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Mary Patricia "Pat" McCRARY

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Mary McCRARY Obituary


McCRARY, Mary Patricia 'Pat' (Hood)
April 2, 1928 - February 14, 2011

Mary P. 'Pat' McCrary (Hood) passed away at her home of over 54 years in Roseville at the age of 82. Pat was born in Ogden, Utah, the daughter of Kenneth and Delphine Hood. She grew up in Richfield, Utah, Coronado, CA, and Sacramento.

Pat graduated from Grant Union High School in 1945, at the age of 16, where she was salutatorian of her class. She then went to work for Pacific Telephone as an operator, while attending Sacramento City College.

Later in life she returned to Sacramento City College, where she received her nursing degree. She worked as an RN at Roseville Community Hospital for over 25 years, retiring in 1992 as a Nursing Supervisor. Pat was well-known for her sense of humor, caring for others, strong work ethic and love of chocolate.

Pat had many life-long friends in Roseville and belonged to the Junior Women's Club, a Birthday Club, GUHS Alumni Assoc. and several bridge clubs. She was an avid seamstress and enjoyed playing golf, taking egg decorating classes and traveling.

Pat is survived by her brother, Bob Hood, sister, Laura Dye and sister-in-law, Ernestine Hood. In addition, Pat was very proud of her 3 children: Dennis McCrary (Susan), Carol McCrary, and Richard McCrary (Yvonne); 4 grandchildren: Jennifer Buser (Brian), Sara Razzouk (Mike), Kyle and Lauren McCrary; 3 great-grandchildren: Abigail, George and Nathan; a cousin, and several nieces and nephews. Pat loved and appreciated the kind and devoted care given to her over the past 3 years by Perla Aguayo Vasquez and Liliana Vasquez.

At her request, no services were held. Pat will be laid to rest at Sunset Lawn in Sacramento. Family and friends are invited to celebrate her life on Saturday, February 19th at 4:30 p.m. at Richard's home. For directions call 916-783-3202.

In lieu of flowers, Pat requested contributions be made to the Chris Garrett Nursing Scholarship at Sutter Roseville Medical Center Foundation, 1 Medical Plaza, Roseville, CA 95661.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Sacramento Bee from Feb. 17 to Feb. 19, 2011.

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Susan McCrary

March 11, 2011

Today, Pat/Mom/Grandma/Great Grandma/ Sister…died. Where are you? I looked in the sewing room, I sat in your chair, the needles were quiet, the threads were so still…sewing projects no more. I opened the door to the garden, the flowering place…the pool space I saw, where there was no more… no more chairs in a row, with a Fresca in tow, some lotion to flow, for the skin to glow… Out in the garden…the rose bush I see…from a gift long ago…saw beauty you know from your care and your glow… The kitchen so still…as your coffee cup hangs, on its hook… no coffee to fill or sacrin to sweeten… Your ash tray is empty…your chocolate treats uneaten. Your nursing cap I see, so inspiring to me thus, I sought one too, in the service of others, to help people too. I will remember your passion, your call to arms… to help other people… and to do no harm. To find joy in life’s treasures… from good dining, to seeing the world’s sights, to the hug of a child, grandchild, great grandchild and friend. Somewhere I fit in…as you provided me a space… for me in your heart…to befriend…to teach…to love. Do I know where you are? In my heart… yes, I know… where you are… where you always will stay.

Lorna Eby

February 22, 2011

We have been blessed to be "Ms. Pat's" neighbors for almost ten years. She and Laura have shown us so much kindness over the years and have spoiled our boys, not minding when they turned your yard into a football field. We will miss you and we are so grateful to you. May God bring your family and loved ones peace during this sad time.

The Eby Family

February 19, 2011

When growing up with a circle of friends, you gain a circle of parents. Pat was in my circle and she was special – very caring. Not knowing my mother, she always asked about her and would look in on her whenever she was in the hospital. I will always remember her and her kindness. Frances Molina Stizzo

Chris Gordon

February 18, 2011

Pat was one of my mom's coolest friends. She was #3 on the speed dial. They were both bridge nuts, and shared at least a thousand meals together over the years. I'm happy to know she is now at peace and pain-free.

Larry Roberts

February 18, 2011

Dear Dennis and Family,

So sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. Please accept my deepest thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May good memories help you through this time of your loss my old friend.

