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Ines Heyder Obituary

Ines Heyder
Oct. 13, 1972-July 24, 2013
Resident of Watsonville
On Wednesday July 24th, 2013 Ines Heyder passed away at her home in Watsonville from Cervical Cancer. She was 40 years old.
Ines was born on October 13, 1972 in Illmenau, at that time a part of communist East Germany to Joachim Wolfgang Heyder, Engineer and Monica Gisela Heyder, Elementary School Teacher. As a child in the town of Gehren, she excelled at school as a perpetual straight-A student, and also enjoyed gymnastics, dancing, art and skiing. The fall of the Berlin Wall and German reunification opened up many new opportunities for those living in the East, and Ines embraced them with amazing vigor. She entered the University in Jena and earned a degree in Business Management. She later earned a German CPA certification and an MBA.
In 1997, she went to work for Hewlett Packard in Stuttgart, and by applying her immense intellect, boundless energy, and winning personality got promoted at record speed. She transferred to California in 1999, and by the time of her passing held the position of Senior Director at Hewlett Packard, a nearly impossible achievement given her young age.
During her time in California, Ines developed many close friendships, and excelled at a range of sports and hobbies. She was an excellent diver, yoga practitioner, runner, sailor, photographer and artist.
Ines spent much time in her later years learning about world religions in her search for the meaning of life and how to grow close to God. Her brother's and nephew's baptisms made a huge impact on her, and Ines accepted Jesus Christ as her Lord and Savior in 2012. We can all rest in the assurance that when we get to heaven, Ines will be there waiting for us.
Ines is survived by her daughter Lily Marlene Matt, who she truly loved more than life itself, her parents Joachim and Monica Heyder, her brother Jan Heyder, his wife Maya and their son Laurens, her fiancée Asgeir Berge, and Asgeir's children Luke and Ava Berge.
Ines' Memorial Service is scheduled for Saturday August 10th at 11 am at Twin Lakes Christian Church, 2701 Cabrillo College Drive, Aptos. In lieu of flowers please make a donation to www.clubdust.org, an organization close to Ines' heart.

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Published by Santa Cruz Sentinel on Jul. 31, 2013.

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Dorette

July 30, 2020

Dear Lily Marlene,
at First i will say sorry“ for my terrible Englisch writing. I am from Germany.
I am so sorry, to read here about your Mum is passed away so young. We went toghether at school in Braunesumpf/ Hüttenrode. It was a great time....
I have two daughters in the age of 19 an 15 and thats why i know, how important is a Mum for girls .... I am so sorry that you lost your mum so young.
I wish you all the best and a life full with love!
Greats from Germany!

Dorette

July 30, 2020

Dear Lily Marlene,
at First i will say sorry“ for my terrible Englisch writing. I am from Germany.
I am so sorry, to read here about your Mum is passed away so young. We went toghether at school in Braunesumpf/ Hüttenrode. It was a great time....
I have two daughters in the age of 19 an 15 and thats why i know, how important is a Mum for girls .... I am so sorry that you lost your mum so young.
I wish you all the best and a life full with love!
Greats from Germany!

The Gray Family

August 6, 2013

Ines, my family and I were acquainted with you for such a short time but enough to know and witness your honesty, trustworthiness, compassion and caring that you showed my family. The Lord has called you
to come home now and with his
abundant love he will watch over Lily and all that were loved by you. Thank you for all your kindness and to honor you we
will pass that kindness onto others in need.

Laurie Vahedi

July 31, 2013

Ines was a passionate and wonderful co-worker. She has left a lasting impression on us and will be greatly missed. My deep and heartfelt condolences to Lily and everyone else Ines loved.

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