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Gary Grenell Obituary

Gary Keith Grenell

Gary Grenell, Ph.D., a noted Seattle psychoanalyst who enjoyed a parallel career as an art photographer, died from pancreatic cancer at his home in Green Lake, Seattle, surrounded by friends and family. He was 58 years old.

Dr. Grenell served on the faculty of the Seattle Psychoanalytic Society & Institute (SPSI), and was a clinical assistant professor in the Department of Psychology and Behavioral Sciences. He also served as chair of the faculty at SPSI from 1993-1996 and from 2004-2006. His seminar in the residency program, Advanced Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, was highly sought-after among psychiatric residents.

A successful art photographer, Gary had his first exhibition in 1974, and was involved in 25 additional solo and group exhibitions during his career, including shows at the Kings County Art Gallery, Bumbershoot Fair, the Photographic Center Northwest Gallery, Fotocircle Gallery, all of Seattle, the Blue Sky Gallery in Portland, the Portland Art Museum, and a current exhibition at the Center for Photography at Woodstock in Woodstock, N.Y. His project, "Five Blocks to Green Lake" was shown at Seattle City Hall. Seven photographs from the series reside in the permanent collection of the Houston Museum of Fine Arts. A bound edition of "Five Blocks to Green Lake" is available at Blurb.com.

Gary was born in Brooklyn in 1954. At the age of 3, he was diagnosed with Wilms Tumor and subsequent lung metastases. His treatment at Sloan-Kettering with then-experimental chemo and radiation therapies made it possible for children thereafter to be cured of Wilms tumor. In 1958 lung metastases were discovered and he underwent further treatment.

Grenell's family settled in Beverly Hills in 1963. His father, Bernard Grenell, was a successful businessman and community leader; his mother, Barbara Grenell, a brilliant homemaker. As a teen, Gary developed a strong interest in photography and the human potential movement, forces that would stay with him throughout life. After graduating Beverly Hills High School in 1972, Grenell attended Santa Monica Community College and went on to earn an undergraduate degree in psychology from USC.

In the 1980s Gary attended graduate school at the California School of Professional Psychology (M.A. Clinical Psychology), and the United States International University (Ph.D. Clinical psychology, 1987). He did a pre-doctoral internship at University Hospitals of Cleveland, in the Case Western Reserve University Department of Psychiatry.

Following his doctoral dissertation, he completed formal post-doctoral training at Wright Institute Postgraduate Center (Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy) and Reiss-Davis Child Study Center (Child Diagnostic Assessment), both in Los Angeles.

In 1984, during the year of his Cleveland internship, Gary met his future wife and the love of his life, Christine. In 1990, the Grenells moved to Seattle, where he set up a private practice of clinical psychology. Also at that time, he began his training in psychoanalysis at the SPSI, where he ultimately served on all major committees and the board.

Gary authored two papers published in the Journal of the American Psychoanalytic Association: "The Termination Phase of Psychoanalysis as Seen Through the Lens of the Dream" in 2002, and a seminal paper on the nature of dreams, "Affect Integration in Dreams and Dreaming" in 2008.

Enthusiastic about each day, Gary embodied a positive approach to life. He played as hard as he worked, and felt compassion for those he encountered. Throughout his life, he was known for his honest, straightforward, and direct approach to interpersonal relationships. He loved above all being father to his son, Noah, and husband to Christine, for whom his love was boundless..

Gary is preceded in passing by his infant brother, Noah and his father, Bernard. Gary is survived by his mother Barbara Grenell of Beverly Hills, his beloved wife, Christine, and son, Noah Alfred Lewis Grenell, of Seattle; sisters Abby Brown of Boulder, Colo., and Jennifer Ailes of Los Angeles. Donations may be made in Gary's name to The University of Washington Medical Center at UW Medicine Advancement, attn. Gift Processing, Box 358045, Seattle, WA, 98195-8045.

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Published by The Seattle Times on Apr. 14, 2013.

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Bob Morris

May 8, 2016

For a brief period, our sons were on the same soccer team and one of the great pleasures of that time was sitting with Gary and Christine. Gary's warm smile, positive energy and great sense of humor made each game a delight. I had not been in touch with him sense and just learned of his passing. So sad. What a wonderful man.

September 30, 2014

Gary was a healer. Thank you, Gary, for healing me. I will miss you greatly. The world is less bright without him here.

Judith Deutsch

May 8, 2014

My deepest condolences to Gary's family on his untimely passing. I have always been fond of Gary and my favorite memory was in fifith grade when Gary sat at the desk behind me and introduced the ends of my long braids to the India ink bottle. He had a keen sense of humor and was a very fine person.

February 10, 2014

I am very sorry to hear of Gary's passing. He was a really good man.

February 10, 2014

I am sorry to hear of the passing of Gary. I thought he was a kind and good man.

Becky

October 8, 2013

Goodbye and thank you!

BARBARA GRENELL

September 19, 2013

GARY WAS INCREDIBLE. HE OVERCAME MANY CHILDHOOD SETBACKS ONLY TO MAKE HIM INTO THE STRONG, PERSERVERING, DETERMINED, OPTIMISTIC, DARING,AND LOVING MAN HE BECAME. HE LOVED AND APPRECIATED LIFE MORE THAN ANYONE I KNOW. HE ADORED CHRIS AND NOAH, HIS PRACTICE, HIS FRIENDS AND SEATTLE.
HE SHOULD HAVE HAD MANY MORE YEARS
TO LIVE OUT SOME OF HIS DREAMS.

April 23, 2013

To Gary's family, I am so sorry for you loss. Gary taught us so much about living and dying. We are all the better for having known him. Thank you for having shared him with us. Caron Block

April 17, 2013

I took a moment to review Gary Grenell's phtographs in the museum's collection and smiled as I had when I first saw them over his warm but acute perceptions of the people he met around Green Lake. I am glad we have a good selection of this work to convey the range of people and of his vision. Anne Tucker Curator, Museum of Fine Arts, Houston

Caryn Speizer

April 16, 2013

Our BV family has lost a good one. See you on the other side!

Brad Lefton

April 15, 2013

Indeed, you will be missed Gary. I have fond memories of our times together when young. My sincere and heartfelt condolences to your family.

Rick Brody

April 15, 2013

So sorry to hear of Gary's passing. We were Beverly Vista and Beverly High buddies. My sympathies and prayers to Gary's family.

Ann Pallesen

April 15, 2013

I'm so honored to have known and worked with you Gary. I will always remember your outstanding exhibition at the Photo Center NW. Five Blocks to Greenlake is an exceptional project.

Ann Kendellen

April 15, 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. It was such a pleasure to meet Gary during his Blue Sky Gallery exhibit. Please accept my sympathy.

Linda Bernstein

April 15, 2013

My dear friend Gary....I am so saddened by your passing, but grateful to have been your friend for many many years. I wish your family peace and love, and comfort in having had you in their lives. I will look for you when it is my turn, my friend. Peace and love, xoxo

Gary at the conclusion of our studies for our Bar & Bat Mitzvahs!

Cynthia Shulman

April 15, 2013

It was an honor to know you and study with you at Temple Beth Am. Thank you for your humor, insight and amazing positive outlook. I've included a photo from our last B'nai Mitzvah class.

Andy Marshall

April 15, 2013

You were a good man Gary and I will miss our occasional encounters. Thanks for being my friend .

Marc Goldstein

April 14, 2013

I was so sad to hear of your passing. I have known you since we were little kids and am so glad I got to spend some time with you last October at the reunion. We will miss you very much

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