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Drew Kithcart Obituary

Drew "Donte" Kithcart, 23, of Grover Beach, passed away early Monday morning, July 1, 2013. He was born November 1989 to Indira Johnson-Bey and Douglas Wayne Kithcart in Santa Maria. Donte graduated from Paso Robles High School in 2008 and attended Cuesta College. He had previously worked at Olive Garden in San Luis Obispo as a waiter, where he brought joy to everyone he came in contact with. Donte was an extremely social person, who loved spending time with friends and family. He was an excellent singer and was chosen to sing the national anthem at his high school graduation. He was the life of every party. Donte is survived by his mother, Indira Johnson-Bey Goodwin (Linden Michael Goodwin); father, Douglas Wayne Kithcart; brother, Ken Kithcart; sister, Treana Danielle Goodwin; and countless extended family members and friends. Viewing will be from 5 to 7 p.m., with a memorial service at 7 p.m., Thursday, July 11, 2013, at Marshall-Spoo Sunset Funeral Chapel,1239 Longbranch Ave. in Grover Beach. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to the Indira Goodwin account at any Wells Fargo Bank. Marshall-Spoo 489-5552 Grover Beach

Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Jul. 7, 2013.
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So sad I knew his mom well my heart still breaks for this

Robert Hogue

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July 1, 2023

Drew, I am so thankful for all the great times you shared with me and my family. You were the best friend anyone could ask for. You always knew what to say,do,and wear to brighten up any mood or occasion.I still can't believe that such a vibrant and amazing person has left this earth. I am so sad that I will never see your smile,hear your laugh,or singing again...it is so surreal! It hurts to not have been able to be there for you,but I find solace knowing that you are now at peace;watching over everyone who Loves you....especially your mom and dad! They were so strong at your service,and you looked Beautiful! I look forward to the day you and I can pick-up where we left off...
You will truly be forever missed,loved,and cherished!!

Forever young,my love!!

Tiara Sterrett

July 19, 2013

The world has lost someone so very special...
You will be missed,Drew. Even though I did not know you very well, I feel fortunate to have worked with you, and have had the opportunity to see that fabulous smile in person.You touched my life, and I'm very sad you are gone. My sincerest condolences to your family and friends.May your hearts and souls find peace and comfort.
You will always be remembered, and you'll be forever young. Rest in peace.

"Unable are the loved to die, for love is immortality."
Emily Dickinson

Sharon Kranenburg

July 18, 2013

Donte,
I was told once, You'll be lucky if throughout your whole life you end up having a full hand full of people you consider was a true friend, well I know I am lucky no matter how many I end up having because you where one of those people I can consider a true friend. I never got to thank you and proubly would never being able to express how thankful I am donte, for how much you helped me through everything with binky. You proubly could tell I was going through it and you always would show up right when I needed someone who was honest with me and wouldnt judge me. We would talk laugh and somehow everything I was too upset to face we were now joking and laughing about. I can't think of a memory of a time that I wasn't smile when you were around... You could make evrything better by doing nothing more then just being you. I'm sorry we always seemed to be fixing me and I hope I never made you feel I didnt care because no matter where in the world I was or what I was doing I still thought of you often and missed you. Recently I thought "I miss my donte I need to go back to the coast and spend some time with him" but I thought Im moving back soon once im done with school Ill be back and then ill make up for lost time but now your gone and I'm sorry this is the first time you've ever made me cry and the first time your not here to fix this hard time and make me laugh. I'll never forget you or stop missing you. I love you Donte!

Annette Blake

July 17, 2013

Drew, you are one of the most beautiful people I ever got to know, I am so incredibly blessed to have met you and spend time with you. You had a spirit about you that made me just love you so much. You always knew how to make me smile or how to make problems go away. I wish you were here so I could hug you one last time and tell you how much I love you. You will never be forgotten and will always be right with me. I will always carry you in my heart my beautiful friend.

To Doug and Indira,
You made one of the most amazing people in the world, who can never be forgotten. He truly would never let you forget him. He had this soul that cared for others in such a beautiful way. He had a shine about him that lite up a room. I love him and I love you both for bringing him into this world. You are amazing parents be proud of the man you made.

Maegann Beck

July 17, 2013

Drew! My boo! I love you so much and I am so so happy I was able to spend as much time with you as I did. ill miss our hikes, our nights out an just watching movies at my house. you were the best part of moving back to the 5 cities. A friend like you doesn't come often so I feel honored to have been able to call you mine. I miss you but every time I think of you I smile because you left me with the best memories. I love you, and I love your parents for raising such a wonderful person. -Till we meet again my friend:)

Queena Morales

July 15, 2013

I went to school with Drew's Father Doug. I only had the opportunity to meet Drew once and it was about a month before my mother passed or about three months ago. I have to say I was more than Impressed by the man I met and I know Doug was more than proud to call him son. Doug you turned out a fine man, Be proud of him.

