERE empathy goes out to you and your family.

Harold and Jess Anderson

December 10, 2009

Dear Alvin,

What a tragedy. We cannont pretend to know how difficult this is for you. May your memories nurture your soul and help you in your grief. Uour thoughts are with you.

Tim Taggart

December 10, 2009

Dear Alvin and Family,

Our deepest sympathy in the loss of Joan. Our thoughts are with you.

Kerry O. Furlani

December 10, 2009

My prayers go out to the family and friends of Joan Wing. I am so sorry for your loss. I've just read some pieces of her life and how amazing her reach, her strength, and her accomplishments. As a woman, her story greatly inspires me. I'm sorry we never met.

Regina Gauthier

December 10, 2009

John and family,
My thoughts are with you all at this difficult time. What a tremendous loss for everyone that had the pleasure of having her in their lives.I am truly saddened and my sincerest condolences to you all. God Bless

Kelly Lewis

December 10, 2009

To my friend Katrina and entire Wing family my heart reaches out to you all. I know she will be missed by many.

Michael Ortega

December 10, 2009

My condolences to Joan's family. I had the pleasure of working with Joan on several occassions. Her skills as a Mediator were second to none. Her quick wit,friendly demeanor and knowledge made her a very effective Mediator. I was so sorry to learn of her passing. She always made me feel welcome in her office. I will never forget the frozen thin mint cookies and the ever present Coca-Cola. God bless you Joan.

Timothy Cook

December 10, 2009

"And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away. And he that sat upon the throne said, Behold, I make all things new."

My deepest sympathy to my lifelong friends the Wing family during this saddest of times.

Jodi Bachand, Paralegal

December 10, 2009

I am deeply saddened by the loss of Joan. She truly was an exceptional person. I have very fond memories of her mediating cases at the law firms I've worked at. She would bring me Girl Scout cookies and I would send her back to her office with goodies for her assistant. I will miss her kindness and sense of humor. My thoughts and prayers are with the Wing family as they have suffered an extreme loss.

Megan Price

December 10, 2009

For me, Joan was a gifted, insightful, compassionate, funny friend with great good sense and a sharp wit that was always on point. Joan made you laugh even as she kicked you in the pants with a few well chosen words, gently chiding you to step up and be your best self. She was a friend, a big sister, a confidante, a gifted attorney and a formidable advocate or adversary, as the situation demanded. I feel as though one of the great ones has been lost to us. And I know there are hundreds of people who feel the way I do. My deepest sorrow to the Wing family and to all who knew and loved and laughed with Joan Loring Wing.

Candace White

December 10, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. God Bless.

Marie Krueger Hamilton

December 10, 2009

Dear Alvin and Family,

You are in my thoughts and I hope the grief passes soon to be replaced by
the wonderful memories the two of you (all of you)made together.

Even in the saddest or most trying of times Joan could put a positive slant to the situation of the moment,hour, or day.

She seemed to live in each moment and
nourished all those who new her with her quick wit and deep positive thoughts and actions.

Though she is physically gone her board strong smile and energy lives on in all of us that had the gift of knowing her.

Thank you Joan for making this world a better place than it was before you arrived on it.

Marie Krueger Hamilton

Ellie & Al Calabrese

December 10, 2009

Dear Alvin and family,
I was shocked and saddened to hear the news. Everyone will miss her energy! May God grant you special graces as your mourn your loss.

Terri Carrington

December 10, 2009

My heart and prayers are with the Wing family and Karen Poljacik Joan's secretary and friend.

Terri Carrington

Martha Henry

December 10, 2009

Having lived across the street from Mary and Leonard for many years, I know what a rock Joan was for her mother after her father died, also how much she was there for her sisters when they experienced their losses. She will truly leave a void. Our deepest sympathy to Mary, Alvin, Mark, Megan and the rest of the Wing family.

Martha and Mike Henry

Jeff Marlin

December 10, 2009

To the Wing family, my deepest condolences. I knew Joan as a mediator and I always looked forward to seeing her and working with her. She had a unique ability to talk to anyone and make them feel special. She leaves a gaping hole in the legal community and the community at large. I was so shocked and sorry to hear of her loss. I hope you all take comfort in the fact that she was well loved by so many people. She will be missed. I am so sorry.

Butch Morgan

December 10, 2009

Mark Jr & Megan and all of the family of Wing my deepest sympathy. Joan was the great gift of the Class of 66.

