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Pauly Silva Obituary

By Shanna McCord - Santa Cruz Sentinel


SANTA CRUZ -- Pauly Silva, a longtime Santa Cruz resident and father of two who worked as a plumber and was known for his martial arts expertise, was shot dead outside the entrance to a downtown bar early Saturday, police said. Read the story here.

Published by Santa Cruz Sentinel on Feb. 11, 2013.

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Missing you my dear friend!!!!! You will NEVER be forgotten!

Brooke Elmore

February 9, 2020

Pauly, i just found out about you leaving us a couple of days ago. It is extremely heartbreaking!

Miss sparring with you, and hanging out.

Love, manuel
All Of Us Or None

manuel la fontaine

July 7, 2015

Thinking of you!!!!

March 15, 2015

Missing you!!!! Hope you have a very merry Christmas watching over us.

December 3, 2014

You are missed greatly
We will never forget you. Thank you for the joy love and support that you gave so unconditionally.

December 2, 2014

I just found about about this senseless tragedy. My heart goes out to you Paul Sr and your family. My heartfelt sympathy to all of, such a tragic loss. Blessing to you all.

jackie

July 1, 2013

Dear Paul Sr. I'm so sorry for you and your familys loss. You allways treated me like a brother and will never forget that. (ABS)
Jim Legge

April 29, 2013

So sad to see another great role model fall to another senseless act. You will be missed but not forgotten.

Ron & Bridgette Venturi

March 11, 2013

I didnt know Pauly , but from what i have heard he got along with everyone , was a Good Dad and an all around Good Guy , so my sadness is focused on the Babys so i have decided to use the resources at my disposal to help in the only way i can put on this benefit Concert , my connection to the Silva Family goes way back Scott and Steve were two of the best friends you can have and Kari is the Love of my life even back then our fathers worked together at PG&E and we only lived 10 minute walk from each other To Paulys family i hope in some small way i can help those kids at a better life May God Protect and Care for you all forever , hope to see everyone May 24th @ Don Quixote's Music Hall to celebrate Pauly Silva's life !!!

Steven Williamson

March 10, 2013

Dad(Paul) & Jennie Silva & Cyndi & Eric Smith. My heart goes out to you as Pauly's Dad and Mom. You should Never have to bury your own child. To my knowledge there is nothing worse than losing a child. May the outpouring of love you are recieving from friends, family, and even the community be a small balm for your hearts...My heart hurts for you guys and for all my brothers and sisters and all Pauly's brothers too. We all lost an amazing child & brother. May God and your memories of Pauly sustain you. As for Maeva and Pauly's girls you truly are his legacy & I know it was one he was proud of. God Bless you all and you are in my daily prayers. Shalom for our family. May peace reside in our family.
Vanessa Siva-Chobanian & Anthony Chobanian, California

Vanessa Silva-Chobanian

February 21, 2013

Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling in at night. I miss you like hell. ~Edna St Vincent Millay

Maeva Silva

February 21, 2013

Lots of Love to our family!

Kyan Silva

February 21, 2013

I met Paul when he was a toddler (2 yrs old) SC was so safe back then. What happened to make it change so drastically? My heart aches for all his family, but especially for Cyndi. She had her hands more than full taking very good her kids. With all she had to do, she still took time to be my friend, and give me advice. She was also beautiful. (I was a little jealous) Paul got the best features of both parents. It was such a long time ago, but I remember Paul Senior as being a big/husky guy, and gentle. Cyndi, I have never forgotten you & your boys,or the memories. Love to you all. RIP to that tow-headed toddler I knew.

Carolyn Duarte

February 21, 2013

Pauly I remember seeing you on Vanessa's fb page and I remember seeing your comments to her. I really hope you and your family will be ok and alright. I will pray for you and your family. I will be giving your sister Vanessa all of the support I can through this.

Wil Demogue

February 20, 2013

February 19, 2013

February 18, 2013

Pauly, its hard not smile when I think of you. You're the person who first called me Nate, and it stuck. (Now every time someone calls me that, I think of you) Im so grateful, you came into my life, because through you I met one of my best friends, Maeva. You were like family to me, and the girls and I miss you very much. We are so fortunate to have you're two beautiful daughters and wife in our lives, and I promise to be there for them as best as I can. 'Til we meet again P-unit... Rest In Peace.

