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Judith Illes
June 17, 2025
Terry-It´s opening game day today for the Cubbies. But, you know that. Go Cubs!!
Judith Illes
June 17, 2025
I´m sitting at a friend´s house in Chicago, remembering you sweet big brother. I´m sending you a big loving " Go Cubs"! Miss you every day.
Judy Illes
June 18, 2022
Love and miss you every single day big brother.
Steve Avery
June 17, 2022
Thank you, again, Dr. Illes, for everything!!
Lauren
February 14, 2022
Dad, your influence of love and togetherness has only rippled and multiplied since you've been gone. Thank you so much for showing us what love looks like. I miss you so much and I know you'd be so proud of me right now.
Judy Illes
June 22, 2021
Dear Steve A. We were so touched by your beautiful memory 11 years after Terry’s passing. It’s comforting to know that others still think of Terry and remember his kindness and generosity. That you took the time to post a memory made us smile. On behalf of Terry’s family, sincere gratitude. We miss him dearly.
Steve A.
June 21, 2021
I have a Facebook memory that shows up on this day every year. Dr. Illes was so kind and caring to my son when he attended Riverton Elementary. My son loved him. I was heartbroken when I heard of his passing 11 years ago today. I hope his family is doing well. I wish he got to see the Cubbies win the World Series a few years ago. RIP.
June 17, 2012
Happy Father's Day dad. Thinking of you.
Trev
August 2, 2011
Thinking of you today just like every other.
forget me not and tulip
Judy Illes
June 20, 2011
Hope
Hope is the thing with feathers
That perches in the soul,
And sings the tune--without the words,
And never stops at all,
And sweetest in the gale is heard;
And sore must be the storm
That could abash the little bird
That kept so many warm.
I've heard it in the chillest land,
And on the strangest sea;
Yet, never, in extremity,
It asked a crumb of me.
poem by Emily Dickinson
Ruth Hines
May 11, 2011
I just learned the news of Terry's passing. He was such a wonderful teacher to many. My husband and I took his "Parenting Children with ADHD" class a couple of years ago and are often going back to our notes and relying on his knowledge for assistance and assurance. He was such an inspiration and gave us a sense of hope as we parent an ADD/ODD child. He was such an asset to the local community as well as the national community of those with ADHD and I hope his family will find some comfort that his legacy will live on.
April 10, 2011
Thinking about you Terry. Missing you. Sending love and light always to your family, so proud of them all, so loving. Your sister, Jude I miss you and it hurts.
Judy Illes
December 22, 2010
As our family gathers for the Christmas holiday in California, I am wondering who will corral everyone together for the movie fest. We were not allowed to see certain movies before Christmas, because Terry always had a list ready for Christmas movie fest. So many other voids are realities now. As all of you laugh and cry and share in amazing Terry stories I'll be there with you in spirit. I can just see Terry scouting out the best seats, delegating who sits next to whom, and then Terry escaping the theater in the beginning because he refused to watch trailers. He watched the first 15 minutes of a lot of other films. As with other ways that Terry lived life, he was a very unique person to go to a movie with. I'll be here in Wisconsin, sharing many tears of love, laughter and lonesome with all of you. Little sister, Jude
Brian Turner
November 13, 2010
Terry always made sure that I had somewhere to go on holidays since my family lives out of state now. He would go out of his way to make time to see how I've been doing whenever I went to his house. Miss you, Terry. Thanks for everything you did for me. You were like a second father to me.
Daniel Olympia
September 20, 2010
We only recently learned of Terry's passing and know that he will be deeply missed by his colleagues in school psychology. Terry had an irrepressible energy and a passion for his work with families, children and teachers. As a colleague, it was always a pleasure to see him at various meetings and talk "shop". He was an excellent role model for aspiring professionals. We will truly misss his presence. My condolences to his family.
Trevor
August 22, 2010
miss you dad.
