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Patricia PETHICK Obituary
Born July 22, 1965 in Niles, Michigan; died September 30, 2012 at her home in University Place with her family by her side. Survived by her parents, Don and Barbara Pethick; brother, Don (Michelle); sister, Nancy Pamintuan (Michael); nieces, Jenna and Lauren; nephew, Nathan; goddaughter, Sally.
Patty graduated from Shorewood High School and was a proud graduate of the University of Washington and University of Puget Sound Law School. She was a skilled attorney, avid reader, enthusiastic traveler and loved to cook for family and friends. Patty was deeply loved and will be greatly missed.
Recitation of the Rosary will be Wednesday, October 10th, 7 PM
at Hoffner Fisher & Harvey Chapel
508 N 36th St, Seattle, WA 98103
Funeral Mass will be celebrated Thursday, October 11th, at 11 AM at St. Luke Catholic Church - 322 N 175th St, Shoreline, WA 98133.
Remembrances may be made to Saint Luke Parish, Saint Patrick in Tacoma or Seattle Children's Hospital.
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for Patricia PETHICK
Kathleen Bemis
April 4, 2019
Don & Barbara, I don't know if you'll get this message as I just found Patty's obituary. I'm so terribly sorry for your loss and devastated to learn of this difficult news. Patty was a force to be reckoned with in the courtroom (her sweet, petite stature) so I was told, as I recall her always teasing that she turned into a bulldog and the opposing attorneys never knew what hit them. Outside the courtroom she touched many lives and no one would ever forget her sincere, sweet love of life and people. We nicknamed her "Scarlett" as I recall. We met when I moved to Gig Harbor in the 90's and became steadfast friends through Junior League Tacoma. I went through a difficult divorce in the late 90's and Patty's friendship and faith helped carry me through difficult times. As Patty was a witness during my Annulment, I came across her letter to my priest recently and was so excited to find her contact information. Patty came to visit me in Nashville, TN after my divorce and we had such a strong friendship I'm sad that years passed and we lost touch. Now I'm speechless and so very, very sad. I've since remarried and live in Nashville. I'd welcome the opportunity to share some of our adventures as she'll always hold a special place in my heart. Patty would have referred to me back then as Kate Moles. 615-604-1876
John Bales
January 15, 2013
I just learned of the passing of Patty. I had contact with her threw my job, we never met, but in conversations on the phone, we became friends. She even thought of me when she went to the Winter Olympics and sent me a Curling souvenir pin. May God's Blessings, Peace, and Love be with the family. She was a very remarkable person!!
Joanne Sato
October 22, 2012
I am saddened to hear the news of Patty's passing. Patty was my little Alpha Gamma Delta sister at UW. I always remember her as smiling, positive, outgoing and enthusiastic. My heartfelt condolences to your family.
Jeff Soine
October 17, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with your family, during this difficult time.
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October 15, 2012
My deepest sympathy to the Pethick family. I have known Patty since we were kids and was saddened to hear of her passing. She is in a better place and for that I am thankful.
Sincerely,
Scott Lindquist
October 15, 2012
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Isabel, Larry, Kevin & Kareen Geraghty
October 11, 2012
A friend from the past, we didn't know Patti but of course Don was a good friend with Kevin. We are sorry for you loss and our prayers are with you at this time
Jenn Schutte
October 10, 2012
Don and Barbara: Please know that we are praying for you all during this difficult time. You are in our thoughts daily. We are so sorry to hear about Patti. We can't believe it. the entire street is grieving. The Schutte Family
October 9, 2012
Dear Mrs. Pethick. We are so sad about the loss of your daughter. We didn't know her, but you were one of the best teachers at North Beach Scool. A favorite. With sincere thoughts, Buffy Nelson and Kathy Nelson
October 9, 2012
Dear Barb,
What a crushing blow to lose such a beautiful gem in your life. I pray that family and friends can help lift you now, in your need. My love to you with prayer for peace and serenity for you, your family and all Patricia's friends.
Donna Keyser Seattle
Kent Porter
October 9, 2012
It was with great sadness that I learned of your loss. It has been a number of years since I saw Patti but I remember her with much fondness and joy. I had the honor and pleasure of working with her at Shorewood as a teacher and her class advisor. I have wonderful memories of a beautiful, smart, friendly and just fantastic person. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss.
Sisters of the Holy Name of Jesus and Mary
October 9, 2012
Dear Barbara, Don and Family,
The Sisters are holding all of you in their thoughts and prayers. We know your dear Patty will always smile upon you and bless you. May her eternal peace and joy be yours as well.
Kit Proctor
October 9, 2012
I first met Patti when she was an intern at the prosecutor's office (where I work) and later was her opposing counsel on many of her appellate cases. She was a smart, articulate advocate and her professionalism was top notch. She had a smile that could light up a room. I am in shock that we have lost her so soon. I offer my deepest sympathy and prayers to all who knew and loved her.
Jeff Thompson
October 9, 2012
Sincere condolences to the family and prayers for peace during this difficult time.
Mike and Chris Havnaer
October 8, 2012
Dear Don, Barbara, Nancy and Donny,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Mike and Chris Havnaer
Stacey Stanford
October 8, 2012
My heart goes out to you all! Patty was always so friendly and warm! I hope the wonderful memories you have together, can help ease the pain at this difficult time!
Nancy Curtiss
October 8, 2012
I wish I had the opportunity to know Patty in recent years. I valued her friendship in high school and I can only imagine the beautiful person she continued to be. My prayers will continue to be with her family and friends that are hurting in this time of loss. Loss is hard, loss too soon is even harder.
