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Michael Carl Menesez, 45, of Atascadero passed away unexpectedly Wednesday, Sept. 29, 2010, in the presence of many loving family and friends. Michael cherished his wife and family, being a devoted, trustworthy, loyal husband and father. As a true friend, he enjoyed generously entertaining guests at parties and organizing social events. Skiing with his sons, gardening, hiking, cooking and traveling were some of his favorite activities and he was a faithful fan of the New Orleans Saints football team. He was intelligent and focused, held to strong beliefs and loved reading and history. His second home were the Woodland and South Paso Chevron stations, which he managed for years. Michael is survived by his wife, Kerry; sons Austin and Derek; mother, Linda; father, Terry; in-laws, JoAnne and Mel Herman; siblings James, Elaine, Laurie, Marjorie and Aaron; and numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. A memorial service will be held at 1 p.m. Saturday, Oct. 9, 2010, at North County Christian Fellowship, 421 9th St. in Paso Robles. In lieu of flowers, the Michael Menesez Memorial Fund has been set up to benefit the continued future of Michael''s children. Donations may be made to any Heritage Oaks Branch.

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Oct. 3, 2010.

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Becky Wilson

October 19, 2010

Dear Menesez Family,
My deepest condolences for your loss. Mike and I met when I moved to Atascadero in 1972. My first memory of Mike was of him as a little guy in jeans, plaid shirt, and cowboy boots -chasing girls around the playground. We were friends through the rest of elementary, middle and high school. He enjoyed being in the school plays and because of his very good singing voice, good looks and a charming stage presence, he was the perfect leading man. I've run into Mike on several occasions through the years and he never failed to greet me like it'd only been a day, not years, since I'd seen him last. I will always remember Mike fondly and offer my deepest sympathies for your loss.

Debbie Tillson

October 12, 2010

Mike was a dear friend. I knew him from Atascadero High School. He was wonderful and kind. I feel for his wife and his children and I hope that they will find peace. God is with us even when life hurts. God is with us even when we feel alone. Mike is with you Kerri and his love for you and the children will never leave any of you. Be strong girlfriend and lean on God. I am so sorry for your loss and I pray that you and your children will heal in God's loving light. I am sorry I never had the opportunity to meet you, but maybe one day we will meet. Even though you don't know me yet, you and your children are in my prayers. Take care of yourself. Mike was a great friend and a great human being in general. We were all blessed to know him.

God will heal all wounds and love will remain.

Debbie Tillson

October 12, 2010

Mike, may you rest in peace my dear friend.

Debbie Tillson

October 12, 2010

Mike's love will live on within his family and friends forever.

Debbie Tillson

October 12, 2010

Mike was a beautiful person and he will be missed by many.

Debbie Tillson

October 12, 2010

Mike's kindness will never be forgotten.

Debbie Tillson

October 12, 2010

The ocean can be a peaceful place.

Debbie Tillson

October 12, 2010

Love lives on inside our hearts and souls forever.

Debbie Tillson

October 12, 2010

Beauty is all around us.

Debbie Tillson

October 12, 2010

God is all around us.

Debbie Tillson

October 12, 2010

Life is a journey.

Debbie Tillson

October 12, 2010

gary kuhn

October 12, 2010

Dear Kerri, My prayer is for your comfort and that peace will come to you when this all begins to wind down and you are alone. I hope you will realize that the Lord is holding on to you....much love, Gary Kuhn

Jo Anne Herman

October 11, 2010

Michael was truly a fine son-in-law. We were proud to call him a member of our family. The photos and memories will always remind us of that. Mel and Jo Anne Herman

Kathy Sallaz

October 9, 2010

Kerry and family, I am so sorry for your loss. My heartfelt prayers are with you.

October 9, 2010

My condolences to all of Mikes family and friends. I only knew Mike through others, during our school years together. He was always smiling and happy. I'm sure he was a great husband, father and friend and I'll be praying for him and those he left behind, however I'm sure he's always with you.- Judy Marks

COURTNEY FORZETTING

October 8, 2010

OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOUR FAMILY.

Adam Alvarez

October 6, 2010

Mike, You will be missed. My prayers are with your family!

Bill Wammock

October 6, 2010

I was so shocked to hear of Mike's passing. I just had a (short) but great visit with him here in Bend, Oregon, two weeks ago. My thoughts and prayers for his great family.

Jennifer Hart (Johnson)

October 6, 2010

In memory of a wonderfully kind man who always had a smile for everyone. My thoughts and prayers to all of Mike's family.