Pat's 80th Birthday April 2009

Dennis McCrary

February 18, 2011

Pat & Sylvia Marks @ Sara's Wedding 2005

Dennis McCrary

February 18, 2011

Pat & Dennis @ Jennifer's Wedding, 2003

Dennis McCrary

February 18, 2011

Pat & Dennis on Enwood Ave., 1948

Dennis McCrary

February 18, 2011

Jennifer & Sara with Grandma Pat 1982

Dennis McCrary

February 18, 2011

Pat and Phil Todd 1988

Dennis McCrary

February 18, 2011

Pat with Susan, Dennis, Richard, Carol and first grand child Jennifer 1980

February 18, 2011

Pat and Great Grandson Nathan 2009

February 18, 2011

Pat and Great Grandson George 2007

February 18, 2011

Pat & Great Granddaughter Abby, 2005

February 18, 2011

Pat, Marilyn & FX (Scotty) Scott

February 18, 2011

Pat, her son', their wives and grand children, 1995

February 18, 2011

Laura and Pat, 2003 at Jennifer's Wedding

February 18, 2011

Pat, Emma & Laura, going to Harrah's 1978

February 18, 2011

Groom Dennis & Pat, Oct 1970

February 18, 2011

Pat, Carol, Susan, Sara & Jennifer 1986, Boston, MA

February 18, 2011

Pat, Susan (left) Aunt Emma (right) 1977 FRG

February 18, 2011

Janis Webster

February 18, 2011

I was so sorry to hear of Pat's passing she was such a wonderful lady and a great nurse. I met Pat in 1967 in the LVN program at Sierra. I was the youngest that semester and Pat was such a big help and good friend. Pat came to my wedding and I worked with her at Roseville Community Hospital for many years. Pat was always so wonderful to work with. I am still at Roseville and she always gave me strength. Please except may heart felt condolences.

Dolores Silva

February 18, 2011

We are sending our deepest heartfelt sympathies for the passing of your beloved, mother, sister, aunt and friend. We know how much Pat meant to her family and friends. She will be missed and forever in our hearts. May God be with each as you mourn her passing...Dolores Silva, Darlene Palermo & Pat Hudson

Dolores Silva

February 18, 2011

We are so sorry to hear of Pat's passing. Our heartfelt sympathies are with as you as you mourn the passing of your dear mother, sister, aunt and friend. May God be you as you honor and remember your beloved Pat. Dolores Silva, Darlene Palermo and Pat Hudson

Jim Brown

February 17, 2011

It is hard to squeeze all of my memories and thoughts of Pat McCrary in just a few sentences or paragraphs. But I did want to at least highlight a few of the memories I have of her. I was very fortunate to have lived my childhood years next door to Pat McCrary and her family. She was part of our neighborhood network of moms who formed a co-op with each other and shared the many mom duties. This included things like; taking turns at driving us kids to our swim lessons, the movies, and many of the school activities that we were involved with.
One of my unforgettable memories of her was when she came to my aid after I accidentally stepped on a nail sticking out of a board out in the field behind our house. She came running over to me and promptly pulled the nail out. Then she bathed my foot to cleanse it before I went to the doctor to get a tetanus shot. And this all happened before she became an RN!
Pat was always willing to help out others when they needed it. Sometimes she shared her medical expertise if they were ill. Other times it was an act of kindness, such as bringing food over to your house. This reflected her caring spirit that she had for others around her.
Our block was very special to me because of having neighbors like Pat McCrary around. Her passing is just another reminder that another wonderful person on that block is now gone.
Dennis, Carol, and Richard, as well as the rest of your families; Your mom was a very special lady to me and her memory will always live on in my heart.

Marj and Bill Hill

February 17, 2011

Dennis and Susan, our hearts went with you as we watched you pull out of the driveway next door to go to CA this morning. Richard, Carol, Laura, Bob, Jennifer, and Sarah, we wish we could be there to give you our heartfelt sympathies in person. We do know the feelings you are going through as you remember your Mother/Sister/Grandmother knowing how much you will miss her and also knowing she is over her pain and illnesses. Just remember the long years of love and good times.

February 17, 2011

So sorry to hear about Pat's passing. My heart goes out to her family, I know she will be remembered by all who met her and cherished by her family with love and a smile. You were lucky to have her in your life for so long. She was such a sweet and caring person. May god be with you at this time. Lois (McPherson) Bockius

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