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Joel Cutter Estes

1933 - 2015

Joel Cutter Estes obituary, 1933-2015, San Diego, CA

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1933

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2015

Joel Estes Obituary

Joel Cutter Estes July 9, 1933 - October 7, 2015 SAN DIEGO Joel Cutter Estes, age 82, passed away, surrounded by family, on Wednesday, October 7th. Born July 9, 1933 in Alexandria, Louisiana, he was primarily raised in Chester, CT. Following 4 years of Army R.O.T.C. at Yale University, Joel graduated in 1955 a second lieutenant and entered active duty at Fort Sill, OK. He was promoted to 1st lieutenant before his completion of duty in 1957. In 1963 Joel graduated from Yale Law School. He and his former wife, Thayer Hobson Esquirol moved to San Diego, CA that same year and Joel began a nearly 40 year law career as a law clerk with Judge James M. Carter. In 1963-71 Joel was a Partner/Associate with Higgs, Fletcher & Mack; 1971-77 Partner of Jones, Tellam, Irving & Estes; 1978-80 Partner of Tellam, Estes, Duckor & Spradling; 1980-82 Sole Practicioner; 1982-98 Principal, Estes & Hoyt; Of Counsel, Estes, Hoyt & Hansen until retiring in 1998. Joel was a member of the American Arbitration Association, the panel of the National Association of Securtiies Dealers, Inc., the New York Stock Exchange, the American Stock Exchange and the Association for Conflict Resolution. He served on the San Diego Superior Court Arbitration Panel and was the President, Trustee and Treasurer of the Reuben H. Fleet Space Theater (approx.1973), Director and Vice-President of the San Diego County Bar Association(1985-87) and past Director of the San Diego Opera. Survivors include Life Partner, Joanne Holderman, former wife Thayer J. Esquirol, Cary E. (daughter) and Michael A. Murphy (La Mesa, CA), Eleanor J. Estes (daughter, Los Angeles, CA), Isabelle E. (daughter) and Peter A. Nelson (Santa Cruz, CA), Philip S. (son) and Sarah M. Estes (La Mesa, CA) and six grandchildren: Joel M. Murphy, Heather J. Murphy, Samuel E. Nelson, Ursula T. Nelson, Henry S. Estes and Eleanor K. Estes. Joel was preceded in death by sister Cecilia Slack Estes and brother Richard Stockton Estes. As the wish for no service by Joel is respected, his remains will be interred at Miramar National Cemetery. In lieu of flowers please send any donations in Joel's name to the Reuben H. Fleet Science Center: P.O. Box 33303, San Diego, CA 92163. Attn: Matt Kirl, Development Department.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Oct. 25, 2015.

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Claudia Baker

November 8, 2015

My Dear Estes Family.....I read of your fathers passing. I am sad to hear it. You all played a huge part in my life and I have such warm, wonderful memories. Your Dad was pretty special........I am so sorry for your loss. All my love to you and yours.....xoxo

Kaye Hobson

October 31, 2015

Condolences to the Estes family for your loss. I have many memories of Joel and your family and know that he will be missed very much.

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