John and Joanie Anaya

October 5, 2010

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Mike Metcalf

October 5, 2010

Hi Kerry- Mike was a great advocate for hiring and mentoring our adults with disabilities. He was always willing to give them a second chance, when most places would simply let them go. He will be truly missed. God bless you and your family and God bless Mike for all he did for agency and our adults.
Mike Metcalf- NCI Affiliates, Inc.

Angie Lockard

October 4, 2010

Kerry -- I cannot fully express how very sorry I am for your loss. Michael was a great guy and I have always been impressed with how much fun your family has together and with the happiness in your home. I know he will be sorely missed, and we will be praying for you and the boys during this trying time. I pray that God will comfort you and bring you peace, that He will continue to provide for you and your family, and that you will feel God's amazing love fill the void you feel. Love you, Cuz! -Angie

Emily McCollum

October 4, 2010

Kerry, Austin, and Derek, I am so sorry for your loss. Mike was a great guy and a great friend. He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Claire Verzin

October 4, 2010

He was very kind and always there for the family. Even though I didn't know him much I heard great things from his son Derek.

LaVonne Kelley

October 4, 2010

I am thinking of you with love and hope, Kerry. I know how hard this is on all of you, as I lost my father when I was 12. Please let me know if there is any way I can help.

Maree Whitten

October 4, 2010

Mike... great sense of humor, amazing dad, devoted husband....Kerry, Austin & Derek, cherish the memories...I know that I will smile when I think of Mike. Lotsa love and prayers coming your way...

Bruce Tedone

October 4, 2010

Michael was a wonderful man. He certainly knew how to throw a party. He was a most gracious host and had a heart bigger than his house. My deepest condolences to all the members of the Menesez family.

Michele (Gouff) Larmay

October 4, 2010

My sympathy is with you and yours during this time of loss.

Eileen (McCornack) Morones

October 4, 2010

I graduated with Mike from Atascadero in 1983 and was shocked and crushed when I heard he had passed! He was such a kind and genuine person and will be so missed! My heart goes out to his family and friends and I pray they will find some comfort during this difficult time.

Kimberly O'Farrell-Bliss

October 3, 2010

To the entire Menesez family, I pray that God sends his Angels to comfort you and fills your hearts with Peace! Mike will be greatly missed! You along with Mike are in my daily prayers.

John Lewis

October 3, 2010

Mike, I've known you since grade school in Atascadero. We went from sixth grade through AHS, many good times. The last time I saw you at the Woodland Chevron we shared a laugh about how this old Greyhound was cheering on the Bearcats that my daughters play for now. God bless you and your family my old friend.

Laura Page

October 3, 2010

Mike Menesez! The memories of High School and your sweet smile and dimples!! you were my mother's favorite Box boy at Williams Bros... back in the 80's and mine too! xox Always a positive attitude and a delight every time! I know you are looking down on your wife and children letting them know you will be with them always... God bless to you and one day.. your family will join you in Heaven.....

Brady Hollifield

October 3, 2010

My thoughts to the Menesez Family. I'm so proud to have known Mike in HS. Blessings on you all.

Lori Schaefer-Radecki

October 3, 2010

Mike, you will be deeply missed by many and our prayers go out to those you have left behind.
Lori Schaefer-Radecki & Family (Former AHS classmate)

Dawn Perry

October 3, 2010

Dear Menesez Family & Friends,
What a joy and priviledge to have known Michael, watch him grow in his life and become a terrific husband, father, and friend. My sympathy is with you and yours during this time of loss but also remembrance.

Melissa Leek

October 3, 2010

Our sincere condolences! Mike will be in "Our Hearts Forever!!" Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Trish and Melissa Oswald-Leek

Kdonna Martin

October 3, 2010

Mike you are such a great guy. Always so kind and thoughtful. It is just so hard to imagine, you were so full of life. You are greatly missed. I feel blessed to have been your neighbor growing up.

Trish Oswald

October 3, 2010

The Menesez Family, We are so sorry for your loss. Mike was a great man and will truely be missed. As you know, our family is here for you, as we have gone through our share of losses. If there is anything at all... please let us know. We can be here for each other! Love you all.
THE OSWALD FAMILY (Trish Oswald) Class-mate of Kerry/MIke.

Jeni Proft

October 3, 2010

You will be greatly missed Michael..remember the stagecoach!

jennifer gallagher

October 3, 2010

Kerry ~ My thoughts and prayers go out to you, your boys and the entire family at this sad time. Mike was a great guy and will be so very missed!! Praying that what ever brings you and your family comfort at this time finds your hearts!!
Your friend and neighbors!
Jeff & Jennifer Gallagher

Nanette Negrete

October 3, 2010

I loved Michael very much he was a wonderful guy to work for and with, he came to my shop for haircuts for him and his two boys. It was always a pleasure. My heart goes out to his family. In love and peace , Nanette Negrete

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