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Fred Johnsen
October 12, 2013
As others have commented, what an amazing mix of intellect, observation, and down-to-earth friendliness. Thanks, Jay -- I am better for having known you.
John Chouinard
September 28, 2013
I knew Vincent in Jr High and a little bit of HS. We shared a couple of good memories. I have not seen him since then but always wondered what became of him... It is apparent he lived a special life.
Keith Prince
September 26, 2013
I am sorry to hear Jay has left us. He will be missed. I knew and enjoyed Jay from our junior high years through Whitman and early-post college years. He was unique; basically the brightest, most unaffected, friendly, humorous and genuine person you could know.
Melanie Green
September 25, 2013
To: Diane & sons along with Katherine & Valerie: I send my deepest love and prayers. We called Vincent ,Buddy. He had a zest for life & will be missed, dear cousin. Melanie Green
Les Cole
September 24, 2013
Indeed a great Man. Buddy always stopped in at the Horse Heaven Hills Truck Stop in Prosser on his way to Seattle or Walla Walla. I picked up that Buddy was very special in many ways very quickly. Most of all I remember he treated everyone the same. My family made out very well on his four Mariner Tickets even letting us have as usual (free of charge)the last game of Edgar Martinez. that was a great spectacle of a game. All my employees at HHH truck stop appreciated him. He treated everyone the same, he was a very special guy and we all loved him. Rest in Peace my friend I pray daily now for your sweet soul.
jane adams
September 24, 2013
I met Jay in the Mad Men era, and he was the maddest, funniest, smartest guy in the room, then and always. He was sui generis - there was no one like him. He was kind, generous,and loving - Diana, you and the boys brought him lasting happiness. Please have a public celebration of his life so we can share our Jay stories and lift a glass to him together.

jane adams
September 24, 2013
Jay was one of my first Seattle friends. We met as copywriters in the Mad Men era, and he was the smartest guy in the room, then and always, as well as the funniest, most generous and comfortable in his own skin guy in whatever venue you found him in. Diana, you brought out the best in him, and you and the boys brought him enormous happiness and joy. Please have a celebration of his life where we can all lift a glass and tell a Jay story.
Marin Seguel
September 24, 2013
I miss you already Jay. Sweet, kind, funny, graceful, articulate, present, humble and curious. Thank you for all you brought and all that you left. Love to you and your family. Namaste'
James Winchell
September 24, 2013
Brother to my longtime friend Valerie Bystrom of Seattle, Jay became a friend once we both moved to Walla Walla. An astonishingly full life, who will live on in the hearts of family and friends.
Glenna Awbrey
September 24, 2013
Diana, Thank you for sharing some of the reasons you love Jay so deeply. His joy and passion for the less ordinary are reflected in the woman he cherished above all others.
Bill Scheef
September 23, 2013
My fraternity brother and grow up longtime friend was the most generous funny man I have ever encountered. We burned up countless hours with endless dialog on many subjects, meaningful as well as trivial. His amazing knowledge of things one had never thought about or really cared about was source of never ending joy.
Godspeed my friend,see you on the other side.
Love you,Painless
September 23, 2013
My fraternity brother and grownup long time friend was the most generous and caring funny man I have ever known. We have burned up enormous amounts of time discussing both meaningful and trivial topics with tremendous joy for both of us. God speed my friend, see you on the other side.
Dr. Bill Scheef ( Redmond, Wa)
Cricket Cordova
September 23, 2013
Here's to a man that will be dearly missed by all who were fortunate enough to have known him. May we all be inspired to embrace life with such joie de vivre.
William Chrystal
September 23, 2013
Hi,
I went to NEJHS and Roosevelt with "Jay" (At school, he went by "Vince"). Too bad we never reconnected. I, too, got a graduate degree at JHU. And I'm well acquainted with the work of Jim Dietz. Sorry I didn't know of its relationship to Jay. My prayers are with you all.
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