Search by Name

Search by Name

Gerry Mueller Obituary

Gerry Mueller of Los Osos passed from the loving arms of her family Sunday evening, Sept. 26, 2010. She will be a forever young 64. She was born in Honolulu, Hawaii, to Hideo and Yukie Kawano and graduated from the University of Hawaii. She married Jay, a friend from UH in 1968, after stubborn fate directed that they meet once again by chance in Santa Barbara. They returned to Hawaii for a while after the birth of their son, Erik. Their daughter, Miki was born in Hawaii. A return to California led the family to their beloved Central Coast, where they settled in Baywood Park. Gerry worked at Cuesta College prior to joining the support staff at Cal Poly President''s office in1984. A dedicated employee, she was beloved by her coworkers and colleagues - she retired from Cal Poly in February 2008. Gerry was a member of the Krewe of Sybarites in Mardi Gras of San Luis Obispo for the past eight years, served on the Kouncil of Krewes and was Queen for the 2006 season. Retirement allowed her to spend more time with her grandchildren, volunteer tirelessly at Los Osos Library and probably best of all, discover her inner artist with classes at Cuesta Emeritus and San Luis Adult Schools. Her greatest love in art was to make original and altered books and fused glass pieces. She loved to cook and always sought out new ideas and recipes. A gentle supportive soul, Gerry was loved by many and remembered for her radiant smile. Ger is survived by her husband, Jay; son, Erik Mueller and daughter in-law Jenny Carcia of Petaluma, Calif.; daughter, Michelle "Miki" and son-in-law Ken Allen of Novato, Calif.; grandchildren Kayla and Colby Allen; brother, Wil and sister-in-law, Jewel Kawano of Honolulu; and mother-in-law, Theresa Mueller of Morro Bay. A celebration of life will be held Saturday, Nov. 6, 2010. Email [email protected] for information. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Friends of Los Osos Library, www.losososlibraryfriends.org.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Oct. 15, 2010.

Memories and Condolences
for Gerry Mueller

Not sure what to say?





6 Entries

Patricia Foote

October 24, 2010

I knew Gerry and Jay through my art classes. I found them both to be such kind, joyful people. Each completed the other, filled in each others strengths and weaknesses to form a strong team. Gerry was always so unassuming, supportive, accepting, and she was a darn good artist. Her art was delicate, thought-provoking, symbolic, and very pleasing. I will miss her sense of humor, her artistic flair, and her essence. My thoughts are with Jay and his family. I cannot begin to imagine their pain.

Connie & Doug Moxness

October 16, 2010

We met Gerry and Jay when they joined the Mardi Gras family. Gerry was a sweet and sparkling person...always sharing a smile. We are all better people for having known her. We will miss our little Queen.

Carolyn Mueller

October 15, 2010

I will remember Gerry always. Her radiant smile and sparkling eyes lit up the room. I remember her quiet spirit and gentle nature. She was always kind, encouraging and thoughtful. God be with Jay and family in the days ahead.

Glen Starkey

October 15, 2010

It was so wonderful to spend time with Gerry at Live Oak this year. I've known few so kind, so generous, so joyful. She's an unforgettable spirit. My thoughts and prayers to her family.

Al Amaral

October 15, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with Gerry Mueller's family. She was a wonderful friend and a delight to work with for many years. God Bless, Gerry......

Carol Zarek

October 15, 2010

Gerry's smile lit up a room. I am sure heaven is brighter for her presence. The Eskimos teach their children "The stars are really openings in the sky where our loved ones shine, telling us they are well and happy." I pray for Jay, Erik, Miki and all the family for strength for your journey. Lean on God and ask Gerry for light in the dark times. She will lead you home. Peace and blessings, Carol Zarek

Showing 1 - 6 of 6 results

Make a Donation
in Gerry Mueller's name

Memorial Events
for Gerry Mueller

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Gerry's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Gerry Mueller's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more