Nathania Ramos

February 17, 2013

2.14.13

Love is in the air, the love for my nephew Pauly, that is. He's brought the whole community and his entire family to tears with his passing. Mostly now we're remembering the funny, crazy stories and memories we share about his fantastic life.
Pauly was a man of the people. Some people call it charismatic , charming, but those are mere adjectives for salesmen and hucksters. Pauly "loved" connecting with people. It was a gift. When he talked to you, he noticed you. It felt like you were the only one in the room, special like, because here was someone who genuinely cared about connecting with you. The outpouring of love from loyal friends and even aquaintances attests to that.
Sometimes the attention he got from it bordered on adulation, and he LOVED it! He was human. He played big, worked hard, and his love and acceptance of others knew no bounds. He reached the depths of human frailty and regret, only to rise to the heights of his potential with the discipline, focus and grace of an athlete. My only hope is, that in his short lifetime, he will have inspired all of us to do as much.

February 17, 2013

with love to the warrior and teacher, silva pride may an angel guide you up and may you shine down on akk of us love auntie kari silva

February 17, 2013

Such a mighty presence you had. Your children will feel it as they grow up, through various means. I was a child who's father met an untimely passing and I know they will feel you through the people you have touched, your pictures and family who loved you. I wish you peace Pauly and your family the knowledge they will see you again. Until then....

February 16, 2013

Dearest pauly you will be missed but never forgotten!

Mertie Maracle-Bowman

February 16, 2013

You will always be remembered. From the first day we met at Del Mar Middle school to the last time I saw you in SC. Rest in peace. Michael

Michael L

February 16, 2013

I still can't believe this is true. You were such a great friend to me and I won't ever forget the many fun times we shared!!!! You always made me smile no matter what the occasion. As you are laid to rest today I pray for your family. I am there in spirit may you shine upon us!!!! Love always your friend...Brooke

Brooke

February 16, 2013

rip pauly love and respect

chris singer,nico habecker

February 15, 2013

cynthia so sorry for your the loss of your son you and your family will be in our prayers the mccoys in missouri

February 15, 2013

EVRYDAY YOUR GONE MY HEART HURTS MORE AND MORE. I STILL CANT BELEIEVE YOUR NOT HERE WITH US ANYMORE HOMEBOY. SANTA CRUZ LOVES YOUR LIFE BRO.... RIP PRS

THE HOMEBOYS

February 15, 2013

May the long time sun,
Shine upon you,
All love surround you,
And the pure light withen you,
Guide your way on ....

February 15, 2013

To you Pauly, the light of our daughter for all these years. You are part of our family and those who met you in France will never forget.
Love and respect to our son in law.

Josy & Herve Lamarque

February 15, 2013

You will be missed. Your spirit will live on through all the lives you have touched. We were blessed to have you and we will always remember you. God has called you home to be an angel. You will watch over your family from above. My heart goes out to your family may they find peace and comfort from everyone that you touched.

Urban6

February 14, 2013

I really only knew Pauly as a young boy/young teen, but I know how much he was loved by friends and family, and can not imagine the loss of a chid at any age. My family continues our prayers for all of you. I hope that somewhere peace can be found, knowing that Pauly would want you all to have it. I am so very sorry Eric, Cyndi and kids, I really am. If you need anything, well you know i will help Take Care of Each Other, all my heart

Erin

February 14, 2013

Rest in Peace

February 14, 2013

Pauly, you and your family will always be loved. You have always been a blessing to our family, we will always be here for yours. You will be missed. Love you Pauly!

James Sanchez Sr.

February 14, 2013

Pauly - I still do not understand how this can be real. The presence and smile you had was one of a kind and I will forever be grateful that you were in our lives. You are sorely missed by all of us. We love you always - Joe, Calley and Taylor (Johnsen)

February 14, 2013

Pauly, thanks for getting up all those Sunday mornings to teach me Escrima. You will be missed by all of us. RIP, Sensei.

Sherman Chin

February 14, 2013

It's really really sad that we had to loose another good dude. That song "Only the good die young" is so true at times. I wish his family much LOVE AND RESPECT. Peace from the MIDTOWN S.C.

Sean E Sen

February 14, 2013

I love you. You showed me how to demonstrate respect for another. You know how our relations was and now is. My heart cries and is truly broken.

Eric Smith

February 14, 2013

Pauly you are truly one of the great men on this planet. You will be missed by many.this town has lost a great asset and teacher. Love and respect are some of the most powerful things on earth and you had both. A great man, friend , warrior ,father, and teacher. My love go's out to the silva family and all your friends.I know you look upon us with a smile and a fist ! Until then my brother until then. Love and respect from the Barrett family.

