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Ralph Bilbao Obituary

Dr. Ralph P. BILBAO Dr. Ralph Bilbao, beloved husband, father, grandfather, and friend, passed away on January 2, 2011 while vacationing on Maui. He was born to Delfin and Margaret Bilbao on December 25, 1941 in New York City, New York. He, his parents, and his twin brother soon moved to Plattekill, New York where his extended family owned and operated Villa Garcia, a popular Spanish resort. A private and stoic man, only Ralph's family and closest friends knew that he struggled with Type I (Juvenile) diabetes from his youth. He never complained nor compromised his activities because of this debilitating disease. Throughout his life, his first love was his family, with whom he enjoyed his most pleasurable experiences. Downhill skiing, golfing, and body surfing were the vacations of choice while his sons were young. He also reveled in attending every single one of his sons' school games, and in retirement Ralph was gaining even more enjoyment from attending the practices and games of his three grandchildren. Ralph attended the University of Miami for his bachelor's and master's degrees, earning a 6th year administrative degree from the University of Bridgeport in Connecticut and his doctorate in educational leadership from Seattle University in Seattle, Washington. To hone his intuitive negotiation skills, Ralph also studied labor relations at Cornell University. A natural leader, Ralph put his formal training to good use as a lifelong, highly successful educator. Ralph moved quickly from teaching and coaching to high school principal, superintendent of schools, and ultimately college president. In each of his positions he was known for having an unmatched ability to blend the needs of the students with the fiscal responsibility of the educational organization. Strong, decisive and knowledgable, he was a role model for future administrators. Ralph retired after 45 years of dedicated service to students in Florida, Maryland, New York, Washington State, and Arizona. Ralph was pre-deceased by his parents and his first wife, Sherrie Kleiger Bilbao. He is survived by his wife of thirty-five years, Elaine Burdick Bilbao of Mill Creek, WA ; his son Marc and family (wife Tara and grandchildren Megan and Jake) of Long Beach, CA; his son Paul and family (fiancee Althea and grandson Lane) of Bothell, WA; his stepson Scott Wood and wife Rocio Resendiz of Pasadena, CA; his twin brother Gene Bilbao and wife Betty of Benton, PA; three nephews; three grand-nephews; and two grand-nieces. In memory of Ralph donations may be made to the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation International at http://www.jdrf.org

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Published by The Seattle Times on Jan. 26, 2011.

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Sherleen Satushek-Yanez

February 2, 2011

I am so saddened to hear of Dr. Bilboa passing. I'm sure he never realized the effect that he had on the students whose lives he personally touched. I have carried memories of how he conducted his life and how he balanced his decisions as an inspiration. It is too late to tell Dr. Bilboa, but I want his family to know that his example made a very big difference in my life. I am so sorry for your loss.

Jon Rickey

February 2, 2011

Marc and Paul my thoughts and prayers are with you. Your dad was a great guy and will be missed.

February 2, 2011

Paul and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. He was an amazing man and educator. He will truly be missed!!!
Tami Bump (Monroe, WA)

Roberta Furst

February 2, 2011

I never knew Dr. Bilbao personally, but when I saw him around campus he always had the warmest smile. He once wrote a letter complimenting the choreography I created for a basketball game. I couldn't believe the superintendent of our schools would take the time to do something like that. That was a long time ago, but I still remember his kindness. My condolescences to the Bilbao family.

AJ Brammer

February 2, 2011

He was a man of character and poise. I was honored to have known him. As a 1986 graduate of Monroe, Dr. Bilbao was a dedicated father, husband and educator. My thoughts are with the whole Bilbao family with this great loss. God Speed Dr. Ralph you are sorely missed by many.

Trisha Mitteer-Riley

February 2, 2011

Very sorry for your loss of such a wonderful man. I am very glad to have known him and thankful for his gift of a family I called neighbor and friend. Take care and God bless.

Danielle Warner

February 2, 2011

Paul & Family
I am so sorry to hear of your Father's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. May you wonderful memories of you father comfort you now and always.

Diane Reisenauer

January 27, 2011

Dearest Elaine, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I remember the party we had for you both to celebrate you being quite the "paradox/pair of docs". My prayers are with you. Love and hugs, Di

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