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Carolyn Bridge
June 13, 2023
Phil was always so much fun and he made me laugh a lot. I still can´t believe he´s gone and I miss him. Carolyn Bridge, Peace Corps volunteer with Phil.
Mark Hughes
June 16, 2022
Great upstairs neighbor at the Benson from 1999 to 2016. When I grow up I want to be just like Phil. What a terrific person. Wish he was still with us. Mark Hughes
Alice Allen
July 22, 2016
Phil, Mary Lou Krause and I were all first year teachers together at Franklin high School in the very early seventies. In our retirement we found joy in having lunch together at one or the other of our houses. We were blessed to share this time together for sixteen years each first Wed. of every other month.
This photo is of our last luncheon together, May 3, 2016. Twenty eight days before his death. It had been Mary Lou's time to do lunch and since I had suffered a devastating attack of sciatica I had landed at Kline Galland for rehabilitation. Mary Lou had prepared a beautiful lunch, table cloth and all and brought it to us on the bus in her true independent fashion.
My husband and June had shown up unexpectedly but there was plenty for them too. I suggested as we were leaving that someone take a picture with June's iPhone. Boy was that Providence! It was our last time together. Phil had known June since she was five years old and had chosen music for her wedding and videoed the wedding as a wedding gift to her. In addition he had shared special times in the summer with her sons when they would visit. They called him Uncle Phil.
•I am the Cicely Tyson looking individual at the table in my hospital robe the man beside me is my husband standing behind me is my daughter June next to her is Mary Lou Krause and then Phil.
July 8, 2016
Everyone recognized Phil's agile mind, hallmarks of which were seen in his flair for languages, curiosity and humor. He had a propensity to say the outrageous to friends, colleagues, parents, and students. Yet he worded it so that it was apt, maybe barbed, but more likely to bring a laugh than to shock the listener.
Phil was certainly an excellent teacher who inspired the students' curiosity and questioning. I personally noted this when, by happenstance, Phil and my family vacationed at the same time in Puerto Vallarta. Our three year old' s curiosity and desire to question were raised by Phil's comment that I must have eyes in the back of my head. His students were intrigued and inspired as well as educated in the intricacies of the French language.
Phil was a fun staff member. He was glad to hear about the silliness or pranks that we were involved in and he might "egg-on" the instigators, but not with the goal of being cruel.
We were complementary personalities in the World Language Department where he taught French and I Spanish. His flamboyance partnered with my caution. If we were competitors it was a friendly competition. I, much to Phil's chagrin, found a signed Sergio Bustamante mixed metal bowl at Goodwill and although Goodwill was not a favorite haunt of his, he confessed to making visits there in hopes of finding something equivalent. Years later he proudly told me about the Bustamente piece that he got in Mexico.
I last saw Phil at the Rehab center in West Seattle a couple of days before his death. I took him a begonia plant because whereas I took sick-leave days to care for sick kids he needed "begonia days" occasionally. We talked about the fact that he was missing the WEA convention, but that he had made plans to return home after getting a new and hopefully lighter cast. He said that he had made arrangement for his recovery care and he hoped to do more traveling eventually. We loved his "field trip reports" about his many trips and I would love to hear his description of the heavenly realms where he now resides.
Helen Anderson
Fellow teacher, department member and friend
Andrea Smith
July 7, 2016
Phil was a treasured friend and colleague, due to his wit and insights. One of my favorite memories was when my husband and I traveled with him to Copper Canyon Mexico. He was a good friend and will be missed by his Franklin High School family and by me.
Wilma Neal
June 29, 2016
Dear pk... Memories that come to me often are the beautiful pieces of music we sang in the choir at St. John's, Kirkland, especially the difficult ones that you weren't positive we could accomplish, and then we always did; the care that you expressed to each person in the choir, the funny comments comments and stories you shared with us, the delicious treats you brought to coffee hour and at your home. Visits, Friday newsletters, travel blogs, so much more. Your presence in my life has been and continues to be a huge wonderful blessing.
