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Elisabeth Bower Obituary

Elisabeth H. Doering Bower, of Sacramento died unexpectedly on June 15, 2013. She leaves behind family, many close friends, and clients of her psychotherapy practice. Born March 25, 1938 in Munich, Germany, Elisabeth moved to San Francisco in 1950, where she graduated from Presentation High School and USF Nursing School to later become a public health nurse. After moving to Sacramento in 1962 she later had three sons, Hubert Jr., Christopher, and Alan. In 1973, she completed a Master's Degree in Psychiatric Nursing at Fresno State University, and began a career dedicated to mental health, which included certification as a Jungian psychoanalyst from the San Francisco C.G. Jung Institute. She began her mental health career at U.C. Davis School of Medicine, Department of Psychiatry as a clinical nurse and clinical faculty. She later had a successful clinical psychology practice in Sacramento for over three decades, and touched the lives of many who worked with her. She often spoke of how rewarding and meaningful her work was to her. Elisabeth was also passionate about community involvement, was a founding member of Therapists for Social Responsibility, and was an active hospice volunteer. Her passions extended to classical music, art, and most importantly, her unwavering support and love for her family. She leaves behind her loving sons and spouses: Neli, Laura, and Shelly, seven grandchildren: Austin, Bryce, Nathaniel and Matthew of Chico, and Thalia, Marco and Amaranta of Sacramento, as well as sisters of her daughter-in-law (Laura), Maria and Yolanda Tejeda. She is also survived by her sister, Eva Doering and brother-in-law Robert Munday of Belmont, CA as well as the four caring children of her deceased brother Charles Doering of New York. Her love and support will be greatly missed by all whose lives she enriched. Please consider a donation in her name to the Effie Yeaw Nature Center, where she loved to take her grandchildren.

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Published by Sacramento Bee on Jun. 30, 2013.

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August 20, 2013

Dearest Elisabeth, you are a treasured therapist and friend and a key woman I have felt graced to know. With Love, Katherine Moore.

Normand/Margaret DeLude

July 28, 2013

Elisabeth is already missed. As I read the other messages I felt sad that we had not known this wonderful person longer. We met Elisabeth at Easter's Book Store last year and liked her in and instant. We, my husband and I invited her the Merton group and the rest was history.It was like you knew her forever. She was so gentle and kind that one was instantly drawn to her. When I last spoke with her she was speaking of her grandchildren spending the night. How she loved those children. My heart goes out to all of her family at this time. However, she will always be with you in spirit. What a wonderful mother, sister, grand-mother,aunt,friend we have all been blessed in knowing this precious person.Margaret
At the last Merton meeting the Wed before she passed,I had loaned her a book that I thought she might be interested in;a book on the spirituality of Jung and Teresa of Avila. She stated that she would like to peruse, but as she had other commitments would not be able to attend to it in the near future. I advised her to just keep it as long as needed. She also stated that she would be going to the hospital within a days. Our conversation at Easter's covered her trip to Esalen in Big Sur which she thorourghly enjoyed -one week of reviewing film and analyzing. A great lady.Normand

Gabrielle

July 23, 2013

Elisabeth was a kind and gentle soul - she will be missed

Marcella McNamee

July 17, 2013

I will miss you Elisabeth! You were a wonderful neighbor. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

John Robinson

July 16, 2013

Elisabeth and I shared rich times, stories and friendship across a long-running consultation group, the board of the Spiritual Life Institute, and classes we taught on the spirituality of aging. Gentle, perceptive, intuitive, self-trusting, soulful and independent, I miss her. I still find myself planning to call her to partner in another plan or project. I wish I could. Continue your work, Elisabeth. I'll look forward to discussing all this with you when we meet again.

Jeff Edwards

July 14, 2013

Your inspired work and kind heart will be sorely missed. My deepest sympathies to the Doering/Bower families.

Presentation Sisters

July 9, 2013

The Sisters of the Presentation are praying for your family during this difficult time. May God bless you with love, comfort and peace.

Rich Morrison

July 6, 2013

Our families had a lot of really good times together. I'll be thinking about all of you.

July 6, 2013

It has been a gift to know Elisabeth; her warm and gentle joyful nature will be missed. Her presence has been an inspiration and will continue to be as I hold her in my heart.
Liz

July 3, 2013

Elisabeth - may those Owl wings that came your way - help fly you onward in your journey with the wisdom of spirit.
I send love and light your way.
Kim Hofer

Karen Ewing

July 1, 2013

Had the pleasure of reading and studying Faust with Elisabeth and a small group of classically inclined readers. She was most gracious and knowledgable and the sessions at her house were legendary She is part of a very fond memory.

July 1, 2013

Our prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow love Kevin&Beth.

Marianne Nix

July 1, 2013

I met Elisabeth when I was just a little girl and fell in love with her instantly....Her boys will always be family to me. I feel very lucky to have known her and had her as a part of my life. H. C. A. You are in my thoughts every day.

Steph Rush

July 1, 2013

Knowing Elisabeth has changed my life forever. She will always be with me in my heart and I will always be a better person having had the honor to spend so much time with her over the past 6 years. I still love her and always will. She is a beautiful soul and her spirit lives on.

Victor & Lorene Richmond

June 30, 2013

Our condolences to all the Doering/Bower families.

RoseMary O'Malley

June 30, 2013

I only recently met Elisabeth. I am grateful and blessed that I had that opportunity. My prayers are with her and her family.

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