Pete Levitt
August 22, 2010
I am so saddened by the loss of Terry Illes. I heard him lecture at the 2008 Anaheim, CA CHADD conference and recognized very quickly that he had insight and perspective on caring for these special kids that's unmatched. I feel a personal loss. I regret not being able to visit him at his office and learn more from this brilliant man. I wish everyone could have hear him.
Cameron Adams
August 10, 2010
Terry loved everyone who came into his home. He was incredibly welcoming and genuinely enjoyed the company of visitors regardless of political or ideological differences; for that, I respect him immensely and I will miss him.
Judy Illes
August 8, 2010
We miss you.
Mohamed Baayd
July 21, 2010
To me and my family Terry is still alive. We feel his wonderful spirit surrounding us everytime we think and talk about him. We miss his wonderful sense of humor, and we love him and his family very very much. God be with you Terry untill we meet again.
Jeremy Sorenson
July 11, 2010
My wife and I are sad to hear of his passing away. We were unaware of his death until just a week ago. Our child loved Doctor Illes and all that he meant to him. He truly made and impact on him for the better and we wish to thank him for that. What a good man he was to so many. thank you for sharing him with us. We will miss him greatly.
Mark and Laurie Lacy
July 7, 2010
Louise,
Mark and I were so sad to get the news of Terry's passing. I was lucky enough to work with Terry from my earliest days as an educator in Jordan and still remember with fondness and gratitude (and almost always with a giggle)so much of my time with Terry. Proving how small this valley really is, Mark had a different opportunity to meet and enjoy Terry's company. Most telling was Terry's willingness and actual enthusiasm to jump in and offer expert advice and assistance to our family at a moment's notice. He truly was one of the great contributions to our lives. He will be missed.
judy Illes
July 1, 2010
I just want to thank you all for taking the time to honor Terry and share your stories. Truly brings comfort to his family during such a sad time.
Terry's youngest sister,
Judy
Sandra Rief
July 1, 2010
It was such a privilege to know Terry through CHADD and elsewhere, and I am so saddened and shocked by his passing. He was such a wonderful, giant-hearted, incredibly skilled, talented and dedicated psychologist/educator. Terry shared so generously of his time, expertise, extraordinarily creative ideas/techniques, and was always so very modest and humble. He touched countless lives and contributed so much through his work at the local and national level on behalf of children with ADHD, and he did so with such warmth, caring, high energy, and humor. Terry will be deeply missed by so many. My prayers and heartfelt sympathy to his wonderful family. May you find comfort and strength in these difficult days ahead.
Amy Jex
June 28, 2010
I took Terry's community ed "Positive Parenting for the ADHD Child" last fall. I'm sure that my view of my child and my parenting strategies will be forever changed by that course. What a wonderful gift he gave to both children and their parents. I hope you can find comfort in thinking about his legacy. Thanks for sharing your wonderful husband and father with the community.
Iris
June 28, 2010
I was very saddened by Terry's death. I had the privledge of meeting him at a CHADD conference. He was inspiring, motivating and a breath of fresh air, for this tired mother of two boys with ADHD. He was a wonderful human being who in a short time impowered me to do the same for my children. He also reminded me to lighten up and have fun in the process. I will truely miss him.
Daren Mortenson
June 25, 2010
Terry Illes came into my family's life at a very challenging time. He taught us to love and accept our children unconditionally, and he gave us so much hope for their future. He had a unique gift in his ability to connect with us and increase our understanding. We will be forever grateful. We feel not only sadness, but true sense of loss at his passing. His contribution to this world was immeasurable.
Lorraine
June 25, 2010
Terry's knowledge and ability to share it has changed my life and that of my son with ADHD. Thank you Terry!!! To his family I am deeply sorrowful.
