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Robert (Rob) J. DOWNER Robert (Rob) J. Downer, born January 2, 1955 in Oakland, CA and grew up in Shoreline, WA., passed away after a short courageous battle with cancer on December 26, 2011. Rob loved playing his drums, guitar and singing with several different bands. Rob loved telling jokes and was a great impersonator of John Wayne, Rodney Dangerfield and Johnny Carson just to mention a few. Rob was a perfectionist and loved reading. He is survived by his partner Lisa of 30 years, who was by his side continuously. He also is survived by his father Jim, sister Cheryl and brother Tom. There will be a memorial at a later time. Remembrances can be made in Rob's name to Evergreen Hospice of Kirkland, WA.

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Published by The Seattle Times on Jan. 15, 2012.

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Mark & Diane Conley

January 19, 2012

We were so saddened by the loss of Rob on December 26th....... he was a great guy who left us far too soon. He was blessed with many gifts... a great musical talent with a wonderful singing voice....and a damned good guitarist and drummer. We enjoyed seeing him in bands around Seattle, but we most enjoyed listening to him sing alone in his living room, just relaxed and low-key... just Rob and his guitar. Unfortunately, we didn't get to see that very often, but it was a special treat whenever we did. He also had a great talent for impersonations of the famous, our favorite being Johnny Carson, but we especially loved his impersonations of family members, which were absolutely hilarious !!! He had the power of making others laugh.....to be around Rob was like watching an episode on Comedy Central. His laughter and wit was contagious and it was impossible not to burst into laughter after just being around him for a few minutes. The things we will always remember most about Rob are his down to earth authenticity and easy going style, his great sense of humor, his passion for music, cats, and his collection of golf carts. Wherever Rob is right now, I'm sure he's keeping everyone entertained, joking & clowning around with his endless humor. My heart aches for his family who are grieving and missing him. May they find comfort in knowing many people share in their sadness. Mark and I raise a toast to Rob with a "good cold beer"..... it was an honor to know him, and he will be deeply missed. He is leaving us with many cherished memories and he will be in our hearts forever. Mark and Diane

January 14, 2012

Rob-You made this world livable,thank GOD for all your talent. your friend forever Cpl. Day-1997637/U.S.M.C.

KIm and Amy

January 13, 2012

Rob - Always one step ahead of us.

John Leupold

January 11, 2012

Tom, Lisa and family....
I'm very sorry to hear about Rob's passing. I always enjoyed Rob's sense of humor and his friendship while Dad and I had the Cabin. He'll always be in my thoughts....

January 10, 2012

Very sorry to hear of Rob's passing. He always smiled about my accent. I said to him "what accent?" I'm from New Joisey. Gonna miss ya buddy.
Jeff, Jersey City

January 9, 2012

I am so sad to here of Robs Passing. You were together for a long.time.
Bless you and yours in this time of sorrow
Dave & Dot Conley

Cathie Conley

January 9, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Bob Smith

January 9, 2012

Sorry to hear of Rob's passing. He played in my band, "The Rebel Rousers in the 1980's. He was a great drummer and friend. I have a disc of the group when Rob played drums and sang. I would like to pass it on to the family. Again very sorry for your loss. Bob Smith, the Rebel Rouser.

Patty Johnson

January 9, 2012

Rob and Lisa are our neighbors across the street at Lake Connor. We have had many good happy times at the campfires because of Rob. Rob could naturally with great wit of his make you laugh and enjoy the evening so much, you really did'nt want to go home. Yes, Rob, Nick and I love you so much, if there is a way to send you a golf cart in heaven we will. We will never forget you,we could talk to you about any subject and you new the answer. Love and Prayers to Lisa and family

Tacey Matsumoto

January 9, 2012

Lisa, you know how sorry I am for the loss Of Rob.His smile,laugh and especially his sense of humor will be missed by me & mine.He was always a good friend to me & I would of never met u if not for him.I'm glad u have Zoe to keep u company & occupy your mind!Know my church,family & I pray for healing,comfort & peace of mind for you daily.All my love... Tacey

tacey matsumoto (Pidgeon)

January 9, 2012

Jw, Cheryl & Tom, I am so sorry for your loss. Praying for comfort for all involved & healing for Cheryl. Tacey Matsumoto

Steve and Vickie Jones

January 8, 2012

We new Rob from Lake Connor Park. He was always a joy to talk with, his wit and gift of gab will be missed by alot of people in the park. I always enjoyed seeing him come down our road in his golf cart or stopping by to chat with Rob and Lisa. You will be missed my friend. Our deepest sympathy to the family and loved ones.

Roger and Charley Walsh

January 8, 2012

We miss you Rob.
Roger and Charley Walsh

Andrew&Kate Hamilton

January 8, 2012

May God soothe your spirit, comfort your souls and bring you peace as you walk through the difficult times ahead. Deepest sympathy to the entire family.
Andrew and Kate Hamilton
(Kate is Diane Kevils's sister-in-law and we're both friends with Mark, Lisa's brother, and Diane)

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