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Jan Margaret Files

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Jan Margaret FILES Jan Files died unexpectedly on Friday, August 26 at the age of 54 years from a brain aneurysm. She was born in Seattle on Janu ary 23, 1957 to Dr. Menford and Maxine Cole. After her father's death, she was raised by her mother and stepfather, Peter Du buque. She graduated from In gram High School and earned an art degree at Shoreline Commu nity College. She married Charley Files in Seattle in 1984. He preceded her in death on May 20, 2011. She is sur vived by one son, Patrick Files, of Shoreline. Jan is also survived by two broth ers, Dean Cole of Kenmore WA and Mark Cole of Medford OR. She was preceded in death by her parents, stepfather, and one half brother, Herbie Bacon. She is also survived by several nieces and nephews. Jan loved to travel and had visit ed Europe, Asia, and Central America. She went to Moldolva with the NW Medical Team to help burn victims. She loved spending time in Hawaii and do nated much of her time to chari ty. Jan had been a pre school teacher, a sponsor, and a loving mother. Jan had a kind heart and was always trying to help others. Jan's wake will be on October 8 from 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. at the Greenwood Masonic Lodge, 7910 Greenwood Avenue North, Seat tle. Friends and relatives are wel come.

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Published by The Seattle Times on Oct. 2, 2011.

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Karen Martinsen

September 27, 2021

I miss my friend - we were together since 3rd grade. We travelled Europe together. Hawaii. We camped. It´s so hard to lose someone who has been in your life nearly 50 yrs. Even though I was in Alaska, we always got together when I flew south. Never missing a beat. Fondest memories

Karen Martinsen

October 27, 2011

I am headed off to Maui soon, Jan's second home for most of her life. I will plant a seed and light a candle for her near the coast....and send her off into the great blue Pacific. It will be hard to stand where she so recently stood - without her next to me.

Patti Monahan-Minish

October 19, 2011

Such sadness, hearing of Jan's passing. There are so many memories I have with her from our teenage years. She holds a soft place in my heart. I will always remember you, Jan....

Debbie Eicher-Egdamin

October 13, 2011

Very sad to hear of Jan's passing. She had a beautiful smile and a beautiful heart. She will be missed....

Barbara Ingram

October 11, 2011

Jan was a bright, caring, and smart woman who was like a sister to my late husband Tom. She was an amazing member of our teams to Moldova; fearless in sharing her serenity with the needy in their suffering. Blessings to Patrick, his uncles and cousins.

October 9, 2011

So close to the Files family for so long that there are days that we still reach to grasp how quickly the world can "blink" away part of your life. Jan made a lot of people happy for years and our hearts go out to Patrick. Teri and Lambert Ross

Tammy James

October 7, 2011

Jan will be missed by me. She was a huge influence in my life that I will cherish forever.

Karen Martinsen

October 7, 2011

I have been friends with Jan for 46 years. We grew up and we grew a little old together....we turned some major life corners together, and her death leaves a huge hole in my life. But I know she is not gone - I see her in the flowers, feel her in the wind and I know she is with me - forever....my thoughts go out to Patrick and family who have had such a challenging year. Her wonderful way of giving will help all of us heal. We are all blessed to have had her in our life! I look forward to seeing everyone tomorrow.

Jan in Hawaii in 1978. Her smile could light up an entire room.

Dominica "MInk" DeGrandis (Davis)

October 3, 2011

Donna Files

October 3, 2011

Seeing Jan a few months ago at Charley's service and looking well, brought back so many memories of the times when Patrick was a baby. I will always remember her laugh, her bright eyes, and her beautiful long hair. Peace be with you Patrick, and all the family. Love Always, Donna Files

Kevin Kearney

October 3, 2011

Very sad to hear of Jan's passing. I remember her as a sunny, positive person who, in our days at Whitman Junior High, simply made the school a better place. My condolences to her son.

Ken Overa

October 2, 2011

You will be missed Jan. I will alway's remember your great smile.

Tom McAlees

October 2, 2011

Very saddened to hear of Jan's passing. I worked with her many years ago, and last saw her at Charley's wake just a few months ago. My condolences to Patrick, and the rest of her family.

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