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Jeffrey FEHR Obituary
FEHR, Jeffrey Patrick
March 23, 1993 -Jan. 1, 2012
Jeff passed away on January 1, 2012 at 18 years of age. He was born in Providence, RI and moved to Granite Bay in 1996 with his family. Jeff graduated from Granite Bay HS in 2011 and just completed his first semester at Sierra College. He leaves behind his loving parents, Steve and Pati and his devoted brothers, Ryan and Tyler. Jeff is adored by his paternal grandmother, Martha Fehr, and maternal grandparents, Jeffery and Barbara Holmes, and his many aunts, uncles and 27 cousins. He is preceded in death by his paternal grandfather Martin Fehr. Jeff will be dearly missed by all his family and his many friends. He was captain of the Granite Bay HS Varsity Cheer and Competitive Cheer squads. Jeff was also very active in several other competitive cheer teams. He was a loving, compassionate and fiercely loyal son, brother and friend, and he is beloved by many and will be dearly missed by all. We pray to God Jeff is in a better place and he has found true inner peace and happiness. Funeral mass for Jeff will be Saturday January 7, 2012 at 11am at St. Joseph Marello Catholic Church, 7200 Auburn Folsom Rd, Granite Bay. In lieu of flowers donations can be made in Jeff's name to the Trevor Project.
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Memories and Condolences
for Jeffrey FEHR
Jade
April 13, 2023
<3
December 18, 2012
THINKING OF YOU PATTY AND FAMILY.
Gerald Hampton
December 16, 2012
I am so sorry to know for your loss.
Dave Wing
July 10, 2012
I just saw your story on You Tube--SAP It Gets Better. I wept with you. Thank you for your courage to share and encourage others to truly believe "it gets better". I counsel adolescents. Believe me when I say your story will continue to touch lives in my profession.
Emily Hayes
January 30, 2012
I am deeply sorrowed by your loss, and as a gay teen I will do everything I can to help fight against this silent holocaust.
Debbie Turner Taimourzadeh
January 24, 2012
Words can't begin to express the sorrow your family is feeling today, but please know that others care about you and will be praying for your family in the days to come. Recently a great aunt gave me some comfort with the following message: God will heal the hurt.
Carole-Anne (Promades) Sanchas
January 16, 2012
Dear Pati and Family,
I am so very sorry to hear of the sudden loss of your handsome son Jeffrey. My heart goes out to you and your family at this very difficult time. I shall keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
Tom and Susan Tarquinio
January 13, 2012
We will pray for all of you. Much love, The Tarquinios
Rand Mendez
January 13, 2012
Hello Steve and family,
My sincere sympathy and prayers for your healing at this time.
January 12, 2012
Steve and Pati,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Dave and Gail Fitzgerald
John Foley
January 11, 2012
Steve and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. The video testimonial is so powerful with the joy and strength of Jeffrey. Blessings
Mary Catherine Fehr
January 11, 2012
Jeffrey was the best cousin and i am going to miss him so very much. I love y'all.
Jodi Rahme
January 10, 2012
Sending our thoughts and prayers to the Fehr Family at such a devastating time for you. With heart felt sympathy
January 10, 2012
Pati, I'm very sorry to hear the your sons' passing.. I know there is nothing that can be said to ease your pain. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts. Leanne Aldrich
Kelsey Grubbs
January 9, 2012
Fehr family you will always be in thoughts and prayers<3 he was an amazing person and a great cheerleader. love Kelsey
January 9, 2012
Steve and family. I;am so sorry to hear of your loss, I,am sure Jeffery is in a better place. Our thoughts and prayers are with Jeff along with your family. God Bless, Joe and Jean Krivak
Erin Burrell
January 9, 2012
Jeff was an amazing friend. he was loved by so many. i hope that he is in a better place now. my thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Anne Fox Cutler
January 9, 2012
Oh Pati, I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. with love, Anne Fox Cutler
Travis Wallington
January 9, 2012
We love you guys, and our prayers are with your family.