Kim Gambles
June 24, 2010
Louise, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know he was the sunshine in you and the kids life and will be sorely missed by all who knew him. He was always quick to smile and was so supportive of your kids interest and activities. Tom and I are sorry we missed the funeral but want you to know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love Forever and Always, Tom and Kim Gambles (Orem,UT)
Jill Nebeker
June 24, 2010
Dr. Illes will be greatly missed at Riverton Elementary. He always made time for you and would always find a way to meet your child's needs. Thanks for letting him bless our lives the past years.
Ginger Lewis
June 24, 2010
I feel honored to have been able to know Dr. Illes this last school year. He has helped me to be a better parent and look at parenting in a different way. What a blessing he has been to countless kids and families. He gave support and love to every child he knew and helped lighten the load of so many parents. My thoughts and prayers are with his family at this time.
Kade Johnson
June 24, 2010
When I was a school psychologist intern a few years ago, Terry was my supervisor. Our weekly supervision visits not only helped me in my career, but changed my life in so many other ways. Terry taught me how to be real, how to see things in creative ways, and how to have fun while doing it. When children came into his office, Terry always had something positive (or sarcastic, depending on the relationship he had with the child) to say to them. It was clear that Terry personally knew the kids and loved them. I count Terry as a true friend and will dearly miss him. To Louise, Trevor, Alex and Lauren, though I have not personally met you, I know you are dear people. Terry spoke often and lovingly about you. Thank you for sharing your husband and father with me.
Vivian Geroux
June 24, 2010
I have nothing but fond memories of going to Terry and Louise's house as a child and how welcome Terry made me feel. He was an excellent cook, always kind, was caring and concerned for others and obviously truly loved by family and friends. I count myself blessed to have known Terry and to have him as a part of my family.
Doug Moser
June 24, 2010
Louise, so sorry to hear of Terry's passing. I really enjoyed Terry's conversation and his dedication to you and the children. I pray you find comfort during this time of sorrow. Terry is a great example.
JM Lozano
June 24, 2010
Terry was such a blessing to the special needs children at Riverton Elementary. They will miss him each week as will the teachers in the cluster program. Terry was a support both academically and emotionally to parents and teachers. We will feel the loss of Terry every day. We love you Terry and wish your family all our love and prayers.
Lynn
June 24, 2010
Terry and I started our careers as School Psychologists in the Jordan District on the same day. We somehow ended up sitting next to each other and found out we were both originally from Illinois and that we shared a very similar and sarcastic sense of humor. I ended up having the honor of teaching parenting classes on AD/HD at the Jordan Family Education Center with Terry for over 22 years. Terry taught me many things; about AD/HD, about life, about education, about how he truly loved his family and his one true love, Louise. Terry always be missed and will never be forgotten.
Marissa Samake
June 23, 2010
Louise, our family is so sorry to hear about Terry. Your family has been an awesome blessing to us. Terry was a wonderful example of what family life should be and how a father should be. His awesome personality and kind, generous, funny spirit will always be with us. He will be dearly missed. Our prayers and thoughts are with your family. We love you. Yeah, Marissa, Keanen, Kadi and Carmen
Joan Smith
June 23, 2010
Terry was incredible! I worked with him for a couple of years and he was as good with us teachers as he was with the students. He will be missed.
Scott Bailey
June 23, 2010
My parents and I came to Terry after being kicked out of Judge High School. I was a typical ADD teenager. Perfect attendance, and straight F's. I remember he offered me some Reese's peanut butter cups and coke the first time I met him. By the first year he also taught me not to speed more then 7 miles an hour on the freeway. He helped me learn about my ADD, and how to use it to enhance my life. Terry's passing was brought to my attention this evening right after work. My Mom called and made sure to do it at a time that wouldn't make my day a wreck. Terry was/is the most influential person I have ever had the pleasure to have met in any capacity. I would not be where I am in my 32 year life without him. He is in my prayers and thoughts. Thank you Terry for everything. Including buying my old ping golf clubs from me so I was able to afford a new set with grooves on the 8 iron. :)
Steve Avery
June 23, 2010
Dr. Illes will be missed by countless students and parents: current, past, and future.