Mike Barrett

February 14, 2013

Pauly you are one of the great men on this planet .you will be missed by many. Love and respect are some of the most powerful things on this earth and you had them both. We have lost a great asset to this town,but your spirit will live on.I know your looking down with a smile and a fist ,keeping it worm for us we will see you again , tell then my brother tell then

Mike Barrett

February 14, 2013

MISS YOU.ALWAYS

Brown eyes posey

February 14, 2013

Pauly,
You've been a ritchus person as long as I've known you. When I was younger my brother would tell me how cool you are. Anybody that's had the pleasure of knowing you would agree. Thanks for being a good friend. I guess it's true... the good die young. I know my brother welcomed you into heaven with a big smile that he always had. I also know your shining down on your family and friends with your wings wrapped around them. Now your a guardian angel, something you've always been. I'm sad because your gone but thankful that I had the privileged of knowing you.
You'll always be loved and never forgotten! REST IN PARADISE

Michael Diaz

February 13, 2013

You were my first and only love. The hole you left in my life and my heart is too big for anyone to fill. You would be so proud of all the help your daughter and I are getting to get through this difficult time. It saddens me that she'll never get to know you and learn to kick boys' butts from you. I know that you're watching over both of your little angels. I love you and miss you so much.

Maeva Silva

February 13, 2013

Please feel to write, your kind sentiments are helping a grieving mother find blessings during this terrible loss. I cannot express enough my appreciation from all who knew Pauly. Thank you! Thank you!

cyndi smith

February 13, 2013

Our deepest condolences to the Silva family from the teachers and students of Pencak Silat Gerakan Suci.
Our prayers are with Pauly and his family.
Peace.

Rennie Saunders

February 13, 2013

Pauly, Your missed my friend. Rest In Peace.

Spiff

February 13, 2013

Rest in peace...

February 13, 2013

I still cant believe your gone its so unreal Pauly, im angry and heartbroken and im trying understand this but i just cant. I love you and will miss you FOREVER!! REST IN PARADISE PAULY SILVA

Noelle Drechsler

February 13, 2013

A Benifit Fund has been set up and this is the link to the PayPal fund for Pauly Silva. You can find it also on the "Never Forget Pauly Silva" Facebook page. Please donate as much or as little as you can for the family. Anything will be much appreciated.

https://www.paypal.com/us/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_flow&SESSION=w45hreIMniIQVEisY2FK9ZWV75xQv4Y9PyR8g71PkO2Ovty-kz5-hNu9xOK&dispatch=5885d80a13c0db1f8e263663d3faee8d569c51c61ce57e9125f793ea33988004

February 13, 2013

Viv and Family, we cant express how much our heart aches for you and the family. I do know the love you had for him because you smiled from your soul when you told me stories of him. R.I.P. Mr.Silva.

Ed and Vicki Goodwin

February 13, 2013

RIP my old friend

Alisha

February 13, 2013

R I P Pauly you will be missed

Ron Hinkle

February 13, 2013

A loving father, brother, son and friend taken too soon before his time. Words seem inadequate to express the sadness I feel about Pauly's death. I wish all of you peace, comfort and courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. There is a sying :

"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal"

And so the memory of Pauly will never die as long as you keep it alive in your hearts.

I send my warmest condolences and caring thoughts for Maeva, Paloma and Pauly's family and friends. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

Naomi Ganase Grabenstaetter

February 13, 2013

Pauly, I love you so much and now that your gone I can't say that to you ever again...You made me laugh and you were there for me at that very hurtful time when I needed you the most. We spent everyday with each other. I am so proud of all of your accomplishments, and I know your legacy lives on in your girls. I was always so proud of you too. Now you are God's gain and our loss. I weep for you and I feel like this is a dream my dear little brother and it isn't REALLY happening yet. Just know I will always be your loving older sister and will NEVER forget you...

Vanessa Silva-Chobanian

February 12, 2013

o balanced teacher
we shall walk again
on the yard
in the sky
under a new moon
and brighter sun.
for today
god
has summoned
a master.

pabski h

February 12, 2013

Pauly... All that comes to my mind is the definition of a loyal, true, genuine person. I love you. Your smile lives in my heart, and you're always in my thoughts. When i think about you up there watching down on us, i hope you're taking some breaks and getting down with all those legendary fighters up there too... I know you gotta show them a thing or two :) Rest in Paradise!!! Until we meet again <3

Michaela Camacho

February 12, 2013

o balanced teacher we shall walk again on the yard
in the sky under a new moon and brighter sun... for today god has summoned a master.

