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Alice Pomeroy Obituary

Alice Pomeroy Alice Pomeroy, 63, died suddenly Friday, August 26th, 2016, after she fell while hiking with her husband Dave in Switzerland. Alice's values were shaped by her family. An only child, she was born Alice Metz in 1953 in New York City and lived in Queens. Her father John Metz was a bricklayer who immigrated to New York from Denmark following World War II. John's family are Danish Jews who survived the Nazi occupation by crossing the sound to Sweden for much of the war. John fought with the Danish resistance against the Nazis as a young teen and left Denmark after the war for Guam to look for work. He paused in New York when he met Alice's mother Charlotte Feinberg at a boarding house. Charlotte was the daughter of Ukrainian Jewish immigrants who came to this country fleeing poverty and oppression. Charlotte worked for the Red Cross in support of the war effort, and later became an educator and academic counselor who specialized in English literature. At age nine, Alice and her parents moved to Denmark because her father's health was failing and they could not afford medical care in the United States. When John could no longer work in construction, he opened the first dry cleaning business in Copenhagen. He died in Denmark when Alice was 12, but she remained there with her mother until she left for university in England and ultimately San Diego. Following her 1974 graduation from Cal Western, Alice moved to Los Angeles and met her husband Dave in Santa Monica in 1979. They married in 1981 and moved to San Luis Obispo County in 1982 when Dave took a job there as a Deputy DA. Alice was a dedicated and well-respected employee of the County working primarily for Family Court Services until she retired in 2015 to travel and spend time with her children. She volunteered at the San Luis Obispo Museum of Art and also with SLO Womenade packing food for disadvantaged kids. Alice loved Denmark and its language and culture and was fluent in Danish. She studied music, language, art history and theater. She had sophisticated tastes in art and literature, perfect pitch and a lovely singing voice. She loved movies, and had a superhuman ability to recall the names of all the actors and directors of most films. She was an expert cook and she relished fine food. Alice was a devoted lifelong Beatles fan, and was in love with Paul McCartney, a reality her husband accepted. Alice felt deeply for those who suffered pain or injustice. She was an adamant atheist, but she never begrudged anyone their faith. She believed that we only get one life, and she wanted to enjoy all that it has to offer - especially family and butter. She was passionate about travel, especially to Europe, and she died doing what she loved most. She had a generous, kind and caring heart that will live on in the people she touched and be passed on to others. She was simply the very best person any of us in her family have ever known. She is survived by her husband Dave Pomeroy, her children Jane and John Pomeroy, and their husbands Craig Jacobson and Caleb Nichols. In lieu of flowers, Alice would want you to donate to Hillary Clinton's campaign. Sign her guestbook at sanluisobispo.com/obituaries

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Sep. 11, 2016.

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TONY MARLOW

September 6, 2024

Thinking of you today Alice. R.I.P.

Susan BaileyKadin

September 5, 2024

When I look at Alice“s photo I am reminded of her gentle, kind, and loving presence which is also reflected in her son, John. Our legacy lives on, in part, in our children.

October 7, 2016

I mentioned this on John's facebook page, but to family members who do not have social media, she was so warm and welcoming when I came over to play at your house once upon a time. My family remembers her fondly, and sending you love, healing, and SO many hugs at this time. Xoxo

Catherine Doyle

September 30, 2016

Dave I was saddened and shocked to learn today of Alice's passing. As you know she was a fabulous woman and I will miss seing her smiling face. My heart is with you Dave during this time of loss.

Amy Broomfield

September 27, 2016

I never had the honor or pleasure of meeting Alice, but have known Dave in the context of work for many years. I was so sorry to hear of her passing. Her obituary made me sad to have never met her. It also sparked a desire to be more like her, as she sounds like an amazing, giving person who brought joy to many.

Elle Johnson

September 23, 2016

I just learned of the sad passing of sweet Alice. The last time I saw her was at the market as I heard someone call my name and turned to see those sparkling eyes and that irrepressible smile. Alice had the ability of making everyone she met feel special. I will be sending a donation to Hillary Clinton, in her name. Dave, may the beautiful memories of the life you shared give you peace and strength.

Annelise & Jeffrey Cohen

September 17, 2016

September 17, 2016
Dear Dave, Jane, John and family. Not only California, but also Denmark is suffering a huge loss. We loved happy and smiling Alice so much and have always felt close, despite the geographical distance. May you find comfort in all the wonderful memories.

Bill and Cindy Gates

September 16, 2016

Dave and family,

Our thoughts are with you. We have always felt Alice was a special person from the first day we met her. She had a twinkle in her eye we will always remember. Our love to you, Dave, and your family.

Ted Pagel

September 16, 2016

Dave and family, please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Alice was a sweet, wonderful person ad she will be greatly missed by all. Take care of each other during this difficult time. Love, Ted, Mary & Lia Pagel.

Sandy Mitchell

September 15, 2016

Dave, John and Jane, I am thinking of you every day. I will always treasure Alice as a friend and I miss her. She was smart, funny, elegant, kind, open to other viewpoints and Always smiling. She loved her family and was proud of her kids, including her two newest "kids". Thank you for sharing the story of her childhood.

Harold Mesick

September 14, 2016

I am so very sorry for you and your family. My deepest sympathies.

September 14, 2016

Dear Dave, Jane/Craig & John/Caleb,
We were saddened to hear of the hiking accident that took sweet Alice. That news was quite a shock and we are so sorry for the sudden loss of your wife, mother, mother-in-law, and friend. We were only together a few times, so we didn't have the privilege of knowing Alice well, but we liked her instantly! She had a way of making people feel comfortable. She had a warm accepting manner about her, with bright eyes and a smile that would put you immediately at ease. - We wish you all, comfort in your shared memories of her.