Bobby Moore
January 9, 2012
I am sorry for your loss.
Paul Grossman
January 9, 2012
Pati, I am so sorry to hear about your son Jeffery. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Paul Grossman
Eric Rutherford
January 8, 2012
I am Sorry
Jay and Cathy Kennedy
January 8, 2012
Steve and Pati,
We are so very sorry. You, Jeffrey, and the boys are in our prayers.
Kym Scott Goyette
January 8, 2012
I am at a loss for words....I can't imagine what you all are feeling. I am praying and thinking of you all every day. May you take it one day, one moment at time and cherish all the memories.
January 8, 2012
We are so sorry to hear of your loss.
Julie and Lewis Gilpin
Class of 82
January 8, 2012
While I did not know Jeff, I know what a great spirit he was. He will be missed by many; those who knew him and those who didn't have the chance. I am so sorry for your loss.
Beth and Bill Niemi
January 7, 2012
We are so very sorry for your loss. Your son was very special. All of you are in our prayers.
Cody Marcum
January 7, 2012
Very sorry for you loss. I wish you and your family the best. My heart is broken and I am sending prayers your way.
Leanne McMillan
January 7, 2012
Your service was beautiful today, Jeff. You are such a loved person. We will continue your legacy by remembering you always and showing grace and love to others. You are gone too soon, but we will see you in Heaven one day. Watch over us as our guardian angel. I love you.
Lois Daidone
January 7, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you mourn the loss of Jeffery
Rett Rasmussen
January 7, 2012
My deepest condolences and prayers for your loss.
Cliff Hagan
January 7, 2012
Steve and family, I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of Jeff. Our thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time. God Bless. Cliff
January 7, 2012
Steve and Pati,
Our hearts just break for you and your family. What a tremendous looking young man! We pray that God will give you strength during this difficult time. Tom and Susan Tarquinio
January 7, 2012
To the Fehr family, Our thought and prayer are with you in your time of loss. The Taubodo Family
Terri Riggs
January 7, 2012
For some moments in life there are no words. So sorry for your loss.
Frank Watt
January 7, 2012
Steve and family, so sorry for your loss.
January 7, 2012
Steve and Pati, I am sorry to hear about the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers will be with you. Jim Foster
Pete & Ann Sauve
January 7, 2012
Steve, and the rest of the Fehr family, we can't imagine the pain and agony you've been going through. Our prayers are with you to find strength. We also pray that the world will become a better place so that such an unbelievable tragedy will never happen again. Peace.
Frank Andrews
January 7, 2012
Steve, Pati and Family,
No words can express my sadness and sorrow for your loss. From the YouTube video, Jeff was the son we all would hope for. I pray for the strength and faith for your family and friends during this most difficult time.
January 7, 2012
I'm so sorry for your loss. We will keep your family in our prayers.
Keith Boring
Karyn Wade
January 7, 2012
With deepest sympathy from your extended "CHEER" family in Connecticut.... we are so truly sorry and devastated by this unimaginable loss... Our gym will be wearing PowerCheer's colors this week in honor of this beautiful young man, his love of this sport, and in remembrance of a life cut drastically short... godspeed...
Larry and Lisa Coons
January 6, 2012
Steve and Pati,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time of grieving with the sudden loss of your son, Jeff. Keep his love and positive memories shining brightly in your life and in your prayers. May God bless him and your family.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord forever. Psalm 23: 6
Maddison Swigart
January 6, 2012
I am a competivte cheerleader. I cheer for legacy xtreme in Dayton, OH. I pray for all family and close friends of Jeffery. I didn't know him but I will miss him.
Tamara Ross
January 6, 2012
There is so little one can say with such a loss. I hope you will be comforted to know how much Jeff was loved and how many people are there for you now and always. All Our Love and Prayers to All.
January 6, 2012
I am very sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
S Krishnaraj
Betsy (Baughman) Riddiford
January 6, 2012
Dear Steven and Pati, The whole Fehr family has always held a special place in our hearts, and you are all in our thoughts and prayers during this tragic time. You are a strong and faithful clan and we pray that you hold fast to the truth that God is with you all.