pablo h

February 12, 2013

Man, can't even process that your gone! Had know idea your where in Santa Cruz.... I haven't see you or your fam for over 17 years. Thinking about the trouble we would get into as kids.Makes me really sad to think that we won't get a chance to catch up and hang out. I'm gonna miss you brother. To the Silva family my prayers our with you, from the Solorio family

Paul Solorio

February 12, 2013

it takes many months to create a life
and only a second to take it away
we do not know why the ones we love are taken
when or how long we all stay

but what is left behind
in the pictures, stories and prayers
is what is given to us as gifts
when we know that someone is no longer physically there

that pain you feel within your heart
that hurt you cant describe
the loss of word, the empty feeling
that sorrow that makes you cry
it is the ying to our yang
that you never can define
the sorrow we feel
that hurt and pain
is only for a very loved persons life

why do the best always go
why do they always seem to leave
god cant give us his best angels forever
only to teach us what we need
so rest in paradise pauly silva
i know that you are there
and thank you for your beautiful family
that you have given us all to share

Alix McGuffin

February 12, 2013

RIP. Your legacy lives on and is undeniable through all the kind words from the Santa Cruz community.

The Peuse's

February 12, 2013

Pauly.... I love you brother. This all seems unreal to me because you werte just living with me. Im greatful I got to spend time with you and build memories. You were my big brother and I will never forget you. I cant stop thinking about you and wish I could turn back the time. I love you brother, I will see you soon. You will forever be in my heart and soul, You were a good friend, brother, roommate, mentor, father, ect. God just gained a loyal angel. Rest in peace brother.

Aldo Sardi

February 12, 2013

Pauly you were taken to soon , although I know your watching down on us , in a place filled with warmth and love . It still seems so cruel and unfair , your story wasn't over it had only just begun. There will come a time when we will all meet again but for now all we can do is remember the man you were and live our lives to the fullest and cherish each moment as if it were our last cause loosing you caused us to see that it could be with out warning , rest with the angles my friend

Rebecca Vangilder

February 12, 2013

Pauly, We have been friends for 17yrs. I love U & I will miss you dearly, my friend.The world has suffered the loss of a wonderful man, father & a great friend. My utmost respects & regardsto you & your family, especially your poor parents, wife,babies & Leal. You will always be remembered Sweetie,& I will hold you in my heart forever. At 12:40am on Saturday February 9 2013, Santa Cruz was Silenced by the loss of our friend, Pauly Silva who was wrongly & unexpectedly taken from us, but at that moment, Heaven was blessed with an Angel. Ill miss U Pauly. Thank you for blessing my life with your friendship for the last 17 years. Rest in peace. Goodbye my friend, love always and sincerely, Anabel

anabel haggarty

February 12, 2013

This is so hard for so many of us..It seems like only yesterday we were all togegher as kids, then even as adults having just as much fun but now with our own kids!! Thank you for treating me and my boys like family and Welcoming us home like we had not missed a beat! Your infectious smile and suave personna will never be forgotten!!! You were a Great friend even when you never let me get a Jab in!! Im gonna miss your presence that always filled the room, Thanks for the memories,I will never forget, Pauly Silva!!!

Linda Lovaglio-Cortese

February 12, 2013

PAULY SILVA.......NEVER FORGOTTEN

February 12, 2013

RIP...................

Luis Ortiz

February 12, 2013

Pain, regret and sadness these feelings of helplessness are quite real.
Accompanied by anger and frustration in my heart this is how I feel.
Underestimating how profound the loss of you would be.
Learning how many lives you touched, like fishes in the sea.
Your presence was felt by many yet your absence was felt by more.
Spanning your wings you are now free you will forever soar.
Into the sky your spirit flies and we wait to feel your embrace.
Let the wind from the ocean waves and rays from the sun be your hands upon our face.
Victory is ours in memories, stories and pictures that bring us to tears.
Always and forever Pauly you will be loved and missed beyond your years!

Emma Sanchez

February 12, 2013

Shana Dimartino

February 12, 2013

Pauly. It's been a long time since we have been close or even seen each other. I am so sad we never reconnected. You were my big brother, one of the best friends I have ever had still. I am deeply sorry for your family. I have always kept a spot for u in my heart & will forever. I pray for peace!

Lara Campbell

February 12, 2013

A true friend. Rest in paradise pauly thank you for being you.till we meet again

Jr Santana

February 11, 2013

Miss u big homie..

