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Douglas Dellinger Obituary
Douglas Molden Dellinger, age 63, passed away Monday, April 9, 2012 in West Valley City, Utah.
He was born May 11, 1948 in Lamar, Colorado to Glen and Doris Dellinger. He graduated from Granger High School. Douglas married Debbie Lee Parry in November 1978. He was an avid golfer, built a house for his Harley and was devoted to his kids and family. He served in the Military with distinction; he did a tour of Vietnam and retired with Full Honors as a 1SG from the UTARNG. He was a friend, mentor and confidant to many. Some of his proudest moments were working with the "Wounded Warrior" Program, and helping the soldiers re-adjust to civilian life.
Douglas is survived by his loving children, Jason (Jenni) Langford, Sean (Carrie) Dellinger and DJ (Melissa) Dellinger; siblings, Patricia (Alan) Wood, Phil (Kay) Dellinger, Pamela (Dave) Crosby, Kevin (Janeen) Dellinger, Catherine Taylor and Ford (Leah) Dellinger; 12 grandchildren and one great grandchild.
He is preceded in death by his parents; wife, Debbie; son, Jeff, and grandson, Eli.
Funeral Services will be held Friday, April 13, 2012 at 12:00 noon at Valley View Funeral Home, 4335 W. 4100 So. The family will receive friends at a visitation Thursday evening from 6 until 8 p.m. at Valley View Funeral Home, and one hour prior to the service on Friday. Interment: Valley View Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations be made to the George Wahlen VA Medical Center, 500 Foothill Drive, SLC, UT 84148.
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Memories and Condolences
for Douglas Dellinger
jeffrey Hjelseth
May 2, 2012
Doug will be missed. He was kind and thoughful leader. Until we meet again.
Brian Tarbet
May 1, 2012
Doug Dellinger was a fine Soldier and a great friend to many, both in uniform and those who love Soldiers. I will miss my association with him and the great zest he brought to his service as one of our finest Citizen-Soldiers. I want his family to know how much he was admired in the Utah National Guard and the Army and how deeply he will be missed. Thanks Top for your marvelous service.
Jaime Garcia
April 24, 2012
Tops!!! my BIG brother it is true that heaven has gained a great warrior Bulldog DMD. Thank You for being there for me upon my return from Iraq. You made such a great difference in my life and kept me moving forward. Make sure you keep those Harley storie going you know I will. Brother you are in my thoughts my heart where no one can touch you. Our Lord has now re united you with Debbie and Jeff you lucky bulldog. Dj, Mel, shawn and the remaining family I love you and keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Miss all of you. See you later at one point or another.
PAM CROSBY
April 18, 2012
MY BIG BROTHER WILL ALWAYS BE WITH ME IN HEART, SOLE AND MIND. I AM SO THANKFUL THE PAIN IS GONE DOUG AND BELIEVE ME YOU HAVE DEALT WITH ENOUGH OF IT OVER LAST TWO YEARS. YOU HAVE RAISED A GREAT FAMILY AND THEY WILL BE OK, I PROMISE. PLEASE REST IN PEACE, NOW DEB IS FINALLY READY FOR YOU, (STANDING JOKE WITH US TWO).I LUV YOU BRO AND I MISS YOU.
Mercedes Garcia
April 17, 2012
My Prayers will always follow your family. I will miss you so much. You were my mentor with all the wisdom you gave me, to see me threw my dark hours. You will always be my TOP! Thank You for everything and we will meet again. BIG HUG!!! Always..
Adriana Vargas
April 16, 2012
you will be greatly missed we all love you and will always miss how funny you always were!! Jeff and Debbie are now in good company the best company!!
Art Olson (SGM Ret)
April 15, 2012
I was very sad to hear of Doug's passing. We shared many good times when we worked together in the Utah National Guard. A shared Vietnam experience gave us common ground for many shared "War Sories". He always had the welfare of our soldiers at heart and strived to make their experience on returning better than what we endured. I valued his friendship and advise during our time together. He'll be missed by all the soldiers he helped over the years. We'll all miss you sense of humor and your caring attiutude. Ford and family I ask God's blessing on you to remember the great times that you all shared.Rest in peace my friend. .
