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Douglas Stefan Wright 1952 ~ 2009 Douglas Stefan Wright, teacher, poet, musician, and artist, passed away at home in Salt Lake City surrounded by friends on November 29, 2009 after an eight-month battle with lung cancer. Born in Santa Monica, CA on October 29, 1952, Doug eventually moved to Salt Lake City to conduct graduate studies in Philosophy at the University of Utah. Along the way he worked as a volunteer coordinator for the Make-A-Wish foundation, a reader for the blind, and a hospice volunteer. Yet it was as an educator that Doug truly found his calling, having taught at the University of Utah, Salt Lake Community College, and Westminster College, where he first arrived as a faculty member in the fall of 1995. Reflecting his varied interests, he taught in the Departments of Art, English, and Philosophy, as well as in the college's Honors program. He was also the founding director of Westminster's film studies program. Doug's influence on hundreds of students over those 15 years was legendary. He changed the lives of his students by opening the world to them and giving them the confidence to believe that they had a significant place in that world. For many students, Doug was the first person in their lives who truly listened to them, who said with encouragement, "I want to hear what you have to say, because your words and ideas matter." And they responded in kind, becoming deeply attached and devoted to their mentor. This sensibility derived from Doug's humility, generosity, and his utter lack of animosity towards those around him. That generosity was in evidence in his willingness to allow his lifelong friend, the filmmaker Paul Babin, to document Doug's struggle against cancer, in the belief that the film might help others. Even to the end, Doug was teaching. Throughout his battle with cancer, Doug maintained his humor and delight at the English language, especially the way in which it provided opportunities for bad jokes, puns, and outrageous comparisons. For someone who relished the chance to work with words - it was one of his callings, after all - cancer just gave him more material. Before having surgery in May to relieve problems with his pleural cavity, Doug announced: "They're lining my lungs with talcum to increase my inner beauty." He coached a colleague to ask him if dying was hard, so that he could respond "Dying is easy; comedy is hard." Doug's favorite activities included painting, writing poetry, and playing drums; talking about the "astonishing" work of his students; getting into his car by himself and exploring the beautiful landscapes of our country; hanging out with his "homies," especially at Salt Lake Bees games in section 104; spending time with friends while sharing a spicy dish of Chinese food; investigating the many beautiful and spiritual places hidden throughout the Salt Lake Valley; and learning as much as he could about the art of filmmaking. Doug leaves behind no family, but he was especially grateful for the devoted care and generous support he received from many friends, colleagues, and students during his illness. Per Doug's wishes, there will be no funeral service. Donations may be made in his memory to any group that, in Doug's words, "assists those who suffer from poverty, hunger, disease, and lack of the most fundamental needs of life."

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune on Dec. 2, 2009.

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Brigitte Mercier-Hanryon

July 30, 2013

It is with great sadness that I learnt of your passing a few days ago (I have left Utah and didn't keep in touch as I should have....One more regret I'll have to live with until we meet again) I am sendin you a “wink” tomorrow to make it up, it's a little poem about the way I felt your teachings inspired me, since this is my first time writing poetry it was difficult, especially in English...so...be forgiving...Although in the place above I know you can't die of laughter!!!
I know just the place where to read it to you, here, we have a beautiful park with remarquable trees, some of them are almost a thousand y.o, they make a big cercle and there are benches below, the students come often study there in group... just like in Plato's time!I am sure you wouldn't have it any other way!Also, I thought you might want to know a little secret I kept from you...since you were so tall, and I so short (I had to lift my head to look into your eyes when questioned) I had given you a surname: Gentle Giant!!! Be at peace now and for ever...Tons of love and hugs!!!

Paula Thornton

July 31, 2012

What a blessing to have had you in my life even a short time. you were a huge influence and opened my eyes to a whole new world. I'll love you forever!

Chad Rogers

October 4, 2011

Doug, I didn't know that you had passed on. You were the most influential professor I had in college. You opened up a new world to me. Thank you...

Nissa Gailey

April 20, 2011

Thank you Doug. Thank you. I think of all the lessons you taught me still. I am honored by having known you.

Chris

December 3, 2010

Doug has it been a year since I had the joy of sitting in your class. Of all the professors I have had you truly made learning fun. I miss your wit and humility, but I miss the joy you brought to every class.

Stephen

December 11, 2009

Shifted my perception and a major influence on who I am today. Thanks for the lessons and memories Doug..You were truly a riot and one of the most compassionate and intelligent professors I've ever had the pleasure of being around!..Cheers to your life!

Lorie Rosen

December 8, 2009

There was a group of singers, musicians, visual artists, scientists, future accountants, film-makers and business leaders of all sorts. Needless to say this was a very fun and creative group to be in! We were all friends. There were various couples within this group, two of whom were sisters who were going out with best friends Doug Wright and Paul Babin.

I do not know how I managed to lose contact with Doug and the rest of the group after I left school. Remembering all of the fun I
had with them it seems to me one of those fatal blue screen errors that should have stopped me in my tracks but it just happened week by week.