Kenneth Scarbrough

July 15, 2013

I love you Donte, from the time i held you as a baby to this sad day, It was a wonderful 23 years. Although many things in life are hard to fathom, this boggles the mind. I will miss you forever. Until we meet again my beautiful nephew, Love and peace to you, Uncle Don.

Donald Kithcart

July 15, 2013

Drew my love . I know that you're in a better place shining down on us . I just wanted to take this time to tell how much I love you . To the moon and back . You're smile was so beautiful . You were a great friend & my kids loved you . You will always have a piece of my heart . I love you forever & always . One sweet day I'll see you again .

Adayely Loreto

July 13, 2013

Doug and Indira my heart breaks for your loss. I only knew Donte as a child, but after reading the entries in this Guest Book, he seemed to have grown into a very special young man, admired and loved by many.
This truly is a loss to you and to all that knew him. You are in my thoughts and prayers,

Charlene Williams

July 12, 2013

We shall meet again. You will be missed.

Israel Mondragon

July 12, 2013

Indira, it was so good to see you and hug you tonight. I can remember what a good mother you were when we worked together way back when. You always considered Donte first in every decision you made. I didn't know much about being a mom then, but you really were a fine example. It was obvious tonight how well-loved Donte was. You have much to be proud of; it seems he blessed many by living life fully. I am praying that God would hold you gently in the palm of His hand, carrying you with peace and comfort as you adjust. Looking forward to Heaven. With Love, Becky

Becky Valadez

July 11, 2013

Indira and Doug-I remember this baby boy from when he was in your tummy to his toddler years. He was a sweet baby and from the sound of it he was a wonderful man all together. I can't imagine the loss, our blessings and prayers are yours. May you find this message sent with love and hopes for peace in your hearts.

Andrea

July 11, 2013

Indira & Doug; I am so sorry for your loss. Although I only met your sweet son a handful of times; I know from others that he was quite the precious young man, with an infectious personality. I pray God delivers strength for you to get through this difficult time. ((((OOOO)))) hugs, Lori Trejo

July 10, 2013

Drew you had such a beautiful energy. You were only in my life for a short time but you lightened my life. xx you will be missed darling x

Jen Kyna

July 10, 2013

Indira, I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

July 10, 2013

DREWSKIE MY BOO MY GUY U WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN BUT U WILL BE TRULY BE MISSED I LOVE U AND WILL SEE U WHEN I GET THERE XOXO UR GIRL

Porche Hill

July 10, 2013

Our prayers are with the family during this sad time

Bev & John Diggles

July 10, 2013

Deonte... this is what I called you, no matter how much you corrected me and told Monique "why does your mom call me Deonte".. and Monique would shrug and say "I don't know".. having coffee the other morning with Monique an Monet they where bringing up stories about you.. some of the stuff I never heard before.. I was rolling.. deonte you where one of kind... you left behind great memories but you will never be forgotten.. may your memories lay in my house forever... rest in peace...

serena lopez

July 9, 2013

Rest I'm peace Drew! You'll be missed.

Karina Davis

July 9, 2013

Wonte!!!!!!! There are so many things running through my mind right now I don't know where to began... We lost touch for a while u were focusing on u and vice versa.....I didn't want to believe it when I heard and thought for sure news was gonna come back positive.... U will be missed forever and ever.... U know u hold a special place in my heart and I will never ever forget our priceless memories we shared together in the 805, and 562..... My family loved u for everything u had to offer!!!!!!!! May your soul rest in peace baby boy I ? u xoxo
Rosie

Rosie Lopez

July 9, 2013

i.love.you.always. Gone but never forgotten.

Melissa Kotheimer

July 9, 2013

When we met I knew we were going to be great friends! you have such an infectious laugh and personality! Watch over us, Drew!!! xoxoxo

Jessika

July 9, 2013

Drew, I loved you from the first day I met you @ the age of 11. You were so open & honest & full of life. I sit here with the realization that we will never get to hear your colorful stories or listen to your wonderful dreams ever again. My heart is breaking for your family & all those who knew & loved you like I did.
We will miss you my dear!

Lonnie & Grant Marcum

July 8, 2013

Indira...I am so heartbroken about the loss of Donte! I remember him as this funny energetic young boy...How handsome he has grown up to be!
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and yours during this time..I am so sorry for your loss, Indira.

