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Shelly Perry
February 6, 2021
Some of the most amazing people and times happened to me when I worked for Paul. Between the La Boheme and the Reading Gaol it was almost 11 years of a great work-friend relationship. He created the dynamic where everyone was welcome to enjoy great food and drink. It was the best place to talk or play games. The fun, friendships and camaraderie. The party poker games. Paul seemed to me both shy and witty at the same time. Sometimes his dry quips under his breath would strike me as hysterically funny. Great to talk politics with. Paul I can never thank you enough for hiring me and being my friend. It opened the door to meeting all those wonderful people.....Cheers to you mate! With a 20 ounce pint! Much Love Shelly
patrick moylan
January 31, 2021
I just got this reminder about Paul. As others have said it's hard to believe so much time as passed. Paul was such a cool dude.
I first met him when I returned to Washington state in 1990. The La Boheme was a short 5 blocks from my house ( uphill ). First night I walked in that bar it was snowing and Paul was working. He had great beer and the typical Beer Steins of Bavarian lore. I told him about my time in Bavaria and we both realized we were stationed in the same part of the world, knowing all the same stomping grounds, but 15 years apart. Paul was a Vietnam era veteran and I served in the 80's. From the last days of the La Boheme to the entire run of the Reading Gaol I had the opportunity to get to know this very cool person. As others have said Paul's great gift was bringing people together. He was very smart and his quiz nights in Ballard were a real first at that time. I have met some of the coolest people in the planet at that space and I am both proud and embarrassed that google street view showed my car prominently in the parking lot of the Reading Gaol. Still missing you my friend.
-Patrick Moylan
Mark Bulzomi
January 29, 2021
Miss you and the Gaol RIP
Roy De Los Santos
January 29, 2021
It's hard to believe it's been 10 years. We miss the Gaol and the conversations with the lost tribe of Gaolites.
Mark Bulzomi
January 27, 2020
Paul you were a great friend to us late night industry chef's miss you a lot miss the day's at "The Gaol"!!!
Christine Gaffney
February 4, 2011
To all of you Reading Gaol friends,
We loved Paul, and we loved the community he formed there. I mighta cooked you some burgers, or something during my time working for this beautiful soul. Maybe you fixed our cars, maybe we made you dinner, maybe we just were you friends. Because of Paul. RIP Paul. We will miss you. Christine and Shawn
Robin DiMaio
February 4, 2011
Reading the names of those who signed this in tribute to Paul..floods me with memories of some of the funnest years of my life while a bartender at the La Boheme. Paul you were the center of that special place, and I thank You for your part. Slato....My friend... heaven will be a Friday night happy hour I'll see you and those other dear friends, who are there with you. My condolences to his family, and all who share this loss. God Bless!
Sara & Jason Bednarski
February 3, 2011
Paul,
No one but you would be able to bring together such a unique and wonderful family that is The Reading Gaol. Our thoughts are with your entire family. Wish we could be there to raise a pint in your honor...
Much Love
Bryan Connors
February 3, 2011
His bar & grill was a progenitor and an anchor of NW 65th's revitalization...a lot of people don't realize that. I grieve for his passing and...will dearly miss him and the era that has just left.
Sarah & Shawn
February 3, 2011
Today we will be mourning the loss of an amazing person who meant so much to all of us. Paul you touched all of our lives in so many different ways and yet brought us together as friends at the sametime. You will be greatly missed!!!!
Christine Toller
February 3, 2011
Our thoughts go out to all of Paul's friends and family, and his wife Sandra. Their wedding last summer was a celebration of love and all things good in the world. The Victoria Gang is thinking of you at this time of loss.
Shanna Bean
February 3, 2011
RIP Paul - Although I haven't been in the bar for a while, I have enjoyed the bar, the people and the good times I had with you and your patrons. You will be missed.
Mike Rindahl
February 3, 2011
The memories, oh the memories. One of my favorite is the rented bus you provided for us to the Mariner games, great fun, thanks Paul. The retired guys you introducted me to for the imfamous 1-15 pool tournments. And of course the colorful people I've meet that have passed through your establishment doors. R.I.P.