When I heard about what was happening to Doug a few months ago I was floored. Lucky for me he had just headed here from Utah and I was gonna be able to see him! The moment he strode up the walk we gave each other a big hug and the missing 20 years were gone. the conversation felt smoothe and comfortable as if we had just seen each other last month. The plan had been for him to stay at my house that night, but he seemed to feel physically worse as the night went on. He decided to head back home that night saying that he prefers to drive at night so that it is cooler (it was after all still summer). My stomach sank as Doug pulled away from the curb because I had really hoped that he was going to beat this damn cancer and we would visit again. Once he left I knew we had just said our final good-bye.

Doug, you were one of a kind, and special beyond words!

Brody

December 7, 2009

Thanks for allowing me to realize that the professors get as much out of class as the students. It's changed my view of college forever.

December 5, 2009

We shared an English class in high school... his wit and observations were on the mark even then. A humble and kind soul, peace is forever with you.

Andrea Freedman

Robyn Ontiveros

December 4, 2009

Doug was my close neighbor for 17 years. We drank alot of beer together then our lives changed with children and we saw less of each other. In September of this year I was at the cancer clinic for radiation therapy and there was Doug in the waiting room, we hugged and hoped we were not there for the same thing. I would take Doug dinner a couple of nights a week, but always Monday and we would spend time visiting, what an incredible man! Doug, I wish I had taken you to the Homestead valcano, your picture is right on! I can't stop thinking about what a wonderful neighbor I had and truly didn't have "the time'" to really get to know you, this will always be a lesson to me, get close to those who inspire you, you don't know how much time you will have together!

Adam Rich

December 4, 2009

I will forever be grateful for the man you were, and the lessons you taught through your gentle nature and your accepting ideology. Not one person who met you failed to gain from your presence; if they did, they are foolish and unfortunate. I will miss you and your conversations dearly. But I will forever be a better person because of you. Thank you for your kindness, your respect, your friendship and your time. You are what I aspire to be. God be with you til we meet again, my friend.

Emily Schmuhl

December 4, 2009

Doug was my first professor in my first class on my first day at Westminster. He had a profound influence on me, immediately, helping me make that transition from high school to college, helping me to challenge all my constructs. And he was funny as hell.

Nicki B.

December 3, 2009

Doug was one of the best professors and greatest influences upon my life up to this point. He taught philosophy like poetry and everything turned to light in his grasp. He was jovial and kind and I will never forget his ironic expressions.

I'll "catch some fat air on the half pipe" for you next time I hit the slopes, Doug. Thanks for the good place you occupy in my memories.

December 3, 2009

Some of my fondest memories from Westminster are from classes with Doug. I especially loved his R2D2 impressions, his prizes for the winners of the daily "worst fallacy contest," and the way he described the harmony of the spheres. He is a great man and will be missed.

Austin Hudson

December 3, 2009

Doug was a great teacher and an even better man. Thank you for being an inspiration to all of us, and opening us up to all the possibilities of the world.

December 3, 2009

Doug was one of the best professors I have ever had. Just by talking to him you could see the beauty that rested within him. He was an amazing person and has made a difference in my life I will never forget.

Quayle M. Chew

December 3, 2009

I am very sorry to hear that our world is now without Doug. But am glad that he is free from suffering now. Doug was a wonderful and kind person, who truly was able to love people as people and see beyond the masks we all wear. "The Olive Branch" will stay with me forever. Thank you Doug. May Peace be upon you. May the smoke rise into the heavens, and join with the Sky. May the Mother embrace you back into her bosom. And may your light live on. Namaste friend. See you on the other side. ~Quayle M. Chew

Jessica McKelvie

December 3, 2009

Doug was a true Renaissance man. I have so many fond memories of him inside and outside the classroom. He was wise beyond his years but always held on to his childlike curiosity, a quality I had always admired. He will be missed.

Lauren Robinson

December 3, 2009

I only spoke individually to Doug once, but I was truly impressed. Despite everything happening in his life, he seemed genuinely interested in mine. He was inquisitive and respectful. I believe that those of us who did not know him missed a great opportunity and relationship.

Amanda Sletta

December 3, 2009

I had the pleasure of being one of Doug’s students at Westminster. He did more than teach me philosophy or inspire an interest in film; he inspired me as a person and as an artist. Doug was the personification of love. I will never forget him or the way that the beauty of the world flowed from his pen, paintbrush, or words to all of us, his students.

Joel C. Everts

December 3, 2009

I am deeply saddened that we have lost such a friend as Doug. His wit, wisdom and humanity touched everyone who knew him. Although he has shuffled off this mortal coil to continue his journey and we cannot talk face to face, his art and poetry will always speak to us. When we lose someone we love part of us dies too. It is just a matter of time before our bodies catch up.
Farewell Doug and Bon Voyage.

Matt Thompson

December 3, 2009

There aren't proper words in the English language to express what the world has lost.

No one has ever inspired me with his or her passion, principles, and strength of character to the degree that Doug did.

There aren't proper words to express what the world has lost.

Breanne Eddington

December 3, 2009

What an amazing professor, mentor, and friend. I will always remember the important lessons he taught me about life and myself. He will be truly missed.

