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John Gregory Tweed The Reverend John Gregory Tweed died on March 20th from complications of heart disease at his home in Santa Fe, New Mexico, where he lived since 2002. Greg was a man for all seasons. Over his lifetime, he had an impact on everyone he met—in his ministry as a chaplain, an early pioneer in AIDS outreach and care, an author, and later as a landscape painter. Born in Yankton, South Dakota on January 16, 1940 to Gabriel and Bethine Tweed, Greg travelled east for his education, earning a B.A. from the College of William and Mary in 1962, and then to Yale Divinity School, were he earned a Doctor of Divinity. Greg served as a minister at the Congregational Church of Ridgefield, Connecticut, and the First Congregational Church of Old Lyme in Connecticut. From 1974 to 1978, he was a minister at First Congregational Church in North Hampton, Massachusetts. In 1978, Greg became Pastor of New York City's Washington Heights Collegiate Church until 1980, when he became Senior Pastor of the Middle Collegiate Church. Greg went back to New York City to serve as Co-Pastor with Norman Vincent Peale at the Marble Collegiate Church on 5th Avenue. During these years in New York, he was also very involved with the Manhattan Council of Churches. In 1995, the Greg co-wrote an article with George D. Exoo for the Lutheran Quarterly on "Peale's Secret Source," which revealed that Peale lifted large quantities of material from the work of Florence Scovel Shinn, a teacher of the occult. The essay demonstrated that the "Positive Thinking" of Norman Vincent Peale was not merely a watering-down of the Christian faith, but a conscious substitution of pagan ideas for the gospel. Greg continued to question the foundations of Peale's work until the day he died. Warren Smith, an author writing about issues of occult in evangelical churches, commented that "Greg had a keen eye for noting spiritual deception and hypocrisy in the church, but...it never affected his love for God." Greg also was not shy in his advocacy of other issues, attracting significant media attention about civil rights causes in NYC. For example, he became involved with the first efforts to provide hospice care to AIDs patients in New York City. Greg was a member of a visionary and compassionate group of New Yorkers who united to form the AIDS Resource Center, later renamed "Bailey House." In1989, he moved with his late partner, Cliff Myrbo, to Fort Lauderdale continued to be active as a chaplain in AIDS outreach programs. Greg arrived in Santa Fe 2002, settling into El Zaguan, an artist colony, where he was the oldest-residing artist in residence and painted, wrote, and entertained a wide circle of friends. Greg left his mark on the world in countless ways, including his forgiveness, intelligence, wit, humor, love, and abiding good cheer even during difficult times. Among his many talents, Greg was a famed raconteur and singer of show tunes. His rich baritone belting out "Easter Parade" will be missed by many. Greg is survived by his brother Stephen Tweed of Fargo, North Dakota; niece Abigail Tweed; nephews Andrew and Christian Zorn; nieces Mary Zorn and Kate Kalthoff; his ex-wife Nerice Kaufman, of Vista, California; and a legion of loyal and loving friends, as well as his beloved dog, Rochester. His sister, Rosemary Zorn, predeceased him in 2010.

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Published by Santa Fe New Mexican on Mar. 24, 2012.

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Kirk Lynch

October 3, 2012

While home from College, Reverend Tweed hired me to be the church secretary for Middle Collegiate Church. I remember spending countless hours talking about life with Reverend Tweed. He use to tell me that he was a direct descendent from Peter Stuyvesant. The one thing that I will always remember is how he taught me temperance. Thanks for believing in a young african american man. God bless.

David Fassnacht

May 26, 2012

I just learned of Greg's passing. He was my next door neighbor in Townhouse Isles for many years and I was lucky enough to visit and spend time with him after his move to Santa Fe. I have so many fond memories of him. His sense of humor and laughter will always light up my heart. His Christmas parties always had the most fascinating guests. His eloquence is legendary and I feel blessed to have had him as my friend. My sincerest condolences to his family and Rochester.

Cheryl Myrbo

April 2, 2012

I remember Greg from his NYC and Ft. Lauderdale days and miss his great sense of humor and hearty laugh. He enjoyed life and showed it in his art. May his family find peace.

Mike Brosnan

March 30, 2012

What an amazing life he lead! I will always remember his his laugh!

Drew Whitney

March 28, 2012

Greg Tweed was an old and good friend of many years. He was an inspiration.He had a wonderful sense of humor.He was a gentleman and a scholar. Above all he was a wonderful person who always tried to help humanity in any way he could. The world has lost a truly noble human being.I will miss you dearly my friend.

Historic Santa Fe Foundation

March 26, 2012

Your presence will be missed, dear Greg.

Ronald Cadmus

March 25, 2012

With kind thoughts of prayer and grace to a spiritual colleague whom I always kept in the contemplative journey of seeking and understanding.
Rev. Ron Cadmus

March 25, 2012

My sincere sympathies go out to Greg's family.
Greg was blessed with many talents and an extraordinary career.
Sleep soundly old friend.
Cliff Johnson

mimi Belford Okno

March 25, 2012

i was glad to read about Greg whm I have not seen since 1965 when we broke up our engagement to be married. He appears to have a meaningful life-Mimi Belford Okino

Max Martinez

March 25, 2012

Greg was an immediate and incredible friend, he will be missed in Santa Fe and especially at El Zaguan.

Brenda Roper

March 25, 2012

Go well into the beyond my dear neighbor. I will remember "in the bleak midwinter". . .acapella, from your front room filled with friends on Christmas Eve

Peter Harper

March 24, 2012

Pie Jesu,
Qui tollis peccata mundi
Dona eis requiem.

Agnus Dei,
Qui tollis peccata mundi,
Dona eis requiem
Sempiternam.

Susan Munroe

March 24, 2012

Greg Tweed performed my son's marriage ceremony at Christmas in 2009 at the Loretto Chapel. I'll never forget his arms raised high as he he exhorted this lovely couple to "Go, be fruitful and multiply." How his magnificent voice must have resonated at Marble Collegiate Church. He will be greatly missed

John Taylor

March 24, 2012

My deepest sympathies go out for Greg and his family and friends. I along with the other Pete's Place board members enjoyed a delightful weekend in Santa Fe last August with Greg. I will always remember that reunion weekend and the summer of '64 we all spent together at Camp Kiniya in Vermont.

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