With love,
Jack & Merri Pastel

Jennifer Adams

September 14, 2016

Jane, on behalf of your RISE family, we send our deepest sympathies and warmest hugs. We are so sorry for the loss of your beautiful mother. We are also sending love and light to your dad, brother and the rest of your family. With much love, Jenny and everyone at RISE

Jenny Sucha (Longabaugh)

September 14, 2016

Alice was such an incredible woman and I am so glad I was able to know her while growing up on Capistrano and participating in gymnastics with Jane. The Longabaugh family sends our deepest condolences and our love and thoughts go out to the Pomeroy family.

Dan Rivoire

September 14, 2016

Our deepest condolences and love to you all.

Dan and Megan Rivoire

September 14, 2016

So sorry to hear of her passing. Hugs to Dave and family. Kathleen Fisher

Sandra Brown

September 14, 2016

Dave and family, i was shocked when this news reached me in San Diego. My deepest condolences. Peace be with you.

Bill Raver

September 14, 2016

Dave, Jane and John. I am so saddened by Alice's untimely passing. I don't think there are words which adequately express my shock and grief, so I will just say that Alice was a positive and delightful person who made me smile every time we were together. My thoughts are with you all as you deal with her loss.

September 14, 2016

Dave,
Shocked and saddened by your family's loss.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
John and Mary Trice

Kate and Scott Secrest

September 13, 2016

Dave and Family- We are so sorry for your loss of the lovely and amazing Alice. As prosecutors we become immersed in some of the worst aspects of human nature- Alice embodied some of the best. Kind, positive, funny and fun. Being a butter- loving Hilary fan is just icing on the cake. We grieve with you. Wishing you peace.

Amy Robinson

September 13, 2016

To Dave, Jane, and John;

I'm so sorry for your loss.. I have had the immense honor of cutting Alice's hair for I don't know how many years, and I can honestly say that she has been one of the most cheerful, kind, thoughtful and genuine people I've ever had the pleasure of knowing. Not to mention stylish and beautifully accessorized! We always had the best time talking about our travels, and boy was she excited about her upcoming hiking adventure! She will be deeply missed, but what a legacy of goodness she leaves behind!

Sincerely, Amy

Younghae and Kyungho Kim

September 12, 2016

Dave and family, WE are deeply saddened to hear about Alice.We pray that in the midst of your sorrow you find comfort in all the joyful memories shared.

Cathy Orton

September 12, 2016

My heart aches at this news. Paul and I extend our deepest condolences.

chris Allen

September 12, 2016

She must have been something special to have such a daughter. She'll live on through you.

Longabaugh

September 12, 2016

Dave, Jane and John

Please know we are thinking of you all!
With love
Jim & Chery

September 12, 2016

Dear Jane and Family ~ Our hearts are with you. We will make a donation to Hillary in her name. Love, Susan Lamont and George Kunhardt

September 12, 2016

Dave and family, I was shocked to say the least to hear about Alice. She was always a bright spot when when she came to the office, and excited to tell me how the kids were doing. She was so very proud of them both.. She will be missed.

Ginger Garrett

September 11, 2016

I was stunned to hear of Alice's passing. Dave I am so sorry for your terrible loss. Alice was always smiling and I will remember her that way.

Laurie and Terry Morgan

September 11, 2016

Dear Jane and family- We are so sorry for your loss. We didn't know Alice but we know she raised an incredible daughter and the world is better because of it. May peace be with all of you in this difficult time. You are in our hearts.

Shauna Kruse

September 11, 2016

I called her Miss Alice! We talked each time She would come into Our Office looking sooo Beautiful. Of course, we would talk about fashion "mostly shoes" but the conversations would always end with a story about her children. She was a very Proud Mom and loved them dearly along with Her Hubby. The mention of Her Jane would "always" put a sparkle in her eyes. And of course, the mention of "Band Guy" (my name for Her Talented Son) would "always" put the Biggest Smile on Her Face. Her Hubby just made her feel loved and it showed. Miss Alice was my friend and I loved her.

Laura Vorie

September 11, 2016

I did not know Alice, but, being a probation officer, I worked with Dave often. I was so impressed with his professionalism, dedication, fairness and devotion to duty. A true gentleman. I can see that it was part of who he was, in all things and, apparently, extant his marriage as well. I so mourn his loss of a remarkable woman and having his life with her cut short. You are certainly in my thoughts and heart. I was very proud to contribute to Hillary in her name--very touched by that suggestion--and that she was identified as an Atheist, who did so much good in her life-so brave of you. I wish you nothing but peace and good memories. Laura Vorie

Mark Pomeroy

September 11, 2016

The photo here brings back my memories of Alice as an extremely warm, welcoming person. And that smile! I can almost hear her voice now. She will be missed.

September 11, 2016

Dear Jane, Even though I did not know your mother, I see her spirit alive in you each day. I am sorry for your loss anI wish you and your family strength and courage.
Hugs and Love, Lisa Fraser

Dottie Thompson

September 11, 2016

I was so shocked and saddened to see the beautiful Alice's obituary in this morning's paper. "She died doing what she loved most," but far too young. My heart goes out to Dave and his children. (I recently met John and his husband when they were buying furniture at the Hospice Thrift Store.)And I will be making a donation to Hillary in her name.

Susan BaileyKadin

September 11, 2016

I was deeply saddened to learn of Alice's death. I enjoyed her vivacious and fun loving nature, and was touched by her innate kindness and gentle spirit. I appreciated Alice's liberal acceptance of differences and open minded/hearted approach to living . As peers who parented sons of a similar age, I respected and admired her devotion, unconditional love, good humor, and understanding as a mother. Please know that your family is in our family's thoughts, and that we will always remember Alice with love.

Tony Marlow

September 11, 2016

Dear David: So sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences.

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