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Priscilla Washburn Shaw

1930 - 2015

Priscilla Washburn Shaw obituary, 1930-2015, Santa Cruz, CA

Priscilla Shaw Obituary

Priscilla (Tilly) Washburn Shaw
Sept. 25, 1930 - July 21, 2015
Resident of Santa Cruz
Priscilla (Tilly) Washburn Shaw, born in Massachusetts, September 25, 1930, died peacefully at her home in Santa Cruz surrounded by her friends, July 21, 2015. A literary scholar, poet, and UC Santa Cruz faculty member in Literature from 1966 to 1993, Tilly Shaw arrived with the opening of Stevenson College in 1966-67, as a visiting faculty member from Yale. She was hired by the Board of Studies in Literature in 1967, one of few tenured women in UCSC's early days and the only tenured woman in literature. In addition to her published work on Valery, Yeats, and Rilke, she developed a specialist interest in Conrad and Lawrence in the '70s and Levertov, Plath, Sexton, and especially Adrienne Rich in the '80s. She particularly loved the stimulating interdisciplinary atmosphere of those early days at USCS.
She was a daughter of the academy. Her father taught at Boston University and her maternal grandfather at the University of Pennsylvania. Her mother, with an ABD in French, was an esteemed teacher of French language at the progressive Cambridge School of Weston, and Tilly's three years of high school there were extremely happy and stimulating. This was her springboard to Swarthmore College and then to Yale where her graduate work in comparative literature led her to UCSC.
As a child, Tilly was influenced by a debt her parents contracted during the Great Depression and by their marital struggles. For example, her family grew all their vegetables for the year in a huge Victory garden during the summer and canned them for the winter, to save money. As an undergraduate, she studied psychology, including Freud, relatively new in this country at the time, which deepened her understanding of herself, her family, and of literary texts. She often said that she heard unspoken conversations more loudly than spoken ones, which was also true of her uncanny ability to get inside literary texts. One of the first among her peers at UCSC to become interested in feminist studies and women's writing, she determined to teach half her classes on women authors every year from the '80s on. She brought her gifts for close reading— of people as well as texts— and for listening, to her students and to those she counseled for years in Santa Cruz' Co-Counseling program.
An astute and generous critic and editor, Tilly also became a serious poet and devoted supporter of poets and poetry. She met for many years with three poetry groups, was an active founding member of the Board of Poetry Santa Cruz, and authored two collections of poems, Swimming Closer to Shore (2004) and the forthcoming Hanging Out in the Ordinary, both published by Hummingbird Press. Tilly was an avid lover and mainstay supporter of all the arts, especially film, live theater, and musical performance, in addition to literary readings. She herself sang for a number of years in the Westside Community choir, and loved listening to the harmonies sounding around her.
Tilly was a passionate ocean swimmer—in the Atlantic, where she summered in a little cabin in the woods her father had built on the coast of Massachusetts, in the Caribbean where she went every January with her old friend Ruth Perry, and in the Pacific near the wharf in Santa Cruz. In her retirement she was an intrepid traveler with her beloved friend, Audrey Stanley, founder of Shakespeare Santa Cruz.
Tilly leaves cousins and a brother, with niece and nephew on the East coast, and dear longtime friends there and in Santa Cruz and abroad who will miss her deeply. A celebration of her life is being planned for late September. Donations in her name to Poetry Santa Cruz are most appreciated.

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Published by Santa Cruz Sentinel from Jul. 28 to Aug. 2, 2015.

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Donald Avery Graham

June 10, 2023

Tilly was my instructor at Yale for a class in modern poetry I took in my senior year, 1962-63. She had the greatest influence on me of any of my professors (a spectacular group in those days?), because she taught me how to delve into the verbal depths if a poem, rather than accept any superficial meaning. We were visited in our seminar room by Donald Hall and Randall Jarrell, among others, but it was Tilly herself who left a lasting impression, giving me subtle pleasure for the rest of my life. I visited her once in Santa Cruz years later, and we shared a night of psychic exploration never to be forgotten.

Toni (Klimberg) McClory

March 9, 2017

I am deeply saddened to discover that my search for Professor Shaw is too late! I so wanted to connect with her when Bob Dylan recently won the Nobel Prize for Literature: I was a student in her Stevenson core seminar in 1967. Professor Shaw assigned a Dylan song for analysis. None of us could understand his lyrics and there were loud protests from my fellow students on the day the assignment was due. One even accused her of trying too hard to be "relevant." Professor Shaw responded in exasperation, "Where did the Admissions Office find you people? How can you not know Dylan?!" And she firmly and memorably concluded, "THIS. IS. POETRY!"