Michael Lavery

December 10, 2009

We, Janet lavery and Michael Lavery of Grand Isle, VT met Joan on November 19, 2009 in Montpelier at a mediation session. We were almost instantly impressed by her. She was smart, funny and very fair and helpful to Janet and myself. We are very shocked that she is no longer with us. What a tragic loss to her family and the Vermont community.

Curt & Kimber McMillion

December 10, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories and faith bring you comfort.

Bruce Bird

December 10, 2009

To Tim and the entire Wing Family.

On behalf of the entire Vinfen family, please accept our deepest sympathy.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Linda Merriman

December 10, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. She was a beautiful woman and will be missed by so many.

Barbara Grassi

December 10, 2009

What an amazing woman. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Brenda Hathaway

December 9, 2009

Dear Megan,

You and your family are in my prayers as you grieve the loss of your Mom; especially at this time of year. Your Mom's time here on earth, though short, made a remarkable difference in so many lives.

May God's blessings and mercy shower upon you all as you proceed forward, one day at a time.

Ondine Appel

December 9, 2009

Dear Alvin, Megan, Mark & family,

I am so grateful I got to see Joan twice this past year, I always loved her energy and frankness, and wished I could spend more time with her. She was such a hoot, so smart and spunky. I can't imagine how hard this is on the whole family and all who knew her - such a terrible loss. I am thinking of you all and of Joanie lots and sending my love.

December 9, 2009

Dearest Alvin,
I just don't know what to say to you. I will always have great memories of you just sitting there listening to us ramble on and you would be looking at Joanie with love in your eyes!!

She was a great person & even though we had lost touch for awhile, I will always consider her to be one of my best friends.

Please take care of yourself and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time.

God Bless and I know Joan is up there watching down on us with her Dad. She probably is the second in command!!!

Lucy Notte

December 9, 2009

To all the Wing family
May the sweet baby Jesus comfort and embrace you during this Holy Christmas season
Fondly
Jerry & Patty Mc Cue
Naples, Florida

December 9, 2009

Dear Mark and Megan:

I just don't know what to say. Your Mom was one of a kind. We had such great times together and a million laughs. Joan Loring was a great person and will certainly be remembered with great fondness by a lot of people. Please let Alvin, Mary and all the Wing kids know that you all are in my prayers and thoughts.

God bless and keep Joan Loring.
Love,
Aunt Carole

Richard Cassidy

December 9, 2009

Alvin, Mary, Chris, Tim, and all the family,

Please accept my condolences. I can only imagine the depth of your loss.

Of course, I have known Joan since I was in high school. But I worked most with her in her role as a mediator, and I can tell you that she was a gifted one. The entire legal community will feel her loss, and many disputants who she would have helped will not even know what they have lost.

I am deeply sorry.

Ed and Tammy O'Shea

December 9, 2009

To John, Meg and the Wing family,

We extend to you our most sincere condolences and send you our love and friendship.

Mary Beth&Mike Dawley

December 9, 2009

We were so sad to hear of Joans passing in such a tragic manner. She worked so hard through her life to make a great mark on the world.She will be missed by so many people.We went to MSJ together and have had several chances to meet over the years. She was a strong,amazing lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with you,her husband,children and extended family.

Johnna Donahue Dana

December 9, 2009

I was a childhood friend of Joanie. She and Linda Barker had horses and were such good riders and I have such fond memories of them galloping off across the field at Hendee's riding stable. I remember her family even though it has been 47 years since I lived in Rutland. How sad that she died.
My condolences to the family

Jim & Marlene Finger

December 9, 2009

Our sincere sympathy to all of you.

December 9, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all your family.

Jill (Janoski) Welch & Family, Bigfork,MT

Peggy Shugrue

December 9, 2009

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

CAROL DENARDO

December 9, 2009

My sincere sympathy to Joan's family and co-workers. We were classmates at MSJ. Joan was very smart,funny,caring and a good friend. She gave the impression of a very confident person who was good at anything she did.I'm sure the good Lord has a special place for her.

Chuck Tuplin & Family

December 9, 2009

Our Deepest sympathy to Tim and the Wing Family.

Jeff & Gayle Bond

December 9, 2009

There are no words.
As a boy growing up in in Rutland Joan was like a big sister to me. The memories are so thick I can reach out and touch them.
My dearest friend Tim, your mom Mary, and all in both families... our hearts, our thoughts, our prayers and deepest sympathy go out to you.

Matthew Golden

December 9, 2009

Dear Mary, Tim, Chris and all the Wing family,
My sincere condolences to all of you at this difficult time. I was dismayed to hear this news. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Matthew

Michael Tierney

December 9, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Bev King & Family

December 9, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Karen Gartner

December 9, 2009

We were so saddened to hear of Joan's tragic passing. She was a strong, wonderful woman who was a wonderful role model and helped so many in so many ways. She will be missed by all. Our deepest sympathy to all of her family and dear friends.