Nicole Anderson
April 13, 2012
Dear Dellinger Family,
When I found out about Doug's passing I was surprised. I pray that you will feel at peace every time you think about him. I ask for a special blessing on your family and his grandson, Jeffrey Langford. Please accept my condolences to your family. Blessings to you all.
Sincerly, Nicole Anderson & Brittney, Justin & Jennifer Othon
April 13, 2012
Doug what a ride! Our condolences to your family. It's been a while, but I'll never forget the good and the not so good times. How about all the time spent at Armory #1 in the good old days. God be with you.
Lawnie D. Rasmussen, MSG, US Army Retired, Etna, WY
Elaine Cone
April 13, 2012
Dear Dellinger Family, I was very sad to hear of Doug's passing. I knew it was coming but hoped the Lord would let him stay for our sakes. He was 3 weeks younger than me but I could always count on him for advice, sympathy or jokes to get me through tough times. I was his "nap time" buddy in kindergaten though we never napped just got into trouble. The last time I saw him we were seniors in high school, he was toosing a baseball to himself. I will miss our talks and his saying "love you kid". Rest in peace my good cousin.
Greg Bearnson
April 13, 2012
Dellinger family, I am saddened to hear of Dougs death, please accept my sincer condolences. It has been many years since I use to spend so much of my time at the Dellinger home when we were growing up. Life was so different then, I enjoy the memories of Granger and all the friendships we had. I hope your memories will help you thru these difficult times.
Rest in peace, your old friend, Greg
Barbara Johnson
April 13, 2012
Dear Dellingers, its a sorrow filled note from the Mckowens. For some reason I decided I needed to search the obits, I had know idea it would be Dougs face that would be staring back at me. I am so sad about your loss, boy did we have the best childhoods, our parents were nuts and there were laughs around every corner. We were just talking about how much fun it was to drive to Henefer, while Glen drank beers and smoked, in of course a station wagon. Doug being chased by Doris with a broom all over the duplex back yard. Good Times!!! Love and hugs to you all.
Phil Dellinger
April 12, 2012
Doug was absolutely a one of a kind brother in our Dellinger family. He possessed that tremendous ability to seek out the humor in any given situation. He always had that mischievous smile along with a twinkle in his eye that could cause those around him to smile also, if not outright laugh. He did take his military service seriously, especially the “Wounded Warrior” Program. He treated his soldiers with the dignity and respect that they so richly earned.
Doug will be missed, but never forgotten.
Kim R Staker
April 12, 2012
My condolences to the entire Dellinger family. It was an honor and a blessing to have known and served with Doug. He once told me his favorite nickname was "Bull Dog". In retrospect, Doug tackled his journey head-on with a deep passionate zest for life and a bull-dogish "never say die" attitude in caring for and taking care of people. He was a treasure for the Wounded Warrior project. "BullDog"! Your earthly physical vessel may be gone, but your spirit will always remain. I shall not forget you or what you taught me! Semper Procedamus!
Kim R Staker
April 12, 2012
My condolences to the entire Dellinger family. It was an honor and a blessing to have known and served with Doug. He once told me his favorite nickname was "Bull Dog". In retrospect, Doug tackled his journey head-on with a deep passionate zest for life and a bull-dogish "never say die" attitude in caring for and taking care of people. He was a treasure for the Wounded Warrior project. "BullDog"! Your earthly physical vessel may be gone, but your spirit will always remain. I shall not forget you or what you taught me! Semper Procedamus! (Ever Onward!)
April 12, 2012
Thank you Doug for always being so good and kind to me. I am so glad that I was able to let you know just how wonderful I always thought you were. You will always hold a special place in my heart.
