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Rex Arrowsmith Obituary

REX ARROWSMITH Rex Arrowsmith, longtime Santa Fe resident and iconic Indian trader, has died at 92. Born in Belleville, Kansas, Rex developed an early interest in American Indian culture and began collecting artifacts as a youth. The knowledge attained from this passion would prove to be very useful later in his life. At 19, he served in World War II as an officer aboard a tanker that carried aviation fuel to combat zones. Following his service, Arrowsmith graduated from the University of Kansas with a degree in mining and metallurgical engineering. While at KU, he met Bonnie Cunningham who became his wife in 1949. He left a lucrative, executive position in Houston, Texas, in 1959 to pursue his passion and opened up a store, Arrowsmith's Relics of the Old West, in Santa Fe across from the Oldest Church on College Street. The unique store and trading post attracted clientele from around the world. Rex was equally at ease wheeling and dealing with Elvis or John Wayne, negotiating with champions of industry, speaking at a board of directors meeting, hunting or fishing with Indian friends or living like a native in the jungles of Costa Rica. Rex was also one of the last, true Indian traders. He would take his sons with him on trading trips to the reservations where he would acquire stock for the store directly from his many Pueblo, Navajo and Hopi Indian friends and from other trading posts and had Indians from the local pueblos coming in on a daily basis to do business. Rex developed many close relationships with these people which resulted in wonderful memories for the entire family. Many a time the Arrowsmiths were invited to spend the night during ceremonials and dances and feasts. Very few would ever experience these events in such intimate surroundings. The business was expanded in 1972 when the Arrowsmith-Fenn Gallery was established on Paseo de Peralta. The new gallery met with success, as well, but Rex and Bonnie had a yearning for travel and sold out their interests to achieve this dream. For over thirty years they circled the globe and saw many beautiful places and made incredible memories. Rex Arrowsmith's achievements in life were many. He was president or chairman of the board of many organizations including SWAIA, The Old Santa Fe Association, and El Rancho de Las Golondrinas. He was very active in the Indian Market for over 50 years and with the Gallup Inter-Tribal Indian Ceremonials. Rex worked tirelessly to retain the character of Santa Fe during the urban renewal push in the 1960's by seeing that historic buildings were saved from demolition by getting into place strict zoning laws within the historic districts. Few know that Rex was a member of the Screen Actors Guild and appeared regularly in the TV series, "Empire" with a young Ryan O'Neal and Charles Bronson and had parts in movies filmed in the Santa Fe area. He was also a candidate as U.S. Ambassador to Costa Rica. However, it is his attributes as a human being for which he will be most remembered. He rarely spoke about his deep Christian faith but lived it every day. Rex was honest to a fault. Most of his deals were made on a handshake and his trustworthiness benefited him both in business and in personal life. He never had a bad word to say about anyone and was very generous. Rex had a great sense of humor and was always the jokester. It was not often that you saw him without a smile on his face. He was kind to others and to his family. The experiences he amassed during his lifetime were wonderful and provided topics for his legendary story telling ability. He will be greatly missed by friends and family alike! Rex Arrowsmith is survived by his wife of 68 years, Bonnie, two sons, Murray and Mark, and their respective wives, Marilyn and Sue, twelve grandchildren and four great-grandchildren. A memorial fund has been set up with SWAIA in his name to benefit the Santa Fe Indian Market. Donations may be sent to: John Jones, SWAIA, P.O. Box 969, Santa Fe, NM 87504-0969.

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Published by Santa Fe New Mexican from Aug. 30 to Sep. 3, 2017.

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Tom Beaty

August 24, 2020

Enjoyed many great times with this family. Mr. and Mrs. Arrowsmith were the best. Their home the old artifacts at the business made this young mind so happy. Love you Murray and Mark.

Kiki May

August 24, 2019

Such fond memories I recall of Rex in the early 70s as we lived on the property as we called it and now the Inn at Lorreto. When my three sons were all in school, Id walk up the Old Santa Fe Trail to Rexs to wander through his beautiful artifacts and usually start my little Christmas shopping there. How he greeted and visited with those that came in his shop was a delightful listen.
I still have the beautiful turquoise and silver jewelry I received as gifts from my husband. He later told me Rex was the one who actually made suggestions of some of the rare pieces and the history that formed the
He was a rare individual and super kind to us. Thank you Rex as you enjoy heavenly peace!

