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Robert James Scarpelli

1965 - 2016

Robert James Scarpelli obituary, 1965-2016, Seattle, WA

Robert Scarpelli Obituary

Robert James Scarpelli

Passed away March 30, 2016; born on Labor Day Weekend, September 4, 1965 in Ellensburg, WA to Victor J. Sr. and Margie "Grecco" Scarpelli, Robert was the youngest of three boys and grew up in Shoreline, WA. He attended North City Elementary School, St. Mark Catholic School, Cordell Hull Middle School, and graduated from Shoreline High School with the class of 1983 where he lettered in football and tennis. He went to Edmonds Community College and graduated with an Associate Degree and went on to Central Washington University and graduated with a Bachelor's degree in Business Administration / Marketing.

Robert and family spent most of their weekends and summers with their grandparents, Mike and Concetta Grecco in Roslyn, WA; and also visited his grandparents Mike and Vienna Scarpelli in Auburn, WA.

Growing up he played C.Y.O. and North King County sports, and he also played Shorelake Soccer. Robert was a sports enthusiast and a database of sports statistics. He was a long-time holder of season tickets for the SeaHawks and the Mariners; where he developed life-long friendships.

Robert spent his entire career of over 35 years in the grocery industry working for Lucky Stores, Olson's, and QFC; where he also made his closest friends.

He is survived by his father, Victor Scarpelli, Sr.; and brothers Victor Scarpelli, Jr. and Mike Scarpelli; his Aunt Yolanda "Scarpelli" Clark and many cousins, relatives and friends. He was preceded in death by his mother Margie. He will always be remembered for his wonderful smile, laughter, positive and generous attitude.

Services to be held on Wed., April 6, at St. Mark Catholic Church, 18033 - 15th Place NE, Shoreline: Viewing to begin at 9:30a.m. with Rosary starting at 10a.m.; Funeral Mass followed by Reception to begin at 11a.m.; followed by Entombment at Holyrood Catholic Cemetery in Shoreline, WA.

In lieu of flowers donations may be given to St. Mark Catholic School Fund; Immaculate Conception Catholic Church in Roslyn, WA; or Seattle Medic 1 Foundation.

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Published by The Seattle Times on Apr. 3, 2016.

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Diana Gray

January 28, 2017

I'm soo sorry to hear of the loss of your son and the boy's brother. God will help you through all the tears and sorrow and hopefully the good memories will help put a smile on your face. Thank you for being there for my Mother. She so appreciated your calls and the times you spent together. Victor. You are a great Man ❤❤❤

Joseph Grecco

November 24, 2016

I may have not seen him much in my life, but he was an amazing cousin when i got to see him.

nancy gustafson

May 8, 2016

I just learned of Robert's death and my heart is saddened. I first knew Robert when he was a little boy and have enjoyed watching him grow up! It was always great to see him at QFC, as he was so friendly and had so many nice things to say about his family!! I hadn't seen him for years, but Rich and I will always have great thoughts of him. The Scarpelli family was so well respected and we are sending our condolences. Love to you....nancy and rich gustafson

Karla Larson

April 8, 2016

As a member of Robert's neighborhood I enjoyed to watch him and dad Victor walk down our street every day. They would usually take a "pause" in front in front of our our house (my dog would let met know) which would give me a chance for me go out and chat with them. Robert always made me leave with a smile. His smile was infectious and I will miss it more than you will will ever know. I am so sorry for your loss. He will be very missed. God Bless and Peace be with you!!!

Your Neighbor, Karla

Merissa Reed

April 8, 2016

Scarpelli family, so sorry for your loss. Always loved seeing Robert and Victor Sr. On their daily walks. The neighborhood will miss the smiles, chats and presence of Robert.

Sending our condolences from the Mentele Family

Thomas Mentele

April 6, 2016

connie venditti

April 6, 2016

CONNIE, FRANK, PATRICIA
ROBERT, DANIEL, CASSANDRA
ANGIE, SAM, FRANCESCA AND
LOREDANA
MAY YOU REST IN

PEACE
BLESS VICTOR,MIKE,VICTOR SR.
SAD DAY FOR ALL THE PEOPLE THAT LOVED YOU

angie granata

April 6, 2016

May you rest in peace

Sarah Martin Olsen

April 5, 2016

Robert's smile was contagious and it lit up the room. Anyone who was fortunate enough to meet him had a forever friend. The Shoreline High School Class of 1983 has lost a true Spartan. Love and prayers to the Scarpelli family.

Courtney Reed

April 5, 2016

My heart goes out to the Scarpelli family. His QFC family will never forget his smile, laughter, or kindness. Rest peacefully, my friend.

April 5, 2016

I will always remember Robert as a kind hearted man with a ready smile who dearly loved his family. Blessings to you Victor Sr, Victor Jr and Mike. My heart goes out to each of you. May God's love surround you.

Wendy Greenleaf

Barbara & Joseph Connor

April 5, 2016

Victor Sr., Victor Jr. and Mike we do not have the perfect words to make your sadness go away. but may you find comfort in knowing that we care. All of you are in our prayers. With deepest sympathy....