Much Love, Tabatha
April 12, 2012
Ford & Leah.....our deepest condolences for the loss of your brother. We are thinking of you and wishing you comfort. Rob & Leslie Moosman
john wester
April 12, 2012
Bulldog and I met when I was assigned to the Wounded Warrior Unit at Camp Williams. We had many things in comon and it was an immediate friendship. Later on, they hired my wife, Jan to work out there, at the same time when Doug was there as a civilian administrator. Doug was one of the few people that Jan took a liking to, and they also became friends. We had to pay our respects when Debbie passed away, not kowing that Doug and I would soon share another kindred event, when Jan was taken from me in March of 2010. Doug was one of the first to offer his condolences, support, and a shoulder to cry on. He was a great man, a good soldier, and cared deeply for all those who were around him. I shall miss him. I am sure that he and Jan are sitting somewhere in heaven, making jokes about anything they can think of, but still watching out for those of us still waiting to make the final deployment.
John Wester
CW5, Special Forces
David & Angie Beckwith
April 12, 2012
We are soo sorry to hear about your loss, our prayers are with you all.
Clayton Draper
April 12, 2012
I remember when Doug moved to Granger. He came over to my home and did Ed Sullivan impersonations. We laughed, what a great gift to share with the world.
Randy Butehorn
April 12, 2012
Doug, words cannot describe the loss that your passing leaves behind. I truely enjoyed our friendship. We had great times togeather. I will always value the friendship we had.
Rest in peace.
Randy Butehorn
April 12, 2012
I'm so sorry that Doug lost the fight. We went to Granger High/class of 66 with Doug. He was always fun loving, kind of guy. He always put a smile on our faces, a laugh in our hearts, and made everyone feel so very special. Dennis & I will remember Doug as the wonderful person he has always been. Best to the family for I know he will be missed greatly. But, he is in a better place now, and out of pain and discomfort.
Dennis J. Atkinson &
Sherry Pringle Atkinson of Snowflake,AZ
Richard Kniss
April 12, 2012
I am sorry to hear the loss of your brother Phill. You take care of yourself along with the rest of the Dellinger family.
Robyn LeFevre
April 12, 2012
Ford I am sorry to hear about your father, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Jan Watts
April 12, 2012
I worked with Doug in the Wounded Warrior program. He cared for every soldier from his heart and went the extra mile to get the benefits they deserved and earned. Will really miss you Doug! Best to your family as they deal with the big hole your passing left in their heart. Safe passage my friend. Creator, smile upon this one and embrace him when he arrives. Aho! (amen)
Lynn Hinckley
April 11, 2012
The world lost a wonderful, caring man, who liked to act ornery at times. Doug will be missed.
Jeff hjelseth
April 11, 2012
Doug, you were a wonderful, thoughtful and loving person,LTC Jeff being deployed to Utah,working at Camp Williams with you gave us such a kind person to know and friend that had a smile and laugh for everything, the North Dakotans are going to miss golfing with you and enjoying your loving presence.
Blessing to your family in this time
RIP
Love LTC. Jeff and Jean Hjelseth
April 11, 2012
Love you uncle Doug and going to miss all the laughs. I will never forget the memories we had with you growing up.
Love & Miss you,
Justin Dellinger
Blake&Mindi Dellinger
April 11, 2012
Love you tons Uncle Doug! Thanks for all the wonderful memories that you have left us all with. You truly will be missed by all who have had the pleasure to have known you. Love you
Kevin Dellinger
April 11, 2012
Doug thanks for letting me be your little
brother and buddy love you.
Michael Krelo
April 11, 2012
Doug you were like a family member to me. We go back over 30 years and my first exposure to you was at Recruiting School with the National Guard in 1981. We had one heck of a good time playing softball and those memories will never be forgotten. I didn't have a chance to see you for several years. RIP good buddy!!!
Josh Crosby
April 11, 2012
We love and miss you Uncle Doug. You were one of the funniest guys we've ever known. I'm going to miss your smile and being around you. Love you
Fred Ketterer
April 11, 2012
Doug my long time Buddy,Pal and Friend you will be greatfully missed God Bless and may peace be with you and all your family members. My prayers are with you all.
Carole Shaughnessy
April 11, 2012
Doug my prayers are with you and yours, and I feel so blessed to have had those years working in Recruiting with you. We could always count on your sense of humor and facial expressions to make us laugh and make life much easier. You took care of us all in life and will continue to be such a awesome Angel now.
Jennifer Brady
April 11, 2012
You will be missed. Sending thoughts and prayers to all suffering the loss of one heck of a guy.
