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Vincent Broze Obituary

Vincent Jay Broze

July 10, 1947 ~ September 19, 2013

Jay went from us without fear or complaint following kidney failure. A scholar and sportsman, he brought a daunting intellect to a nearly limitless range of interests and his sense of fun to skiing, sailing, and flying. His friends benefitted from his sentimental and generous heart.

Born to Mildred and Vince Broze at what is now Virginia Mason Hospital in Seattle, Jay sailed on the SS Aleutian with his mother and sisters to Anchorage when he was 2. His father worked to establish Air Mail routes for the Postal Service, and returned from trips with slides of Native Alaskan outposts, mountain ranges, and hair raising tales of flying without instruments and emergency landings. Jay attended Chugach Elementary and learned to ski at Arctic Valley.

Back in Seattle, he went to Nathan Eckstein and graduated from Roosevelt in '65, and began sailing with his uncle Jim Ekern. After receiving a BA in History at Whitman College '69, he went on to earn an MA at Johns Hopkins School of Advanced International Studies in Washington, DC, with

a concentration in Arabic Studies. He found both college and graduate programs enormously stimulating and they set the tone for his lifelong inquiry into practically everything. He returned to the Northwest once more and found work as a copywriter for George Lowe at Kraft Smith and Lowe. As Georg Lowe remembers it:

"Jay fit in perfectly- Johns Hopkins University- history degree--no agency experience, but he could write. A man of broad interests and powerful intellect, he could also discourse - brilliantly - on just about any subject.....Always fun, always brave, smart, and willing under any and all conditions. "

Inquiry, writing, sailing, skiing, flying, and having fun would be the hallmarks of the rest of his life.

In the mid-seventies, Jay mailed an unsolicited story to SAIL magazine about the de-masting of a boat off the Washington coast. As Keith Taylor, editor at SAIL during that splendid era, tells it, "...I know it came across my desk and it was a wonderful piece. I seized on it like a hungry dog clamps onto a juicy bone. From then on Jay covered the America's Cup for SAIL until I departed in '88. His last assignment for me was Fremantle in '87 when the Aussies unsuccessfully defended the Cup. His name was on the masthead of SAIL through the '70s and '80s. In '83 in Newport, RI, he was one of the insiders who first understood what Aussie designer had achieved with Australia II's winged-keel.

.... (He had) a wonderful wry quirky view of the world that endeared him to all he met. His ability to walk down a dock and greet old sailor friends, and make new ones, was unrivalled."

In 1982, Jay wooed and married Diana Cochener, a former Whitman classmate, and became a great dad to her young son, Joaquin Mason. The couple had two other sons, Rafael and Elliot, and Jay and the boys were so close and played together so much that friends joked that Diana had four boys. But there was much more than just play going on, and all three sons grew into good and successful young men who shared Jay's curiosity about all things.

Having been in love with planes and flying since a child, Jay became a pilot, then aerobatic pilot, in his 40's. As luck would have it, his passion for aerobatic flying coincided with the births, in short order, of his two younger sons, so he flew his Great Lakes trainer for his own joy and his passengers' pleasure and, often, astonishment when they found themselves upside down over the Cascades or spiraling over the Scablands. Later, he aided and abetted his oldest and youngest sons in working toward their glider's licenses when they were in their early teens.

After 1988, when SAIL chose to shift its focus away from the big Ocean races, Jay continued to write, but, without a deadline and always willing to pick up a ringing telephone to talk, most of his story ideas and novel first chapters got put on the back burner. He consistently opted instead to be a devoted father to his sons and a generous and responsible friend.

In 2000, however, his great friend Jim Dietz asked him to write the copy accompanying Jim's work for a book. Portraits of Combat, The World War II Art of James Dietz, was published the following year.

In 2011, Diana and Jay sold their home in Seattle, and moved to the Walla Walla home they had owned for many years.

He left behind his wife, Diana Cochener Broze of Walla Walla; his sons, Joaquin Mason, Somerville, MA, Rafael Broze, Washington. DC, and Elliot Broze, Anchorage, AK; his sisters, Katherine Flynn of Anchorage AK, and Valerie Bystrom of Seattle, as well as numerous adoring nieces and a prior marriage, to Ann Hunter (Wellborn), ended in divorce.