Ab

February 11, 2013

R.I.P Pauly...you will be missed by a lot of friends and family..I still can't believe it...we talk a day before this happen..you will always be in my heart..never forgotten !!!!!!

Abraham o

February 11, 2013

Pauly , you were loved and respected by so many people.. May you fly free and soar with the angels. My thoughts, prayers and condolences to your family.. Rest in Paradise <3

Donna Herbert

February 11, 2013

Pauly my superman brother ..w/a big heart, beautiful wife , family, and an inspiritation to me and others in your life. You were a role model - and Im glad sooo many people loved you. Pauly ..YOU...taught me the art of forgiveness ... I'll never forget and always be proud of you.

Natasha Silva

February 11, 2013

We only worked togeather for a short time Pauly but your memory will last a life time. Thank you for your friendship.You were truely a gentle giant. May you rest in peace Pauly.

Jeff Amstutz

February 11, 2013

Megan

February 11, 2013

Pauly I'll think of you everyday and miss you more than anything !!! You brightened all my days up xoxo

Candice Bruner

February 11, 2013

My heart goes out to Pauly's friends and family. What a shocking senseless waste of a wonderful young life. May you rest in peace dear Pauly.

February 11, 2013

RIP PAULY WE MISS AND LOVE YOU

DAWN JACOBSON

February 11, 2013

RIP PAULY WE MISS YOU

DAWN

February 11, 2013

We are all shocked and saddened by your passing, and we pray that you and your family know and have peace.

The Deiters

February 11, 2013

Rest in Peace Pauly. you will never be forgotten

February 11, 2013

Pauly, you were loved by many and will never be forgotten. Rest in paradise my old friend.

February 11, 2013

Gregory Bell, so sorry. i work for ciari. I feel your loss.

greg bell

February 11, 2013

My heart aches over what has happened. Pauly was a good person with a big heart. It is just so unfair that he has been taken from this earth at such a young age. Pauly, you will never be forgotten and will forever be loved by many. My heart goes out to his family and children and may he forever rest in paradise.

February 11, 2013

What a loyal friend, dedicated father, and purely one of a kind person. My heart goes out to your family. Always remembered.

Spencer Morgan

February 11, 2013

Pauly - like so many others felt - you were family.. A part of our lives for years.. No words can portray the sorrow we feel nor the hole left in our hearts.. Rest in Peace dear friend..

Lynn

February 11, 2013

Pauly,,,You were taken way too early,,,but you will Never ...Ever...be forgotten....what a Wondrous Man you were...You touched many lives So Deeply,,,RIP

Jacqueline LaCroix

February 11, 2013

Ilove you.You'll be missed by everyone who had the pleasure to meet you,your prescence in this world will be sorely missed. Even though this all seems unreal, I will NEVER FORGET PAULY SILVA

Silva

February 11, 2013

Miss You
Love Lindy

Lindy Rush

February 11, 2013

My heart goes out to the family & friends of Pauly...my bff daughter is friends with his wife and I think the suspect has been running around town with others robbing and threatening people for months....I am glad that they are off the street now God Bless Pauly as he did not deserve this!!!

Melinda McCormick

February 11, 2013

Pauly-I really enjoyed working with you...i was blessed to have met you!!! RIP my friend....

Bob Dotterweich

February 11, 2013

Love you brother you will be greatly missed

Joe Johnsen

February 11, 2013

Rest In Peace Pauly, you touched the lives of many and you will live on in all of them. Peace be with your family.
GMRMC Lompico

Joey Jelf V/P

February 11, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and baby girl. Such a tragic loss that didn't need to happen.

February 11, 2013

Your sweet nature and loving way will be missed by all Pauly. Rest in peace.....

Sandy Fee

February 11, 2013

I STILL CAN'T BELIEVE IT'S TRUE... THIS TRULY SUCKS. RIP BIG PAULY...

LORIANNE VIERRA

February 11, 2013

I will miss you Pauly! I have so many great memories &you were a great friend! I will miss your fun personality & I'll never forget you.

Jennifer Hargrove/Bautista

February 11, 2013

I will miss you always Pauly!
R.I.P Bestie

Tawny H

February 11, 2013

Always loved and will never be forgotten, be with the angels Por-vida

amber strmiska

February 11, 2013

You were always there with a helping hand, a friendly smile and a all around great person. You will be missed by so many. R.I.P. Pauly

Heather Emswiler

February 11, 2013

You brought laughter to my heart with your magnetic personality. My prayers go out to your family and all who have been touched by your life. Gone but never to be forgotten. RIP Pauly Silva

Alison Marino

February 11, 2013

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