Jo McCandless
April 11, 2012
Doug,
I will miss the gentle way in which you had at bringing laughter to almost any situation. Our loss is Heaven's gain. My sincerest condolences to all of your family! Rest in peace, my friend!
Neal Ketterer
April 11, 2012
To Dougs family, I remember Doug when I was a little kid in Granger Utah, I am Neal, Fred Ketterer's youngest brother. Even then Doug was a good man. He and Fred were best buds. I am so sorry for your loss. Just know that Doug is in a better place now. God bless you all.
Terry Smith
April 11, 2012
I have lost a long time friend who became an instant friend from the first time we met. Although it has been many years since we saw each other, I remember fondly the times we spent fishing on Strawberry. My deepest sympathy to Doug's family.
Julie Valdez
April 11, 2012
So sad to hear of your loss Ford, Leah and Family. Prayers sent your way.
Tony Dellinger
April 11, 2012
Thanks Uncle Doug for being my buddy! I'll miss you.
April 11, 2012
Doug, you were my first exposure to recruiting for the Guard, you were my trainer and my confidant. You nicknamed me Rookie and you called me that for over 27 years that I worked with you. Your sense of humor was second to none. You used to get away with saying things that most people wouldn't dream of saying, but somehow you pulled it off. I'll miss you, but I'll always have the memories . RIP Doug.
Kent Tidwell
Tim Walden
April 11, 2012
Well, a sad day indeed. One of the telling things about you was how I heard of your passing. A friend told a friend who told a friend. What this tells me is that everyone knew you, and everyone loved you! That's just how you touched people. Rest well my friend!
Debbie Ipson
April 11, 2012
Doug, we will miss you. You were upbeat and making us laugh til the end. Until we meet again, our loss, heaven's gain.
Wendy Charlton
April 11, 2012
I'm going to miss your loving smile and wisdom that you were always willing to share that always included a bit of levity. You were a great example of true compassion and faith. I love you and I'm thankful that I had you in my life. You were and always will be an amazing uncle. You will never be forgotten. Peace be with you.
Lori Johanson
April 11, 2012
I have great memories of many family times spent with you and the rest of the Dellinger Clan. It was never a dull moment, but the love always was present. I know you are in a better place, free of pain, but you will be miss. I want express my love and condolence to your family. One thing about the Dellinger's, they are always there when you need them. Rest in peace, knowing that you are loved by many.
April 11, 2012
I am proud to call Doug my friend. He is missed greatly. John and Kim Cockrell (South Jordan, Ut)
Kay Edenburn
April 11, 2012
Rest in Peace my friend.
judie chaudoin
April 11, 2012
Doug,
Even though i have not seen you in a while, i want you to know you was truely a great friend who i could not wait to see everyday. Thank you for all your advice and know i truely will miss you.
Steve and Merrilee Melton
April 11, 2012
Pops became a special member of our family. We will miss him always, but we will smile when we remember how his huge personality filled the room and made us laugh. He was a kind and loving husband, father, grandfather and friend.
John Crosby (1SG RET)
April 11, 2012
Doug, my friend, although I have not seen you in a few years, I'll miss you old Buddy! I will always remember meeting you in the long hallway at the Draper Complex where we could be found handing out friendly, funny, and mostly uncalled for harassment to any passersby we chose. Old retired First Sergeants are like kids and we were damn good kids! I hope you rest well my friend. My sincere condolences you're your family you were a “Great Guy” but, they already know that. So long my friend.
Cathy Taylor
April 11, 2012
I know your in a better place now even though it's sad to have you gone, we know your not in any pain anymore. Going to miss the phone calls where you would never hang up till I told you I loved you as it was something you always said. Will miss your funny jokes as they were much funnier than mine! Your kids will be ok as they have a big family to look after them. Miss ya already!
Sue Stallings
April 10, 2012
My prayers are with the family. Heaven has gained a mighty warrior and for now, I have lost a dear friend. Rest in peace, Doug. We miss you and we love you.
Sue Stallings and Dillon
Willard Blankenship
April 10, 2012
You'll always be in our hearts. The Blankenship Family,Willard,Roxie,Brenda,Becky,Gilbert & Judy
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