Mark Rubinfeld

December 3, 2009

An amazing person. An amazing life. Doug’s lasting legacy is his students who, thanks to his teaching, can now teach, themselves, the love of learning.

Jeffrey Gold

December 2, 2009

I'm sorry to hear of our loss. I met Doug many years ago when his friend Paul Babin came to town and delivered a lecture on his work in Hollywood. After the lecture, a few of us went to Fiddler's Elbow to extend an enjoyable evening. I enjoyed meeting both Doug and Paul, and would occasionally visit Doug at his office on campus. He always asked me what was new, and then he would write down notes. Then he would share something in exchange---be it a new visual language, a poem, book, or film, and the interconnectivity of it all. I think what attracted me to Doug was his intellect and the ability to move between fields---because he lived those connections. Rather than protecting turf, he was more likely to exchange his "kingdom for a horse." Godspeed, my friend.

Travis Estes

December 2, 2009

Doug, I'm so glad we could share music together. You were always great conversation, and I will miss you.

Julie Sismondi

December 2, 2009

Doug was an astonishing professor, one of my all time favorites. We had some amazing talks and I gained so much wisdom from his words. No matter how busy he was he always made time for his students. He will not be forgotten, it is sad to know that he won't be around to influence later generations. I am so lucky to have met him and gain from his spirit.

Chris LeCluyse

December 2, 2009

Doug, I'm glad we could share your last class together and see what a difference you made in the lives of your students. I'm sorry we couldn't realize your wish of teaching together again. We all learned a lot, though, didn't we?

Karen Dall

December 2, 2009

I meet Doug for a few days as a caregiver for him. I got to talk to him and see a glimpse of his great talent. Thank you for the brief words of wisdom. May God bless you.......and paint the world beautiful.

Brittany Cloward

December 2, 2009

Professor Wright was such an inspiration. Thank you for opening the doors to my creativity. You will be missed.

Peggy Calvert

December 2, 2009

Poet, philosopher, dreamer, teacher.
User of words to open minds and create ideas. Artist, appreciator of life and all of it's ironies.
EMHS friend, Vanguard to the end.
Here is to you.
There are lots of poets, philosophers, dreamers, and teachers in heaven. Enjoy the conversation!

Justin Wood

December 2, 2009

To Doug:
Rest in peace. I regret not getting to know you better. I enjoyed being your comic foil (and occasional straight man) in the classroom, and valued our more serious conversations after class.

I discovered examples of your poetry and painting online after learning of your illness. You inspired me to consolidate my portfolio of written and visual works, to celebrate them as valid, and to realize that they weren't discrete and separate aspects of my persona.

Thank you for all the lessons you taught me, as a professor and a human being.

To all Doug's close friends:
My thoughts are with you as you struggle with the loss of a great and benevolent man. He will be missed.

Amram Musungu

December 2, 2009

Prof. Wright was a true hero to me. We will miss him. May God rest his soul in eternity. Heros come and go but their memories will live in ours forever. Such was a man of great honor and love. Thank you for letting me and others get to know you. Rest in Peace.

Alumni 2002
Amram Musungu
Kenya East Africa

Jessica Whetman

December 2, 2009

I will miss your friendly face and the heart felt chats that we used to have in the library. You were one of a kind and could always put a smile on my face.

Gretchen Siegler

December 2, 2009

I began as your colleague teaching together, became your friend sharing birthdays together,and then in these last eight months watching you die, became your student learning about life. Thanks Doug.

Keith Embray

December 2, 2009

A great person and great man, that I consider myself lucky to have known for the past four years. Rest in peace Doug, you will be sorely missed.

Big Keith

Lori Pottinger

December 2, 2009

We miss you already, Doug. Thank you for instilling your appreciation for life and beauty in your friends and students. Your creativity lives on in the minds of those you inspired (in other words, everyone you met!), and your sense of humor will always be the highest bar for all things funny.

Aaron Thompson

December 2, 2009

Doug was such a great teacher. Seeing his Cheshire cat side lip tilt snear at times in class always reaffirmed his amazing jovial and inherent humor. You always knew his teaching was treading down toward an intellectual punch line with a deep sense of philosophy as he played off his passion and political ideals in such a coy manner. He was certainly one fun teacher to watch for his great and yet reserved facial expressions.

Utah has lost one of the great teachers.

Nan McEntire

December 2, 2009

What a courageous and creative man Doug was. His students were lucky! I'm sure they will continue to tell "Doug" stories in the coming years, keeping his spirit alive.

Kathy Hudson

December 2, 2009

Although I did not personally know Doug, I felt I did through listening to my son talk so highly of him. I know that through his guidance and support at Westminster, my son became a better person and gained a great love for learning. Even though Doug is no longer with us, his legacy will live on through his students who had the utmost admiration for him.

Melissa Burridge

December 2, 2009

I will never forget Doug. From the day he so clearly conveyed Plato's Allegory of the Cave - to the end, he was an elegant and magnificent teacher and artist. Soar Doug.

December 2, 2009

God bless you, Doug. You were an amazing teacher and a great friend, even if I never fully expressed how much I valued your friendship.

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