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James Toti Obituary

James Ralph TOTI July 18, 1945 ~ March 29, 2011 Jim died unexpectedly on Tuesday, March 29, with his family by his side. His family loved his sense of humor and warm, friendly personality. He is preceded in death by his parents and wife, Merrilyn. He is survived by his step-parents Bill & Betty, sister Johnette, children Jeff, Lisa & Allison; grandchildren Kristin, Megan, Anthony & Troy; stepdaughters Christina & Stephanie. Graveside service @ Holyrood Cemetery, 205 NE 205th St., Shoreline, Monday, April 11, 1:00 pm. Reception to follow @ Green Acres Mobile Home Park, Bothell.

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Published by The Seattle Times on Apr. 8, 2011.

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Steve & Sherry Newell

April 11, 2011

Jim was a wonderful person. It was a honor to know him.

Jana Overstreet

April 10, 2011

As I remember Jim, always cheering his daughter and us (the soccer team) on the side lines for many years. What a great father he was and a very fun guy to be around. My condolences go out to the family deeply!

Suzanne Hathaway

April 10, 2011

It was a huge privilege to have Jim for my brother-in-law for the last 28 years. He was such a good and loving husband to Merrilyn and a very good sport who enjoyed so many of life's experiences with everyone in is family. We miss you so much.

Anthony Watson

April 10, 2011

Worked with Jim at A.G. Since 96 every time I seen Jim he always seem to do or say something to put a smile on my face. Always had kind words. One of the most nicest persons you ever meet. I will miss you BROTHER. Anthony Watson

Christina Pluschke

April 10, 2011

Never have I met a man who loved his wife and family so unconditionally. Jim, you are greatly missed. We "Love You More".

jeff toti

April 8, 2011

A wonderful father and person. I'll always have fond memories. He will be missed but never forgotten. I love you dad.

Tammy Bloor

April 8, 2011

Thinking of all of you at this time. Jim was a kind and funny man and he certainly left this world much too early. May he rest in peace.

allison toti

April 8, 2011

What a wonderful dad and grandpa he was!! I have so many wonderful memories with him! I am so thankful for everything my dad did for me and my family : ) now u are in heaven with mom rest in peace until I see u again I love u with all my heart daddy xoxoxo

Davis Emburey

April 8, 2011

A great human being that cared deeply for his family. I will miss his smile and love of all Seattle related sports. The pranks he played on his older sister are legendary. The world was a better place with Jim in it...

Becky Toti

April 8, 2011

A wonderful man that was taken from this world all too soon. We love and miss you very much.

Toni Hauser

April 8, 2011

We remained friends for many years after our marriage ended. You will always be remembered for your wonderful humor and love for your family. I carry many memories of years past when our children were young. Now you and Merrilyn can rest in peace. God bless you.

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