Dama Hanks
February 3, 2011
My heartfelt condolences to Sandra and Evelyn, and to all Paul's family and friends I met this summer in Port Townsend. It was a wonderful time of love and hope, and I will always cherish this memory.
Sincerely, Dama Hanks
John Todd
February 2, 2011
La Boheme was a wonderful place. My 30th birthday and first date with my future wife were celebrated in its welcoming space.
A Happy Owner on the 10th Anniversary of The Gaol.
Sion Jones
February 2, 2011
I can think of no higher compliment than Paul's ability to turn a pub into a "local". I shall miss perusing the classic cars with him at the Greenwood Car show. I shall miss his indefatigable stamina while pub-hopping in Ballard or Fremont. I shall miss his culinary skills both at the Gaol and as a guest in his home. And my wife and I shall miss him as a true and generous friend even though he often appeared to be running on a different time schedule! But you knew he'd always turn up eventually...
kevin orme
February 2, 2011
We didn't know him personally but always enjoyed and visited the RG while we lived nearby in Ballard and since we moved to Greenwood. He will be missed.
Pat Goldman
February 2, 2011
I first met Paul in 1982 when my wife and daughter and I visited Seattle on vacation with his sister Terri. When we moved to Seattle in 1988 Paul's family welcomed us and we became like family. Paul brought a lot of people together who have become great friends. Paul you will be sorely missed by us all. RIP my friend.
Liz Doyle
February 2, 2011
Paul was like a brother during the several years I had regular contact with him through our sister, Laura. His passing is such a great loss for so many. I will cherish the memories of the many good times we all shared. We will miss him.
February 2, 2011
Paul was a good friend. We both liked good beer and Germany ( both of us having been stationed in Bavaria ) I have had some good times over the years with Paul. He was instrumental in bringing alot of very cool people together. You will be missed.
P. Moylan
Roy De Los Santos
February 2, 2011
Thanks Paul for offering a stool, a beer and a word to the emotionally scarred, the physically marred and the chronically underemployed. The Reading Gaol: where you would meet the nicest, wittiest, kindliest gathering of questionables a person could hope to stumble home from. We’ll miss you.
Nancy Shaw
February 2, 2011
I will always remember that beautiful summer day in Port Townsend with Sandra and Paul in the gazebo! A beautiful day indeed!
Much love to all - Nancy Meigs Shaw
Laura Doyle
February 2, 2011
He was a strong presence in a lot of lives. He will be missed so much.
February 2, 2011
What I will remember best about Paul in addition to his sense of humor is his attention to quality. I still remember the first meal he cooked for our family. His pub food was also excellent. I always trusted his recommendations. He knew what he was talking about and will be missed by us all.
~Rosemary
Corie Dean
February 2, 2011
I will miss seeing and talking with Paul. We were fellow carcinoid cancer fighters. I only saw him twice a year at my support group meetings but I was impressed by his positive attitude towards the carcinoid challenge. For him, the pain is gone and the fight is over.
PNW Carcinoid/NET Support Group
Laura Seger
February 2, 2011
I first met Paul when I came to work at the DSHS Federal Way office. A group of us became friends and did many outside activities. I remember once we went white water rafting, I will never forget, when I fell out of the boat, he almost killed me trying to save me. I haven't seen Paul in years but have fond memories and wish his family my best.
Keith Dunning
February 2, 2011
He brought us together and will be missed.
At the first pig roast '08
Keith Dunning
February 2, 2011
At the LaBo 2 days before final night
Keith Dunning
February 2, 2011
He was a good ping ponger!
Keith Dunning
February 2, 2011
He loved the M's
Keith Dunning
February 2, 2011
At the Luxury box
Keith Dunning
February 2, 2011
At Steph's party
Keith Dunning
February 2, 2011
Charles Hudson
February 2, 2011
Thanks for spending some time here, Paul. Your places were focal points for so many of our lives. We are all less without you.
Shawn & Sarah
February 2, 2011
We'll miss you Paul - it was great knowing you!
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