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Jackie L. Nielsen (Davis)
October 17, 2012
Kim and I worked at the Bay City Times while both of us were in high school.We graduated together in 1960, but I lost track of him. I am pleased he continued his work in the Fourth Estate.It was my dream, but women were assigned the society page which wrote about details of lace on wedding dresses and the flowers carried by the bride.Kim wrote about what he loved and it sounds like he did indeed have a rich life. -30- Jackie Davis Nielsen
Alan Zachary
September 16, 2012
Dearest Anne,
Quite by accident, I just stumbled upon Kim's obituary. How can I possibly measure the depth of my sorrow and helplessness, For ten years you and Kim were anchors in my life, the kindest and most generous and gracious friends and, all these years later, despite the long silence, an always-present, joyful memory. People like Kim can never leave us entirely. The many times I was fortunate enough to spend with you both are today brighter and more cherished than ever.
Love,
Alan Zachary
[email protected]
John Logue
December 25, 2011
Dear Ann:
I was struggling to find your address for a Christmas card. And Kim's death crowded out the world. Let me start out my beginning: This lean, quiet guy slips into the Journal Sports Dept. on the 4th floor. All we knew: a Vanderbilt man. That quietness had to be over-confidence.
We had a wicked cure. Asher, the Prep Editor, sends him to interview Prep basketball coach Ozzie Wadowitz (sp). He was the most dreaded interview in Georgia, never used two words when one would do. We laughed when Kim got back and was typing in his corner.
Until he slipped the story on the copy desk. He puts Ozzie on stage. And proceeds to batter him with questions: each of which he answers: "Yes." Or: "No." About the 21st question Ozzie answers: (Like) "Let me think..." Kim drills on the page: "Please don't interrupt." And hits him with 20 more questions. Of course, Greg Favre plays the story atop the sports page under the headline: PLEASE DON'T INTERRUPT. Ozzie never lived it down. And we knew we had a new heavyweight on the 4th floor.
It helps to smile, remembering that. Because it hurts so much to miss him, even though he lived so many thousand miles away.
I remember eating with you guys in N.Y. in a joint with a Bocce Ball bowl. Remember your apartment overlook the lake in Chicago. And Helen and I walking with you in London (past Boy George's house) and eating in an Indian Restaurant, and Kim and I (mostly Kim) drilling two Georgia Tech football coaches on the tennis court. How much he loved you and your sons.
He wasn't a guy to speak of his emotions. I asked him straight-out, "You love this reporter?" He said, "Yes. I have to. She's smarter than me." Oh, I remember visiting you in Washington, D.C. and in Atlanta where you lived near Bitsy Grant Center. (I free=loaded a lot.)
His racing novel is the best (if not the only) true literature ever written on those guys and those times.
Oh, you three were lucky to have Kim Chapin and he knew he was lucky to have you.
love john logue and helen logue
Bob Darbee
December 18, 2011
My condelences to you, Roberta.
Marcia David
December 7, 2011
I babysat for the Chapin "kids" many, many years ago. Always enjoyed the family.
Bob/Danette Shirley
December 5, 2011
Unfortunately, I only learned of Kim's death today, ironically, when reading my Sport's Illustrated. He was a good friend of so many of us "soccer parents" who spent a lot of quality time together over the years. Danette and I just saw him a couple weeks ago at the local pub so obviously we were absolutely floored when I read the article and realized that it really was "our" Kim Chapin they were talking about. We can only echo what everyone else has said about the guy. Such a kind and sweet man. Way too short a life but when you live it as he did you can't do better than that. Our deepest condolensces to Ann, Alex and Nick.
Anne
December 4, 2011
I finally had the strength to read these lovely postings this morning. Bless you all for the sweet remembrances that captured a kind man with a generous generous spirit, a devoted husband and a man who, despite being unsure about it all, fell naturally into the role of father --and whose exemplary soul lives on in two beautiful sons. His life was too short, but oh so fully lived.
JoAnne Jobe-Clark
December 1, 2011
ANNE AND FAMILY:WE(B.C. CENTRAL'60)SHARE YOUR LOSS....,'LO SADLY WE BRIEFLY KNEW KIM.
Rennae Ross
November 30, 2011
Anne, Alex, and Nick,
I am thinking of you and am so sorry for your loss. Kim was one very special person, and I am grateful to have known him.
Rennae Ross
Jane Edmands Miller
November 30, 2011
I am so sad. I feel awful at this loss. my husband Don and I are so sorry. Jane Edmands Miller and Don Miller My mother and Kim's mother were best friends for years. Kim and I in elementary school together and high school.
HEINRICH EDIMO
November 29, 2011
I remember Kim as a referee with NNMSA. He was a nice and charming person that always had a smile on his face. We reffed about three games this season together. We will miss you Kim and my the God Lord receive you into his heavenly kingdom. Adieu till we meet to part no more
Sarah Neiswender
November 29, 2011
Aunt Anne, Alex & Nick,
We are thinking of each of you and continue to send prayers your way.
Love, Sarah & Kate Neiswender
November 28, 2011
We will keep your family in our prayers. sorry to hear about your loss. Mr. & Mrs. Gerald J. Sujkowski
Carl Hill
November 28, 2011
I haven't seen Kim in 50 years..maybe longer..but he was special. A truly kind and quiet man..with real talent. I am proud to have known him..even though it was so long ago. God Speed, Kim.
November 28, 2011
Kim was a charming, engaging host and we always enjoyed our visits with him and Anne. Our thoughts and hearts are with his family and friends.
Toni Delisi and Hank Shafran, Brookline, Massachusetts
T Jones
November 28, 2011
My thoughts are with the family, I am so sorry for your loss.
Nic Smith
November 28, 2011
So sad. This is a sudden and great loss. My thoughts are with his family
Sally Denton
November 27, 2011
I will always remember first meeting Kim--my across-the-street neighbor in Washington, D.C. in 1987. We had an impromptu block party when our baby, Ralph, was born, and Kim and his darling little boys put balloons on Bobby's big old green convertible. A gentle, generous soul who always had a smile.
Sally Denton
Barbara Sholley
November 27, 2011
A life gone way too soon.
Bikky
Tam Reaume
November 27, 2011
When I think of my Uncle Kim, I think of the most gentle, graceful, kind and smiling spirit. The hole left by his beautiful presence will be felt forever. May peace find its way to the hearts of his wonderful family and friends.
--Tam
November 26, 2011
Trips to DC and Fripp and words that always kept us talking

Anita Ruthling Klaussen
November 26, 2011
Quiet, very quiet and gentle. We can not believe Kim is no longer with us. We will miss him and his smile.
Anita and Bud
November 26, 2011
Quiet

At Alta, Utah in 2010 L-R, Anne, Tom, Me, Kim
Madeleine Nash
November 26, 2011
In my mind's eye I can still see Kim skiing at Alta & Alpine Meadows....stirring up a pitcher of Margueritas ...setting the table at Linda & Jim's...going for a hill climb in San Francisco.
He was a warm, wonderful person. I feel privileged to have known him.
Billy Reed
November 26, 2011
My condolences to Anne and their children. In my mind
Marjorie Stoddart
November 26, 2011
Kim, you will always hold a special place in my heart love, Marj Stoddart
November 26, 2011
My dear brother Kim was the most beloved uncle, brother, son, best friend, mentor and father figure to me and my children. He will live on in our (broken) hearts forever, and we are all better for having known him.
Wendy
Jon & Claudia
November 26, 2011
Kim always seemed to have his own personal cup at the Fountain of Youth. And that's the way he will live in our memories, with good humor and a smile.
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