July 8, 2013

So sorry to hear of your loss Indira. May God bless you in this difficult time.
S. Martinez, Paso Robles Ca.

July 8, 2013

Joyce Miller

July 8, 2013

Donte, You will truly be missed... You were a blessing to so many!! Love you, B. Lyn Thomas

July 8, 2013

Our hearts go out to Doug and Indira, Kenny. Watching Donte from an infant to a young boy then a man, life changes and grows so fast. You are a wonderful son of God. May god bless you in this time of sorrow as we know you are in good hands. RIP and god bless you in your journey we love you Donte Kithcart.

Joyce Miller

July 8, 2013

Indira my heart aches for you I am so sorry, I pray for some comfort for you at this time, such a bright light that should have burned much longer

robert hogue

July 8, 2013

How sad.

July 8, 2013

Donte- Me,Mac and Mason are going to miss you - we are greatful that you came and lived with us for awhile - Mac and Mason always refered to you as their cousin. Love You. xoxox

Lisa Lombardini

July 7, 2013

I have known you since I can remember. I have lived a majority of my life with you and have learned so much just in being your friend. From all the talent shows, to American Idol and crazy nights we spent just laughing till we cried. You were the one person I knew I could call up for a jam session in my car and I would never get denied. I cant find the words to describe the loss I feel knowing we will no longer sing together again with the windows down and wind blowing through our bodies. I stay at peace knowing you are looking down singing to us right now and I know when it is my time...we will be singing again together in a greater place. I love you. I adore you. I will never forget your smile.

Julia Kelley

July 7, 2013

Our family is praying for peace in your hearts. Memories of your baby boy will always bring a smile.

Monica Jimenez

July 7, 2013

July 7, 2013

I only got the pleasure of hanging out with Drew a few times but always ran into him downtown Slo and we would always dance :)
Drew was one of those people when you meet for the first time you feel like you've known forever such a fun, amazing person who wasn't affraid to be who he was and so fun to be around. its a shame such a beautiful human being is no longer with us with so much ahead of him. With so many questions un-answered... He will be missed. God Bless his family and let them heal.
'God breaks our hearts to prove he only takes the best' <3

Ashley

July 7, 2013

The Quijada family grieves with the Kithcart family at the time of this great loss. Donte will be sorely missed. We send all our love and support.

Susan Quijada

July 7, 2013

The Quijada family grieves with the Kithcart family at Donte's loss. He is greatly missed. We send all our love and support.

July 7, 2013

Drew, you left a lasting legacy here on earth. You touched so many lives with your Diva ways. Thank you for coming into my families lives. We will never forget you. May you watch over your family during this difficult time and help bring them closer knowing you brought so many people happiness.

Tammy Druding

July 7, 2013

I will never forget when I hired you at Payless. You were a character. Lots of laughs we had. Thank you for coming into our lives. I will miss you Drew!! My prayers are with your family!!

Teri Hardy

July 7, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to Indira and Doug.

July 7, 2013

I am still in disbelief and a state of shock so unbelievable that you are no longer here with us. You are so missed!!!

Heather Dennis

July 7, 2013

I will never forget the time where I was scared about singing and you went up with me and sang with me .

Katlyn Leal

July 7, 2013

I luv u Drew, my ?? is broken by this tragedy. I wish it were not true. U will be missed tremendously. I can still see ur smile and hear ur sassy voice in my head and heart where ur memory will remain:(

Mandee Delatorre

July 7, 2013

To the family of dear Donte. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I'll always remember his laugh.
Sincerely,
Michelle
(he was a great and fun friend to my daughter)

July 7, 2013

I miss you, my heart hurts for your family & friends
Sending love and prayers

Monique Chenault

July 7, 2013

I can't belive this is real. You will be missed and never forgotten. You touched so many lives. Love you Donte.

Sondra Andrade

July 7, 2013

Drew! From the tme I met you in Choir class at Paso you lit up the room. Your spirit was so bright and you could make anyone laugh! You will be truly missed by everyone you touched!

Tiffany Cecil

July 7, 2013

I hate reading this. But I have to do it to believe it really happened. Deepest sympathies, to the Kithcart family. Be as best as you can under these trying circumstances. All Love To One & All.

Jonathan Williams

July 7, 2013

Drew<3i love you so much and I cherish every moment we spent together. It was a honor to be your friend.

Queena Morales

July 7, 2013

Ill never forget the time Emma was telling you about her crush!! So I wouldn't know about the "crush" you came up with a nickname for him! You both would laugh so hard! You truly are the best ever and going to be so deeply missed.

Erika Leal

July 7, 2013

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