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Roger Thayer Obituary

Roger Denton THAYER Roger "Rod" Thayer passed away on April 10, 2011 at the age of 76 after a long and valiant battle with cancer, outliving all of his doctors' expectations. Born on May 2, 1934 in San Jose, CA to Merritt Denton Thayer and Eunice Margarete Thayer (Quien). Roger lived in Edmonds, Washington for the last 45 years of his life. He is survived by his loving wife of 49 years, Sharon, his sisters Marilyn Thayer and Patricia Merrill, his sons Brad and Christopher Thayer, as well as two grandchildren and numerous nieces and nephews. Roger split his early life between Seattle and the Oakland, California area. As a young man he lived in the Montlake neighborhood in Seattle, and at the age of 6 used to sneak into UW football games at halftime. Joining the Boy Scouts helped foster a love of the outdoors at an early age. He attended high school in Oakland and was the president of the Toppers high school fraternity. Later, he studied Forestry at Lassen Community College in Susanville, California, where he was the student body president and football team captain. Roger always enjoyed working with children, and he dedicated much of his life to working with young people who came from troubled backgrounds. For over 30 years he worked at Ryther Child Center in Seattle as a social worker and counselor. Roger often took a group of kids from Ryther to a lake in the Cascades for weeklong camping trips. Other than his family, Roger's two main loves were the outdoors, including the family cabin, and UW athletics. The cabin was his happy place - he was known for his "tarzan" yell when he jumped into the Cooper River's icy cold waters - and he considered the outdoors and the beauty of nature as his church where he found peace and contentment. He was passionate about Husky sports, often saying that he "bled purple and gold," and he was a football season ticket holder for decades. In addition, he thoroughly enjoyed gardening, often puttering in his yard for hours and actively participating in the Seattle Rhododendron Society. Roger was outgoing and gregarious and always had a joke or a kind word at the ready. A sweet and caring man, he will be greatly missed by his family and friends. He passed peacefully in his bed at home with his loving wife at his side. A private memorial service will be held this summer at the family cabin. Donations may be made in his memory to the Sierra Club, and friends may sign his guestbook at www.asacredmoment.com/obits

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Published by The Seattle Times on Apr. 30, 2011.

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Terry McKiel

May 5, 2011

Sharon,
I was saddened by the news of Roger's passing. I have fond memories of working with him at Ryther and know many kids are better off because of his dedication and love. My thoughts are with you....Terry McKiel

May 3, 2011

Dear Sharon, Brad, and Christopher. Roger was the best....he loved what he did and did what he loved. Family was always important to him. from the time he was little and collected rocks ( which I dumped in the alley and I had to help him gather them up and put them back in this bottom chest drawer ) to moving rocks in the Cooper he was a 'ROCK ' Loved Him and will miss him much. pat...<

Jim Magnano

May 2, 2011

Dear Sharon,
I was very sorry to hear of Roger's death, you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Thinking of you always brings a smile to my face, thank you for the good memories at HMC many years ago.
All the best and good wishes.
Sincerely/fondly,

Audrey Cecil

May 2, 2011

Wonderful and happy memories of Roger while working together at Ryther Child Center in the late 1970's. His impact on the lives of so many youngesters was incredible.

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