October 26, 2015

We greatly appreciate Tilly's support for our work.

Beth Golden
Doctors Without Borders USA

Tilly Shaw at original meeting of Founders of Poetry Santa Cruz. Photo by Gloria Alford.

Robert Sward

September 13, 2015

9/13/2015 - Just back from radio station KUSP Santa Cruz' Poetry Show, 88.9, Memorial reading tribute to our long-time friend and colleague and member of our poetry group. Readings of Tilly's poems by Lisa Ortiz, Charles Atkinson, Farnaz Fatemi, David Swanger and Robert Sward.

September 8, 2015

Tilly and her quiet, guiding presencetouchstones in my writer's life. I miss her and will always. That she and my father were at Stevenson during an overlapping time also mattered greatly.

Frieda Gardner

August 20, 2015

met Tilly Shaw just once, sometime in the seventies when I used to visit Paul and Sally Goodman in North Stratford NH. She came to visit her long-term friend Ruth Perry. It was a talky household, lots of non-stop New York-style opinions, sporting but edgy arguments about literature, politics, culture. Tilly walked in, quiet, rather soft-voiced, with vivid, curious/kindly blue eyes. I watched her watching. I noted her listening, with seemingly no need to jump right in and assert. At first, I was uneasy in her presence. What was the deal? Tilly was kind and slyly humorous, a confident person, it turned out, but not needing to make a show of it. She spoke with incisively, but with no need for the last word. Conversation with her was not
a matter of Contest. What I heard and saw of Tillie was a sweet relief. Another way.
Frieda Gardner, Mpls

August 13, 2015

I met Tilly thru Poetry Santa Cruz. I loved her keen ear that heard the unsaid words. Her no nonsense approach to life but most of all her wonderful heart . This is a great loss. Peg

August 9, 2015

Such a spark of joy you were

Blessings, janine

Liz

August 8, 2015

I met Tilly around the time that "Family" came out. Her poems about her mother and her dementia really spoke -- and later, when I was taking care of my own mother, I would go back to them with new understanding. Tilly was the best of poets and teachers: so gentle yet strong, quiet yet steady as a hum, funny but sensitively insightful. She was such a gift to us.

August 7, 2015

Dearest Tilly, esteemed member for over a decade of our Santa Cruz poetry group, wonderful, modest about her gifts... Dedicated to the craft of poetry and loyal supporter of Poets, both local and from afar!

Brenda Shaughnessy

August 3, 2015

Tilly was one of my first poetry teachers. She took all of us young poets so seriously, and really cared about our development as writers. This was one profound way her feminism manifested. She seemed to relish helping us learn how to say what we wanted to say as beautifully, clearly, powerfully as possible. She was so kind, and full of joy as well as incisive, useful criticism, and she made "a poet" seem like a real thing a person could be. Her feminism made an impact: I'll never forget how she said as a female grad student at Yale she wasn't even allowed in certain libraries, how male professors had to write her letters of permission so she could gain admittance to certain buildings and certain research rooms! It blew me away. And then in the next moment she'd wrestle with a turn of phrase in one of our goofy undergraduate poems and unearth some real beauty or power there. She made it clear to us that writing poems mattered. And oh, she mattered to me too, what she thought mattered. She deeply influenced my decision to become a poet but more than that, she modeled that choice as visible, possible, viable...even to messy, uncertain young women like me in 1992 and 1993. Rest in peace dear poet, beloved teacher!

philip wagner

July 29, 2015

She was a dedicated poet, a real booster of a friend, a fine person. I loved her consistent, tempered poetry, always a quiet surprise. It blows me away she's gone.

Pam O'Shaughnessy

July 29, 2015

Tilly was a New Englander at the core though she lived in California so many years. She had a mild way about her, wrapped around a strong, certain core. She had mastered the art of speaking directly and honestly, but in a kind way at the same time. She was acute in her understanding of people. Her poetry expresses her observations of herself and others with the same honesty and acuity.

Tilly found time to support others in their work and I was grateful to feel that warm strength myself.

Tilly was an example to me of a woman late in life, independent, accomplished, free. I hope to follow her example.

Bernice Rendrick

July 28, 2015

Her strong work ethic and inspiring presence for all
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