Sambou Sissoko

November 24, 2018

To All the Arrowsmith Family, Your father Rex Arrowsmith was ONE of the Greatest,Honest,Kindest,Kind hearted men I have ever known. He always came to do business with my husband Sambou Sissoko since 1970s . In Santa Fe, Arizona he was always the same.
He will be missed. Know that you all are in our hearts and prayers.
May you all rest in Gods Peace

Kiki May

December 6, 2017

I was very sorry and sad to read of the passing of your husband , Father and grandfather.
We met in the early 70s when we moved to Santa Fe and lived on the Loretta property getting it ready for building of the Inn at Loretto.
I would walk to the shop and admire the many artifacts and jewelry. As a Canadian Metis, my passion was in the history of the artifacts and the stories Rex would tell of them.
I was so surprised when my then husband presented me with the most beautiful squash blossom necklace then later many unusual pieces from Rex's shop.
I've not worn them for years but took them out recently and thought; I should look up to see if he and family are still there.
Thus discovering I was a little late.
He was wonderful and kind to us. We were there when the fire happened, John Wayne made the Cowboys and Lee Marvin was in Pocket Money.
Time seems to have snapped by and I do wish I'd been back. My oldest son was there last year as he drove to his home in Colorado

My prayers are with all the family and I know you miss the wonderful person you shared in your lives. Know he is still with you forever b

Mason

September 15, 2017

We give our deepest condolences to Rex's family and friends. After reading about his life and the many things he die, we felt that we could have known his too. May the warm love and support of family and friends comfort you and bring your peace for your heart and mind. (Psalms 119:76)

Bill Parker

September 9, 2017

It was an honor and a pleasure to be counted among so many of Rex's friends. His warm smile and humor will be missed. I can truly say he was someone I thought about and attempted to emulate daily. Love and condolences to all his lovely family.

clarence vigil

September 7, 2017

sept 4th made my condolences to Mark & Murray saying I still Have the Bud 'Odell I traded with your dad that reminded me of him did not see my name so adding it now with my phone number thank you best wishes always 505-920-2105 Clarence Vigil...

Mary Persinger

September 6, 2017

Rex was a great gentleman. My family friend Virginia Watkins worked for him for many years and I experienced him through her.

Mike Haskell

September 4, 2017

Rex was a very fine man with an adventurous spirit, condolences to Murray and Mark.

Tom and Michelle Beaty

September 4, 2017

What a great life and a great family. Loved being around you're mom and dad as a kid. Missed you all after high school and beyond. Praise God for his promise of eternal life and our belief in his everlasting love for us all. God Bless You. We Love You.

September 4, 2017

condolences Murray & Mark your dad was one of a kind got my first Bud O'Dell through him a cowboy reminded me of your father...best wishes to you & all your family ..

Mark Bahti

September 3, 2017

A gentleman.
My good fortune to have known him.
And my deepest condolences to Bonnie, Murray and Mark.

(please let me know where I might donate in his memory)

Ellen Taubman

September 3, 2017

Rex Arrowsmith's name has been synonymous to the field of American Indian art since I began in the early 1970's. His passing is closing an important chapter for many of us who learned so much because of his passion and willingness not only to embrace these cultures but also to share his knowledge with others. My heartfelt condolences to the Arrowsmith family. Sincerely, Ellen Taubman

Art Wolf

September 3, 2017

Our condolences to Bonnie, Murray, and Mark and their families. Rex was simply the best. Holly and I will miss seeing him, but he made a lasting impression and will not be forgotten.

September 3, 2017

Rex was one of the finest people that I have ever known. He will be missed by our family and his friends around the country. Our love goes to Bonnie, Murray, Mark and their families.

John Berkenfield

Donna Pantuso

September 2, 2017

My heart goes out to you in this loss of such a great man, father, and grandfather.
Love,
Mark and Donna Pantuso

Mike & Beth Steiner

September 2, 2017

We will truly miss you Rex. You were a close friend as well as a wonderful landlord. God Bless.

All of us at Wilson Transfer & Storage

September 1, 2017

A true gentleman and great customer!
Lived by his word and handshake.
Always a pleasure doing business with Mr. Arrowsmith :)
Life well lived, Rest in Peace

Nanse Chavez

August 31, 2017

The community of Santa Fe and outside has lost a friend. Rest in peace so many good things were done and brought to light by Mr Arrowsmith My sympathy to all his family.

Charlie & Karen Drysdale

August 31, 2017

Sorry for your loss, we have many wonderful memories of Rex & my parents.

Charlie & Karen Drysdale

August 31, 2017

Dear Arrowsmith Family,
My sincere condolences for your loss. I knew Rex for many years and there was never a more honest, forthright, savvy or humorous man; he was a true pioneer in our world. RIP. Joan Caballero

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