Search by Name

Search by Name

John Merrick Minshew

1946 - 2016

John Merrick Minshew obituary, 1946-2016, Lakeside, CA

BORN

1946

DIED

2016

John Minshew Obituary

John Merrick Minshew January 31, 1946 - August 7, 2016 Lakeside John Merrick Minshew, 70, of Lakeside, passed away at home, August 7, 2016 surrounded by family, longtime friends, and Sharp Hospice Care after a courageous 14-year battle of prostate cancer.John was born January 31, 1946 in Coronado, Calif. He grew up in Solana Beach (19 years), Encinitas (33 years), and resided in Lakeside the past 18 years. John was the 7th child of 12. He graduated from San Dieguito High School class of 1964, where he met the "love of his life," Cheryl Simonson, marrying July 3, 1965. He was an ironworker for 50 years. In 1991 he co-founded and co-operated Minshew Bros. Steel Construction Co., Inc. with brothers Jim and Dan. MBSCI is still currently owned and operating in Lakeside. John was a devoted loving husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend. His gentle nature, kindness, generosity and respect for all, gathered his many longtime friends and business associates.John, even from youth, was mechanical, creative and ambitious. In early years, his pleasure was building and enjoying off road vehicles, including Brawley Steel racing 1978-1980. He loved the outdoors including camping, fishing, and golf. He enjoyed spending the last 20 years with family and friends at his San Felipe, Baja home which he built and owned with sister-in-law and husband, Bill and Lorrie Seiler. John is survived by his devoted wife, Cheryl of 51 years, daughters Kristen Minshew of Santee and Staci Johnson (Brian) of Ramona; granddaughters, Shauna Harle (15), Holli Johnson (14), and grandson Branden Johnson (11). Also, six siblings: sisters Delores Thweatt (Larry) of Escondido, Mitzi Dodson (Ed) of Gold Beach, Oregon, Christine Pedersen of Pomeroy, Washington and Nancy Doherty of Valley Center, and brothers James Minshew (Cheryl) of Alpine and Victor Minshew of Alpine; sisters-in-law Margie Minshew of Valley Center, and Debbie Minshew of Valley Center, brothers-in-law Alvin Allen of Valley Center, and Stan Dunlap of Carlsbad, and sister-in-law and husband Bill and Lorrie Seiler of San Felipe, Baja; 12 nephews, 15 nieces, and many great-nieces and nephews and close dear friends.John was preceded in death by parents, Charles Dee and Fannie Lois Minshew, brothers, Charles Minshew and Daniel Minshew, and sisters, Frances Ardent, Sally Dunlap and Billie Jean Allen.The John Minshew Family give special thanks to EuroMed, Phoenix, AZ (alternative), Cancer Center Oncology Medical Group East County and Sharp Hospice Care. Our heartfelt appreciation to the Reynaga Family, the Minshew Family, and Minshew Bros. Steel Employees and many friends who have supported us with Love.Celebration of Life will be held Sunday, September 11, 2016, from 2pm-6pm, at Babylon Palace, 456 N. Magnolia Ave., El Cajon, CA 92020. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may to made to:Sharp Hospice Care, P.O. Box 158, La Mesa, CA 91944619-740-4200

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Diego Union-Tribune from Aug. 21 to Aug. 28, 2016.

Memories and Condolences
for John Minshew

Not sure what to say?





September 14, 2016

RIP Uncle John! You will be missed so much! You were a wonderful man & all who knew you knew that. Our big Minshew family will never be the same with out you. I love you~ Suzy

Marilyn Sanderson

September 11, 2016

Cheryl,
May your wonderful memories of a lifetime together celebrate a life well lived.

Rick Martin

September 10, 2016

Cheryl my family and i just want to say how sorry we are to you and yours for the passing of such a great man and our prayers are with you!

Rick Martin

Craig Tyler

August 31, 2016

I read of John's passing, and wanted to acknowledge that I feel he will be missed by all who had the fortune to meet him. I had the privilege of working with John and the boys several times throughout my career in Construction, from Nielsen through Roel Construction - Hard working, honest men. My deepest condolences to you all. We will all miss him, but his legacy lives on with each of you. Please continue to pass it on. If there's anything I can do to be of assistance, please don't hesitate to contact me.
[email protected]

Janice Kurth

August 29, 2016

Our thoughts and sympathy are with you Cheryl and your entire family. Your Rotary family is here for you with all of our love and support.

Louise Andres

August 28, 2016

In this time of grief, Cheryl, know that your friends are ready to do whatever we can. I will keep both of you in my prayers.

Donna Perry

August 21, 2016

John's candle will always shine brightly as he did in life. Eternal love is forever in our hearts for our loved ones as they rest in peace.

Barbara McPharlin

August 21, 2016

It is very special that John brought so much love into this world. That will never be forgotten. We will always see him in you, dear Cheryl.

My deepest sympathy,
Barbara McPharlin

August 21, 2016

Dear Cheryl and Family.......
You were blessed to have John. He was always kind and gracious to his Family, coworkers and Friends. He touched everyone and will be missed.....My thoughts and Prayers are with you.
Cheryl House-Kharazi

Patty White-Mechling

August 21, 2016

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Showing 1 - 10 of 10 results

Make a Donation
in John Minshew's name

Memorial Events
for John Minshew

Sep

11

Celebration of Life

2:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.

Babylon Palace

456 N. Magnolia Ave., El Cajon, CA

How to support John's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor John Minshew's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more