He helped Lan and us so much in his years at Riverton, that I could never express my appreciation purely, but I hope you know you did. He bent over backwards to help him, and you comforted me when things didn't look so great.
I actually thought about e-mailing you a few weeks ago when Lan finished 7th grade, to let you know he did well, but I put it off....I regret that now.
Please know you made a difference, not only for Lan and me, but for many other people and kids. You will be missed, and the world has a void in it now.
valerie olson
June 23, 2010
There was no one like Terry! We loved working with him at the Jordan Family Education Center. Anyone who ever crossed his path will remember him and the way he cared about the kids and their families. We loved his sense of humor and I never hung up the phone without smiling after talking with him. I will miss him, yet keep his wise advice and comical antics with me always.
Angie Geigle
June 23, 2010
When my 6th grader came home and told us the news, we were all very saddened. My 11th grade son told us that he was at Riverton Elementary and Dr. Illes stopped him, called him by first and last name and asked him how he was doing. He had a wonderful way about him. He remembered and cared for each individual child. He will be missed!
Stephanie Hansen
June 23, 2010
It was our privilege to have Dr. Illes's influence in our lives. At school, helping and counseling our children, and the class he taught through Jordan's Continuing Ed. He has done so much good in so many lives. Thank you, Dr. Illes!! Our prayers are now with your family.
Ann Usher
June 23, 2010
To Judy and her family - Our sympathy goes out to you. We hold you in our hearts. Ann, Cady and Sarah
Rebecca Evans
June 23, 2010
It was my pleasure to have worked with Terry! His knowledge and sense of humor will always be remembered.
Valerie Olson
June 23, 2010
There was no one like Terry! We loved working with him at the Jordan Famiy Education Center. Anyone who ever crossed his path will remember him and the way he cared about the kids and their families. We loved his sense of humor and I never hung up the phone without smiing after talking with him. I will miss him, yet keep his wise advice and comical antics with me always.
Steve & Sue Loucks
June 23, 2010
Our deepest sympathies go out to the entire Illes family. May memories take root and help sustain you in the months and years ahead.
Steve & Sue Giles
June 23, 2010
He was in a league all his own, nobody new or worked better with children than Terry. There are great educators around the world, but non more passionate or determined to do the right thing for the individual than Terry. We have lost one of the very best. We thank his family for sharing him.
Cindy & Mike Beauvais
June 23, 2010
Judy, we are so sorry for your loss, and send our deepest sympathies to you, and your entire family.
Diane Mazingo
June 23, 2010
Thank you for allowing us to send you our thoughts and prayers, to your Family at this blessed time.
Dr. Illes was a piece of good fortune to our son Joel and to our family. He has helped our son find friends and be the little boy he needed to be at Riverton Elementary. He will be dearly missed. - Mazingo family
June 23, 2010
What a loss. My condolences to Terry's family. He contributed much to Jordan School District and was such a gentle person. We will miss him so much.
Marjean Carey
School Psychologist
Jordan School District
Miller's
June 23, 2010
Our son Hayden was in Terry's Friday class for kids with ADHD. We are so sorry for your loss. He taught Hayden how to interact better with other children and helped us understand ADHD! We will all miss him at Riverton Elementary!
Audrey Rupp
June 23, 2010
Our deepest condolences to your family. We are grateful for our association with Dr. Illes, as he helped our daughter for the past 3 1/2 years at Riverton Elementary. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Sincerely,
Brad and Audrey Rupp
Kristin Vanstaveren
June 23, 2010
Terry was an inspriation & blessing for my family! He will be missed dearly. He was such an advoocate for children and its such a loss for him to be gone. Our sympothy goes out to his family that he talked about with such love all the time. We greatly apprectiate all the hours that he gave to us to help our son & family.
Christine Everill
June 23, 2010
Thank you for sharing your husband and your father with the kids at RIverton Elementary. Our lives have been blessed and changed by knowing him. He was a terrific man and will be dearly missed.
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