Ashley Robinson
January 6, 2012
Dear parents of jefferey, We all know that he is in a great place now and even thought you will miss him he will always be in your hear rip Jeffery
Jen Esperance
January 5, 2012
Words can't express how much my heart is breaking for the great family that is left behind. Heaven is truly blessed now. God bless
Lori & Andy Brown
January 5, 2012
Pati, Steve & family,
We never had the opportunity to meet Jeff but our daughter Heather spoke very highly of him. When she spoke about Jeff she often said "love him", he is such a great kid. We have heard this from many who had the pleasure of knowing him. May you find the strength to make it through this most difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
January 5, 2012
I live in the community and am SO saddened about the death of this young man, your son, brother and friend. May your faith help to bring you strength during this very difficult time. God bless.
kelly wright
January 5, 2012
I am so sorry. My prayers are with your family.
Bryan Fehr
January 5, 2012
Our hearts are heavy with the loss of Jeffery. The memories of family vacations at the beach are those rays of sunshine that lift up our hearts. Our God is a loving God and we trust that he has taken Jeffery into his loving arms and knowing this gives us strength in our grief.
Linda Pearson
January 5, 2012
Steve, Patti, and the beloved Fehr Clan: I am praying that God gives you all the strength that you need in the coming days, months and that you know there are many people praying for your peace. Blessings to all.
January 5, 2012
Dear Pati and family,
It was sad to hear of your son's passing. Betty Brito, Pam's friend, let me know about Jeff. Please know that I have been praying for you and your family and for Jeff as well. I will continue to do so as you go through this difficult time.
Cathy Ramsey Fales
January 5, 2012
I had the pleasure of interviewing Jeff for a KCRA Cheer Champs segment. What a darling young man. Thoughts and prayers with you all. Kristin Marshall (Sacramento, CA)
Laurie Schaefer
January 5, 2012
Steven, Pati, Ryan & Tyler,
We were all so shocked and saddened to hear of Jeffery's passing. We are sending love and prayers to you. Love you all.
Laurie, Rob, Jake, Emma & Will
Gary and Brenda Schildmeyer
January 5, 2012
Steve and Patti, we would like to send you our prayers as you go through this most difficult time. We will always have a special place in our hearts for Jeff.
corinne (mom arno) dousset
January 5, 2012
Pati steve tyler ryan I'm so sorry for this tragedy so horrible my heart is filled with tears, you who have been so wonderful when you have received from you my son arno in August 2010. Arno is devastated by this news so he hoped to see you all soon. Jeff we think thou art a new star in the sky and the star will shine in our hearts as long. A small French poem says: Do not cry that you lost, be happy to have known him. All our prayers are with you accompagent. Many French know jeff by arno we all stand.
Randall Spires
January 5, 2012
Steve, please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
A Mom
January 5, 2012
My heart is breaking for the family he left behind. I truly hope he has found peace and I pray that the heartache of his friends and family lesson as each days passes. I have read so many great things about this kid, the world is truly missing out.
Dixie
January 5, 2012
My most sincere condolences on the loss of your dear son Jeffrey. The loss of a child is the harshest of life's blows, and nearly impossible to comprehend. My deepest sympathy to you.
Karri Schildmeyer
January 5, 2012
Steven, Pati, Ryan and Tyler,
Please know our hearts are full of love for you. We will keep Jeffrey's memory alive by remembering his smile, his great half-time entertainment during the corn hole tournaments and his incredible love of family. We are praying for your comfort. We love you!
Karri, Jerry, Anna, Olivia and Ellena
Stephen Schildmeyer
January 5, 2012
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Steve and Elaine Schildmeyer
Paul & Toni Schildmeyer
January 5, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Dennis Fehr
January 5, 2012
Jeff was a very loving and caring person. He was a favorite cousin of my sons, Kyle and Andrew, and they are already missing him dearly. He will always be in our thoughts and prayers.
Anthony Lucas
January 5, 2012
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
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