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Paul Heye Obituary
Col. Paul F. Heye, USAF (Ret.), age 71, went to be with his Lord and Savior on May 4, 2012. He was born in San Antonio in February 1941. Paul graduated from Central Catholic High School in 1958 and later from Texas A&M University in 1962. He continued to be an avid Aggie, supporting his university and his four children whom also became Aggie graduates. Paul served in the United States Air Force for 29 years, retiring as commander of Air Force NEWS at Kelly Air Force Base. In 1976, he was the first American given Die Goldene Zeile award for journalism in Germany. He was dedicated to serving his country. A wonderful husband, father, and grandfather, Paul loved his family well. His life's other passion was his involvement in the Catholic Church. With many military moves, Paul volunteered in many parishes in many positions. He was ordained a Deacon in the Archdiocese of San Antonio on September 12, 1999, and served St. Brigid Catholic Church until his death. Paul truly lived his faith and blessed many lives. Paul was preceded in death by his father, William Heye, mother, Alpha Kopplin Heye, and cherished grandson Trey Heye. Paul is survived by his adoring wife of 50 years, Mary Catherine Dunn Heye; sons: Paul F. Heye, Jr., and his wife Mary Jo, John Heye and his wife Eileen, Jeff Heye and his wife Amy; daughter Amy Heye Dunlap and her husband Brett; grandchildren: Christopher, Thomas, Ian, and Nicholas Heye; Megan and William Bunsey, Abby Heye; Will, Matthew, and Ellie Heye; Grady, Delaney, and Connor Dunlap; brother Bill Heye and his wife Joan; sister Judy Free and her husband Granville; sister Joan Grandjean and her husband Gene; and many other loving family members and friends. An exceptional man, husband, father, son, Opa, brother, uncle, and friend, Paul will be missed often and cherished always. The blessings he brought to us will continue in our hearts.
SERVICES
The family will receive friends at St. Brigid Catholic Church from 6:00-7:00 P.M. Sunday, May 6, 2012; A Holy Rosary will be recited at 7:00 PM. A Mass will be celebrated Monday, May 7, 2012 at St. Brigid Catholic Church at 10:00 A.M. Interment will follow at Holy Cross Cemetery. Memorial donations may be made in Paul's name to the St. Brigid building fund. You may sign the on-line guest book at www.missionparks.com under the obituary section.
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Cecil Newberry
April 30, 2021
Colonel Heye was my commander at AFNEWS. I was pleasantly surprised when he called me while I was in Korea on temporary duty. It was a pleasure when he pined my stripes on me. I still have the photo.
Amanda May
May 10, 2012
I had the pleasere of knowing Mr Heye and his wife for sometime. I have put him and his family in my prayers. He was a very happy man all the way til the end. When i heard of his passing i knew that his heart was with Jesus. Him and his wife have a very special place in my heart.
Carol Arbuckle
May 9, 2012
I will always remember how Paul ministered to my husband Ted and me at the time of Ted's passing. During those terrible five months Paul was always there at Ted's bedside with compassion and support. I felt so comforted when Paul was there when I couldn't be.
Everyone knew Paul was close to God by his example.
My heart goes out to you Mary Catherine and to your family. You are so loved and have my deepest sympathy.
Cecil Newberry
May 8, 2012
Rest on peace.
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Mattie Wilder
May 8, 2012
I worked for Colonel Heye at the Air Force News Agency. He was a great Commander, fair and honest with everyone and a really nice person. He will truly be missed by all who knew him. My condolences to the Heye family.
Jimmy Anderson
May 7, 2012
I recall Col Heye as a great commander, very reliable and fair to every Airman in his command. My sincere condolences to his family and may Paul Heye rest in peace in the arms of his Lord whom he served so dutifully.
Deacon Juan Espinosa
May 7, 2012
We continue in our faith to know God is good and creates us to keep him company, he now has a kind and gentle giant to keep him company. My friend and brother Paul. Yoli and I are so thankful to Mary Catherine for allowing Paul to reflect Gods love to his Parish. Together magnifying love to all they came into contact with.
The Foote Family
May 7, 2012
Our deepest sympathy to Mary Catherine and the Heye family. As next door neighbors for 18 years, we were blessed to have such a great man as our neighbor. Always quick to smile and say hello and ask how we were doing. You will be greatly missed. God Bless.
Terri Mabrito
May 7, 2012
Dear Heye Family, We are so grateful for the support that Deacon Paul and his family extended over the years to St. Peter St. Joseph Children's Home. Our prayers go out to you all. St. PJ's Staff
Ben Catalina
May 7, 2012
Paul was a dear friend as well as my first "boss" at Southwest Research Institute. He could always be counted on to be the calming voice at our project management work sessions and meetings. A big man with a gentle, peaceful demeanor. He will be missed dearly. Our prayers go out to all the Heye families.
Wayne Archer
May 7, 2012
My condolences and deepest sympathy goes out the the family of Deacon Paul. God Bless,
Deacon Wayne Archer
karen s cloud
May 7, 2012
To all of the Heye family, It is surreal to me that the brother of a friend of mine from high school would be 71. I went to IWHS with Joan, and, as strange as it seems, I have found myself thinking of those days we shared. I cannot say "I know how you feel", but I can send prayers and Angels to support you and to comfort you along this arduous journey. Although your path will be strewn with sad moments, it will also be layered with many happy memories of the days you spent with Paul. God always has a reason, and He has plans for Paul. He will be beside you for all the days you need Him, so look for one set of footprints, and lean on Him until you can, once again, stand tall and strong. And, when you least expect it, you will hear a laugh or feel a breeze, and know that God's newest angel is with you. God bless all of you. Joan, I am so sorry you have lost a brother, but, to Paul, he has just been found. Love to all, kc
The Faught Family
May 6, 2012
Although we never met Deacon Paul, as members of the St. Brigid church, we extend our deepest sympathy to the family during this difficult time.
May 6, 2012
The family of Ruth Coleman send their condolences and deepest Sympathy. Mom enjoyed her time spent with the St Brigid Community.
Mary Kay Colemn
Gwen and Wayne Pendergraff
May 6, 2012
Paul stood out, not just due to his stature, but because of his integrity and spiritual leadership at St. Brigid. His presence will continue to be felt in our midst. Our deepest sympathy to all of his family.
Geoff Baker
May 6, 2012
We join in prayers for Paul's family -- and for his peaceful passage to heaven. The Bakers crossed paths with Paul first in Germany and then again at Space Division in Los Angles, CA. I knew him to be a loyal friend, a leader, and a compassionate advocate for the military. A strong family man and always offering support. He will be missed - but his memory will not fade.
Apolonio (Nono) Flores
May 6, 2012
Saddened to learn of Paul's passing. We were classmates at Texas A&M. The Class of 1962 celebrated their 50th Year Class reunion last month. My condolence to the family.
May 6, 2012
Paul we will miss you very much. Miss your great big grin when you snagged a Bunco. Love from Terri, Bob and Heather
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