Sincerely,

Karen and Ed Gartner

Lauri Leeds

December 9, 2009

Tim, I'm so very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you adn your family.

CAROL DENARDO

December 9, 2009

My deepest sympathy to Joan's family. We were class mates at MSJ.Joan was very bright,articulate,funny and a good friend. I'm sure God has a special place for her in Heaven.

Maureen Drouin

December 9, 2009

I'm fortunate to call Joan's brother Tim a dear friend and colleague - and especially lucky to have met Joan on several occasions. She had a great spirit, very dry wit and an obvious love for her family. I know how deep this loss will be for Tim and his family - and to all who knew her well. My heart goes out to the Wings, and my thoughts and prayers are with her husband and those she loved.

Carol Jablonski

December 9, 2009

Joanie was a one of a kind person - unique and charasmatic. She will be deeply missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing her. I'll always remember my Probate days with her. With fond memories,

Carol Jablonski
Three Forks, Montana
(formerly Clerk of the Rutland
Probate Court)

Ed Hooke

December 9, 2009

What a shock! JOAN WAS SUCH AN INSPIRATION AND ROLE MODEL. A great friend and support person. I will miss you friend. My prayers are with you and your family. May our dera Lord give strength and aid to your family in this hour of grief.

Andrea, Sue & Brenda Hathaway

December 9, 2009

Megan, so sorry to hear of this tragedy for you and your family... Joan will be greatly missed by so many... she was a special lady... we were all blessed to be touched by her.. we are praying for you and your family at this time...

Jack Healey

December 9, 2009

My deepest sympathies go out to the Wing family.

December 9, 2009

Alvin and Family: We are thinking of you and sending much sympathy, your friends at TD Bank

Lisa Manfredi

December 9, 2009

What can one say at a time like this. Joan was an amazing person, she had such a busy life but that never stopped her from enjoying her friends and family. One can only say that they are a better person for having known Joan. She will be sorely missed. There certainly is a huge empty space because she is gone.
My prayers are with her family at this time.
God Bless

December 9, 2009

Megan & Family,

I am so sorry to hear about your mom. She was such a nice person. The community will miss her greatly.

Sincerely,
Samantha Bacon Racine & Family

Wendy May

December 9, 2009

I met Joan on Monday for mediation. I did not know her previously but spent the day with her. I commented on meeting her Monday night to several people. She was very nice, friendly, quick-witted, extremely funny, caring, and left me thinking about that day over and over. I was horrified to hear of her passing as I had just spent her last full day on Earth with her. She spent that day drinking soda, eating candy, cheetos, goldfish,arguing with us, laughing, complaining, smiling, etc.. and seemingly enjoying herself !!! I had hoped to see her someday again as I do not think anyone has or will ever leave a positive impression on me in one day like she did.

Janice Graham

December 9, 2009

I am just heartsick - you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

December 9, 2009

I was so sorry to learn of the death of Joan Wing. She will be missed by all who knew her. My condolences to the family.
Margo Howland -- Windsor, VT

December 9, 2009

We had a nice visit not to long ago. My deepest sympathy to her family. Joan certainly left her mark.

Lisa Savage-Skipwith

December 9, 2009

My heart and prayers are with the Wing family and with Joanies husband and children. Joanie was and always will be an unforgetable woman. Her friendship was treasured by our entire Savage family. May you find comfort in knowing she is with her father and with your fond memories of such a wonderful,mother, daughter,aunt,friend and lawyer. God bless you all.

mark&linda Allen

December 9, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

December 9, 2009

Dear Mark,
No words can express the feelings in my heart for your Mom. We had such great times together, shopping trips, lunch everyday for almost 10 years and just so many memories.

Joan has touched so many people & made a difference in their lives that I am sure she didn't even know it.

Please extend my condolences to your sister, Meg, your wonderful kids, Mary and all of Joanie's siblings.

God Bless and help your family get thru these hard times.

Love, Aunt Lou

Annemarie Steupert

December 9, 2009

Joan, was a wonderful, funny, kind, and genuine person. She will be missed by all that knew and loved her. I am so happy that I had the chance to get to know her and spend time with her. Annemarie D. Steupert

Candi Notte Domowitz

December 9, 2009

Joan surely left a positive imprint on this earth. Although our paths crossed infrequently after the 70s, my memories of our friendship are everlasting and they make me smile. To her family, I am so sorry for your loss and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

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