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Pamela Daye Obituary

Pamela Anne Daye, 66, was was born in Indianapolis, Ind., and called back to heaven Wednesday, Oct. 13, 2010. She touched the lives of many patients, co-workers and friends in her long carreer as a Psychiactric Tech at Camarillo and Atascadero State Hospitals. Her love will carry on through her adoring children, Lorinda Daye and Chris Daye. Billy Daye was waiting for her. We will celebrate her life at 2 p.m. Friday, Nov. 5, 2010, at the Chapel of the Roses, 3450 El Camino Real in Atascadero. Chapel of the Roses 466-1161 Atascadero

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Oct. 17, 2010.

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Paige Lacey

November 7, 2010

Pam I Will always remember your calming way. You always no matter what it was made it better for me.Thankyou Pam for your unconditional love. Pam you can rest for your new journey is with God.

James Carr

November 5, 2010

So much more than my cousin Pamela, more than a big sister even; a friend and someone I shared decades of family and friends with, joys and sorrows, laughter and pain, but always deep caring. You are always to be a shining star for me. You are loved and missed by me...and loved by so many, including my Lia, who treasured the time she spent with you. We all did. Lovingly, James

GeGe

November 5, 2010

You were always my favorite sister I will always cherish all the lessons you taught me,Laughs & tears.Rest in Peace Pamela. Love you always

Sister

November 4, 2010

My dear sweet sister it's time to say goodbye. I've been putting it off you know because I didn't want you to go. Tears will flow tomorrow and for each special occasion you are not here. But they will hold you closer my dear and you will always be in my heart. I love you now and forever....

Debra Finley

November 3, 2010

YOUR IN OUR PRAYERS

"THE LORD IS MY SHEPHERD"
The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.
He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
Yea though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I wil fear no evil; for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.
Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.
Surly goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the LORD for ever.

Father who is in heaven, I come to you with thanksgiving for love unconditional.
I'm thankful Father that Pamela will not suffer any longer. I ask that Holy angels surround her family at all times.
I pray Father that you will come to her family and show her family that, with you Father God, all things are possible. show the family that their is no fear nor suffering, where there mother Pamela now resides.
I pray these things in your most Holy name, the name that is above all names. In Jesus name I pray this Amen.
Thank you Father God for hearing my prayer. I love You

I feel truly blessed to of been able to get to know and love your mother.
she has touch my life and my childrens.
in so very many ways.
she will truly be missed, but not soon forgotten. we love and miss you Pamela.
dance and sing with thee Angels now
love Debbie and the entire Finley Family.
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxoox

Lorri Carreno

October 30, 2010

Pam, You have always held a special place in my heart. You have always been warm and loving to me, and most of all, you never judged me. You helped me when I was down and you praised me when I was up. I always felt better just being around you. You have a beautiful smile and warm aura that makes everyone love you. I love you Pam very much & I will miss you forever.

SOLANGE BALLEW

October 28, 2010

I was blessed mightly in 1993, when Dion Ramos introduced Lorinda and I. I thought she was the kookiest girl I'd ever met!Then I met Mommy and Chris, and after that,Well, let's just say that it's never been a dull moment, or a dull holiday!!! I think I've spent more holidays with this family, than my own, and I'm so grateful to Pam for being so accepting and non judgemental of me, when my own family could not. She gave me so much sage advice, and I will fondly remember our long intellectual talks. I wanted to thank Lori and Chris as well, for honoring me with the privilege of helping them with mommy during her last days on this earth. What I will not be able to do for my own Mother, I was able to do for Pam. Pam was truly one of a kind, and I hope Chris and Lorinda know how lucky they were to have such a devoted and supportive mother to love them so unconditionally. LET US RAISE A GLASS IN A TO TOAST YOU, PAMELA! (JUST LIKE I PROMISED YOU THEY WOULD... YOUR EAGLETS ARE FLYING AND EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE OKAY)!! I LOVE YOU GUYS, AND I'M HERE FOR YOU ANYTIME YOU NEED ANYTHING! MAY ELOHIM GO WITH YOU DURING THIS TIME OF SORROW, AND BRING YOU PEACE. COME MY FRIENDS, WHIPE AWAY YOUR TEARS FROM YOUR EYES, AND LET US MORN NO MORE... BUT DANCE. THAT'S WHAT PAM WOULD HAVE WANTED! I LOVE YOU!!!

Kay Brink

October 25, 2010

I will take with me nothing but wonderful memories of time spent with you Pam, and the times you filled the void of not having my mom near. The joy you bring will be forever be close to my hart. I Love You!
Kay

October 24, 2010

Pamela, you may be gone from this world but you will never be forgotten. I am thankful that I had the opportunity to love and be loved by you. Until we meet again may your passage be safe.
Love Gail Stanhope

Gail Stanhope

October 24, 2010

Pamela, you may be gone from this world but you will NEVER be forgotten. I am thankful that I had the opportunity to know you and to love you. May you rest in peace until we meet again,...and we WILL meet again.
Love Gail Stanhope

October 24, 2010

Pamela, you may be gone from this wotld but you will NEVER be forgotten. Many fond memories I hold and I give thanks than I was able to know you and love you.
R.I.P. Love Gail

Connie Sanders

October 23, 2010

Pam, I will always remember you for the loving and caring person that you are. we have shared alot of fun times together, some of which was histerical....God be with you on your new journey, a new life, spread your wings, fore your new life in the beginning of forever.......
Love,
Connie Yvonne Sanders.

Lorinda Daye

October 23, 2010

My Mother was a very loving and generous woman with a kind heart and sweet smile. My Brother Christopher and I will always remember her, as will all of our friends as the best Mommy that anyone could ever dream of having! All of our friends were always welcome, and they all called her Mom, she was always there for us all any time we needed her advice ,her strength, help with a problem, or just a big hug! We are all going to miss her so much but we shouldnt be sad because there really is no death ,only a change of worlds.We all someday, when it is our time will see her again when we ourselves leave this world and pass on to a higher realm of being. I will always smile when I think of her and I know that she is ok and by my Dads side in Heaven . She is at Peace now and forever more.

Barbara Mortimer

October 21, 2010

Pam you were such a wonderful, loving, and caring person. My life will forever better for having you in it. I will truely miss your smiling face.

Misty Brebes

October 21, 2010

You have given so much love and comfort over the years, from all of us who will always call you mom- we love and miss you

Louise Tucker

October 19, 2010

You will be truly missed,Pam.We knew each other on several different levels,Co-workers,Friend,and Mom. You always had a smile and warm hug for me.
You will always be in my heart.
Rest in Peace.

Donna Burk

October 17, 2010

Pamela's presents, love, and laughter was so special to so may people. There are just no words to decribe the loss that her friends and family feel at this time. It is espicially hard for her devoted children, Lori and Chris that never left her side. My dear friend Pamela, rest in peace.

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