Deane Haskins

1930 - 2017

Deane Haskins obituary, 1930-2017, La Jolla, CA

Deane Haskins

1930 - 2017

BORN

1930

DIED

2017

Deane Haskins Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 7, 2018.
Deane Haskins January 13, 1930 - December 27, 2017 La Jolla Our father Deane Haskins was an energetic, fun dad of five children. Deane was well-spoken, well-informed, open-minded and optimistic. He was an avid reader of history, biographies and detective novels, and loved jazz and classical music. He was an enthusiastic tennis player and a Chargers fan. Originally from Abington, Massachusetts, Deane graduated from Harvard with a degree in history in 1951. As a Navy Lieutenant during the Korean War, he met his first wife, our mother Dolores DuCharme, at a USO dance in San Diego. After their wedding, they moved back to Boston while Deane attended Harvard Law School. In 1959, Deane opened his law office in La Jolla, and happily practiced real estate law for the next 56 years. He was an active member/president of the Town Council and Kiwanis Club in the 60s and 70s. Ever friendly, Deane whistled and greeted friends and strangers alike on his daily walks around town. A lifelong musician, Deane played tenor and baritone sax in big bands throughout college and in San Diego, including the Herb Pomeroy Orchestra and the Hal Crook band. Deane and his second wife, Virginia, enjoyed their children and their weekend home in Cantamar, in Baja. Deane and his third wife, Nena Jo, lived in Rancho Santa Fe and Fairbanks Ranch until their divorce in 2013. In his final years, he lived with his son Steve in La Jolla. Deane died peacefully at the La Jolla VA hospital. He is survived by his children: Mark of Encinitas, Steve of La Jolla, Elena of Sebastopol, and Marion and Jemma (Susan) of Maui, and five grandchildren. If you'd like to reach the family, e-mail Steve at [email protected], or comment in the online guestbook (info below).

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August 15, 2023

Dr Diana Lerner Pickett posted to the memorial.

December 24, 2018

kj posted to the memorial.

December 24, 2018

Cheryl posted to the memorial.

Dr Diana Lerner Pickett

August 15, 2023

I remember Deane fondly when he was with Haskins Kane and Nugent in thise grear brick officez in La Jolla... They were my lawyers when I was buildi g houses in Del Mar and RSF... he married my muirlands neighbor Nena Ji Hewett, a fellow realtor, pilot and law school student... I always enjoyed his wit and sagasity... he will be missed but had a good lufe .

kj

December 24, 2018

My condolences for your loss. May fond memories and the love of family and friends comfort you during this difficult time. Jeremiah 29:11.

Cheryl

December 24, 2018

I am so sorry for your loss. May the God of comfort give you peace and strength during this difficult time. Psalms 29:11.

Fran Van Da Griff

September 23, 2018

As a babysitter, i loved the whole family!

James Hewette

January 7, 2018

We remember Deane as a kind and thoughtful man. He is dearly missed. Our condolences.

Lynn K Peters

January 7, 2018

What a wonderful man he was...always fun and loving. I have so many wonderful memories of times in Mexico and La Jolla with the whole family. I love you all and send condolences and healing.

Love,

Lynn Riley Peters

With Virginia and her beloved dog Norman in Cantamar

Marion Haskins

January 7, 2018

With longtime secretary Dee Cavanagh

Marion Haskins

January 7, 2018

1984

Marion Haskins

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Carving turkey with Steve at Soledad Road house

Marion Haskins

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Mark's wedding

Marion Haskins

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With Elena

Marion Haskins

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Younger sister Patty

Marion Haskins

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Mark's wedding

Marion Haskins

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With children Elena, Steve, and Mark circa 1963

Marion Haskins

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Another engagement photo with Dolores

Marion Haskins

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Engagement photo with Dolores DuCharme

Marion Haskins

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Back in the day

Marion Haskins

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Deane's parents flanked by his sisters Anne and Patty

Marion Haskins

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Childhood home in Abington

Marion Haskins

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Navy 1952

Marion Haskins

January 7, 2018

Young Deane (18 years?)

Marion Haskins

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