Stacey Smythe
October 8, 2012
Dear Don, Barbara and family, it has been years since I have connected with Patty. She was one of my best friends in law school. We were room mates at an apartment on South 19th Street in Tacoma. Patty was in my study group and a dear friend. I have so many fond memories of her during our battle years in law school. She always made me laugh and was a kind and generous ear when needed. She was always so thoughtful and every Christmas I could count on receiving her Christmas card. Patty will be greatly missed! My thoughts and prayers are with you!
Doris and Duane Stober
October 8, 2012
We were truly sorry to hear of your daughter's passing. We extend our deepest sympathy to you, Barb, Don and the rest of your family and want you to know we are thinking of you. May God give you comfort.
October 8, 2012
Dear Don, Barbara, Donny and Nancy,
I was devastated to hear the news of Patty's passing. I have been praying for you, Barbara, for years, but was not expecting to hear the news of your daughter. I am so sorry for your loss.
Love to you all and know that you are in my prayers.
Kristi Gustafson-Lin
Lynette Smallwood
October 8, 2012
It has been years since I had last seen Patty and many more since we had been to high school together. I have always had a deep respect for her drive and her strength.
Corinne Pann
October 8, 2012
Don and Barbara, my heart breaks for you and your family. It is so hard to believe Patty's vibrant, enthusiastic life has passed so soon. Sending you much love and many prayers.
October 8, 2012
I grew up just one block from Patty's house. Her sister Nancy was my best childhood friend and had spent many years over at the Pethick's home. I will always remember Patty as being kind, generous, bright and always reading a book. My deepest condolences to you Nancy, Donny, Barbara and Don as well as all the people who knew and loved her. May she rest in peace.
Barbara Corey
October 7, 2012
My deepest condolences to Patti's family and to Sally. Our loss is so great.
Patti walked into my life as a legal intern and never walked out. She was "just an intern" for about two minutes before her wit, vibrancy, and compassion for others became obvious. Patti's enthusiasm for life, her zeal for whatever project lay before her, and her intense desire to understand her work and the people involved were her hallmarks. Patti always was there to provide support in times of sickness, personal difficulties. She showed her love for her friends a hundred ways every day. Patti was loving, loyal, and loved to laugh!
Patti brightened the world. We indeed will miss her and never forget her. And we will see her again
October 7, 2012
Nance, Donny, Barbara and Don I am so sorry for your loss. Many prayers to all of you
Robin Drury Faulknor
Anna
October 7, 2012
Pretty Patty's enthusiasm and kindness will be greatly missed by all of us who had to good fortune to know her
Sheri Arnold
October 7, 2012
Patty was and always will be of the best and the brightest.... with the heart of a lion. She will be deeply missed. Rest in peace, Patty.
Brenda Lovett
October 7, 2012
Aunt Barbara and Uncle Don, I am very sorry to hear about the loss of Patty. She will be missed, our prayers and thoughts go out to you and the family.
October 7, 2012
I went to high school with Patty. She was notably bright, articulate, and sensitive, making her passing an even greater loss. These memories will remain.
Barbara Flath
October 7, 2012
I only knew Patricia through our work. I too am a Pethick. My father's name was Don and my mother's name was Sandra. Patricia knew my brother Bill. She was a brilliant young lady. I am sure that she will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Linda King
October 7, 2012
Patty was one of the finest legal advocates I have ever known -- fiercely intelligent, sensitive, passionate about her profession. I am honored to have worked with her on many cases. My prayers are with her family, MK and Sally in this time of incredible loss. May God "comfort all who mourn, provide for those who grieve in Zion--to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of despair." Isaiah 61:1-3.
Pam Rogers
October 6, 2012
Patty's passing is a staggering loss to those who loved her - and there are many. She was a fiercely loyal friend and remarkable lawyer. Her home and heart were always open to those she loved. She was beautiful and vibrant, articulate and empathetic and her laugh was contagious. There aren't enough positive adjectives to capture Patty. That would require a book.
To her family, I wish you comfort and peace in our shared knowledge that, while you're hurting, she is better than fine. Patty would be the first to say that she was well-raised by good people whom she not only loved, but also respected and admired. While most certainly gone far too soon, Patty had a great life.
To Mary Kay and Sally, her best friend and Goddaughter, I'm confident that one day soon you'll find your way through the pain to think of Patty and smile again - grateful for the gift of her unwavering love and support. You were her much-deserved chosen family and were beyond fortunate to have her so deeply entwined in your lives. You - and she - chose well.
Patty will be sorely missed.
Julie Raichart Stevens
October 6, 2012
I will miss Patty's unbelievable love of life! I will miss her wonderful parties and food and that laugh when she was excited. Patty was truly the center of our group started back when Sally was just little and we would meet at MK's to take her trick or treating. Patty always cared so much about what was going on in our lives and with our families. To Patty's family I am so sorry for your loss. To Mary Kay and Sally, my heart is breaking for you. Patty you were so loved and you will be missed so much!
mitch freedman
October 5, 2012
I wouldn't have made it through world history without Patty Ann's help. Wishing her family and friends peace.
Kathleen Steed-Luick
October 5, 2012
Intelligent, articulate, loving, forgiving, brave, beautiful and energetic. No room was dark once she entered. No conversation was dull in which she shared. Always ready with a smile and a hug. Never failing to offer a word of hope or encouragement. She not only taught me to read, but instilled in me joy in the written word. I would not be who I am without her. I will miss her terribly. But I take great comfort in knowing she was a woman of firm faith in Our Lord. God is faithful. We will see her again. May God's consoling Holy Spirit be with us all.
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