German Donato

April 5, 2016

Robert was a good man. What I will remember most from him is to treat everyone with love, kindness and respect. Goodbye my friend.

Albert York III

April 5, 2016

Robert thank you for your wonderful smile! It was a great pleasure to have worked with you!

Jenny Bouffiou

April 4, 2016

Will miss him always. I worked with him at QFC and he will always be remembered by all of us who loved him!!

George & Lanette Robinson

April 4, 2016

So sorry to hear of Robert's passing. We lived in Roslyn next door to their grandparents when the family would visit, the Greccos.

Gregory Jones

April 4, 2016

Sorry to hear of Roberts passing. Robert was always happy and loved to reminisce about old times. Prayers and comfort to Roberts family during this difficult time. Greg & Wendy Jones

April 4, 2016

Robert was a wonderful classmate from the 3rd through 7th grade at St. Mark's. Our friendship continued through the present and I will miss my friend terribly. I use to look forward to seeing Robert when we attended mass on Saturdays at 5:00pm. I could always depend on a smile and hug from Robert!

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Robert's family during this difficult time.

We will always love and remember you Robert!

Fondly,
Kathleen McKillop-Firth & family

Mike Granata

April 4, 2016

On behalf of my wife, Antonietta, my children, Joanne, Robert, and Marco, I would like to extend our deepest condolences to the Scarpelli family on the loss of Robert.

Mike Granata (Giannina's eldest son)

April 4, 2016

We share in your sorrow of Robert's passing. What a great guy with such a presence. He will be surely missed but not forgotten.

The Wargo Family
Cle Elum, Wa

Ron Nies

April 4, 2016

We are so sorry to hear the passing of Robert. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Janet Yale

April 4, 2016

Dear Victor Sr., Victor Jr., and Mike: Please add our names to the community of friends surrounding you with love and comfort in this time of loss. Our hearts are with you, Dorothy and Janet Yale

Gayle Cuvreau

April 3, 2016

Sending love and prayers to the Scarpelli family. We all loved Robert and will miss seeing him with Victor and Mike at the gatherings we all shared together, but he will always be in our hearts. He always had that great smile and kinds words to say when I saw him at QFC and other functions. Love to you Victor Sr., Victor Jr. and Mike.

Bridget Koeplin

April 3, 2016

Robert was a warm, sweet loving friend who I will miss so much. My husband and I have so many memories of him that we will never forget. Our love to the family.

Don Ballou

April 3, 2016

My thoughts and prayers are with the family. May God hold you close in these trying times.

Barb McQuade

April 3, 2016

I met Robert and his dad Victor Sr. and Mike about 8 years ago when I starting working with his brother Victor Jr. at Finn Hill. Robert was always kind and gave me a big hug everytime I saw hm. He was a very caring, loving person always had a smile on his face. You will be sorely missed. My prayers and thoughts are with your family.

April 3, 2016

SO SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS. sOMETIMES IT IS HARD TO UNDERSTAND GOD'S WAYS. ALL i CAN SAY IS "tHY wILL bE dONE lORD."

yOU ARE ALL IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.OUR FAITH WILL SEE BOTH OUR FAMILIES THTOUGH THE RECENT SORROW.


THANKS FOR YOUR KIND MESSAGE AT THE TIME HARRY'S PASSING.

GOD BLESS YOU ALL!

JOANNE NESS

April 3, 2016

I remember Robert from his student days in the Shoreline School District. He was such a friendly and accepting person. Robert was so easy to talk with and time just seemed to slip away in casual conversation. He had wonderful parents. Victor, Sr. and Margie were always supportive and Robert learned much from them. He will be missed.

Jim and Mary Jean Nicholls

Eric Jorgensen

April 3, 2016

Robert was a warm, kind, intelligent individual who will be greatly missed. Robert and I attended college together (CWU) and it was there we became good friends. While at CWU he was a leader in several organizations on our campus and had many friends. My deepest condolences to his Dad Victor Sr., and his brothers Victor and Mike.

Mick shockley

April 3, 2016

My thought and prayers are with you and your family. Your smile and good cheer were always appreciated and will be dearly missed. We have truly lost a truly special man...
Mahalo my friend, Mick

Lori Edgar

April 3, 2016

While I didn't know Robert, Mike was in my class and their dad was both my Driver's Ed teach and Bowling Coach. My heart goes out to the family.

Jay and Becky May

April 3, 2016

Rest in peace Robert. We send our love and prayers to your family.

Dan Obermaier

April 3, 2016

Although I didn't know Robert, his father Victor was my shop teacher at Shoreline in 1966-1967. I've always remembered Mr. Scarpelli as a great teacher and good man. Mr. Scarpelli, I'm sorry for your loss and I wish you well in this trying time.

Steve Mckillop

April 1, 2016

May the eternal light of Christ shine on you Robert. Prayers and condolences to your family.

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St. Mark Catholic Church

18033 - 15th Place NE, Shoreline, WA

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Rosary

10:00 a.m.

St. Mark Catholic Church

18033 - 15th Place NE, Shoreline, WA

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St. Mark Catholic Church

18033 - 15th Place NE, Shoreline, WA

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Shoreline, WA

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