A Memorial to Jay will be held frequently whenever two people who knew and loved him get together for the rest of their lives.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Seattle Times from Sep. 23 to Sep. 24, 2013.

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Fred Johnsen

October 12, 2013

As others have commented, what an amazing mix of intellect, observation, and down-to-earth friendliness. Thanks, Jay -- I am better for having known you.

John Chouinard

September 28, 2013

I knew Vincent in Jr High and a little bit of HS. We shared a couple of good memories. I have not seen him since then but always wondered what became of him... It is apparent he lived a special life.

Keith Prince

September 26, 2013

I am sorry to hear Jay has left us. He will be missed. I knew and enjoyed Jay from our junior high years through Whitman and early-post college years. He was unique; basically the brightest, most unaffected, friendly, humorous and genuine person you could know.

Melanie Green

September 25, 2013

To: Diane & sons along with Katherine & Valerie: I send my deepest love and prayers. We called Vincent ,Buddy. He had a zest for life & will be missed, dear cousin. Melanie Green

Les Cole

September 24, 2013

Indeed a great Man. Buddy always stopped in at the Horse Heaven Hills Truck Stop in Prosser on his way to Seattle or Walla Walla. I picked up that Buddy was very special in many ways very quickly. Most of all I remember he treated everyone the same. My family made out very well on his four Mariner Tickets even letting us have as usual (free of charge)the last game of Edgar Martinez. that was a great spectacle of a game. All my employees at HHH truck stop appreciated him. He treated everyone the same, he was a very special guy and we all loved him. Rest in Peace my friend I pray daily now for your sweet soul.

jane adams

September 24, 2013

I met Jay in the Mad Men era, and he was the maddest, funniest, smartest guy in the room, then and always. He was sui generis - there was no one like him. He was kind, generous,and loving - Diana, you and the boys brought him lasting happiness. Please have a public celebration of his life so we can share our Jay stories and lift a glass to him together.

jane adams

September 24, 2013

Jay was one of my first Seattle friends. We met as copywriters in the Mad Men era, and he was the smartest guy in the room, then and always, as well as the funniest, most generous and comfortable in his own skin guy in whatever venue you found him in. Diana, you brought out the best in him, and you and the boys brought him enormous happiness and joy. Please have a celebration of his life where we can all lift a glass and tell a Jay story.

Marin Seguel

September 24, 2013

I miss you already Jay. Sweet, kind, funny, graceful, articulate, present, humble and curious. Thank you for all you brought and all that you left. Love to you and your family. Namaste'

James Winchell

September 24, 2013

Brother to my longtime friend Valerie Bystrom of Seattle, Jay became a friend once we both moved to Walla Walla. An astonishingly full life, who will live on in the hearts of family and friends.

Glenna Awbrey

September 24, 2013

Diana, Thank you for sharing some of the reasons you love Jay so deeply. His joy and passion for the less ordinary are reflected in the woman he cherished above all others.

Bill Scheef

September 23, 2013

My fraternity brother and grow up longtime friend was the most generous funny man I have ever encountered. We burned up countless hours with endless dialog on many subjects, meaningful as well as trivial. His amazing knowledge of things one had never thought about or really cared about was source of never ending joy.
Godspeed my friend,see you on the other side.
Love you,Painless

September 23, 2013

My fraternity brother and grownup long time friend was the most generous and caring funny man I have ever known. We have burned up enormous amounts of time discussing both meaningful and trivial topics with tremendous joy for both of us. God speed my friend, see you on the other side.
Dr. Bill Scheef ( Redmond, Wa)

Cricket Cordova

September 23, 2013

Here's to a man that will be dearly missed by all who were fortunate enough to have known him. May we all be inspired to embrace life with such joie de vivre.

William Chrystal

September 23, 2013

Hi,

I went to NEJHS and Roosevelt with "Jay" (At school, he went by "Vince"). Too bad we never reconnected. I, too, got a graduate degree at JHU. And I'm well acquainted with the work of Jim Dietz. Sorry I didn't know of its relationship to Jay. My prayers are with you all.

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