Laraine Hong
June 28, 2016
As one of our mutual Peace Corps friends wisely observed, Phil was the "glue" that helped our Seattle group stay connected over many decades. We enjoyed frequent gatherings at his home, first up on Queen Anne, then in Magnolia. Phil was ever the cordial host, easily whipping up a hearty meal and moving in and of our conversations. One of my last memories of his gracious hosting was how he insisted that one of us take the last chair at the table, while he ate while standing up. Phil was funny, smart, interested in the world, in people. I don't think he ever wasted a minute of his life. I will miss that sly, sweet smirk.
Carolyn Bridge
June 28, 2016
Humor, broad interests, caring, heart, communicator, friend. I cherished all these things about Phil and I was especially gratified by our 54-year friendship started in the Peace Corps. I am missing him now and still trying to get over the shock. It was a privilege to know Phil and share in his life.
Kelsey Hamlitsch
June 23, 2016
My heart and sincere condolences go out to the Konkel family. We've never met, but I was touched as I read the life and story of your brother, uncle and friend. I'm sure he will be deeply and profoundly missed. Please know that our heavenly Father does understand your pain and as "the God of all comfort", He is there for you during your time of need. (1 Cor. 1:3,4)
Scott Baukol
June 21, 2016
Phil will be dearly missed. He was not only our client of 25 years, but more importantly our friend. When we think of Phil these words come to mind: Kind, Respectful, Caring, Thoughtful, Friendly and Non Judgmental. He enjoyed all of our client events over the years and continually kept us up to date with his travel reports. He was one of a kind!
Scott Baukol and Staff
Baukol Retirement Specialists
Eleanor Toews
June 20, 2016
The Seattle School Retirees Association and the Seattle Schools Scholarship Fund are two organizations whose board members are reeling from the loss of its tireless and dedicated member, Phil Konkel. He supported us all in countless ways with cheerful optimism, and boundless energy.
Richard Boudet
June 20, 2016
Mr. Konkel was a great teacher at Franklin! Great memories. I had no idea he lived such a incredible life of travel and giving!
Jeri Creason
June 20, 2016
To Philip's family, my sincere condolences. If I ever make it to heaven, the one person I will see there will be Philip; if I go the other way, I will miss him even more than I do now. He was the most charitable man I've ever known, and obviously I held him in very high esteem. He deserved it. He left the world a much better place than it was when he entered it, and I'm grateful I was there during some of that time.
Whitney Reidy
June 20, 2016
Phil was my upstairs neighbor and I will miss him. His Spirit and Energy were motivational.
Gail J. Wing
June 20, 2016
To the family and friends of Phil Konkel, I extend my deepest sympathies. Phil and I became friends in college, even dating briefly. I appreciated his intelligence and quick wit, his musical talent, his sense of adventure and joie de vivre. We reconnected about 10 years ago, and he added me to his Friday email list. I particularly enjoyed reading about his travels, volunteer work, and humorous tag lines. Sadly, I'm going to miss that weekly "visit" from Phil. He will be missed.
Jonie Pritchard
June 20, 2016
Who is going to answer my questions on grammar?! Who is going to keep me posted on friends from years ago at St. John's, Kirklnd? Who is going to suggest new books to read? Who is going to write reports on interesting travels? Who is going to write to me every Friday and usually put a smile on my face? Who is going to surprise me with a Sunday morning visit to Saint Mark's Cathedral? Oh, Philip, I have been soo blessed by having had you as a friend! Thank you, God, for that blessing! May Philip rest in peace with beautiful music all around.
June 20, 2016
Peace Corps years saw Phil as much appreciated organist at British Embassy Church of Saint Nicolas , Ankara Turkey. He was a much loved friend : JOHN MOODY (former Chaplain)
Teresa Agopsowicz Wells
June 19, 2016
Oh my Mr. Konkel, how I enjoyed you as my awesome teacher at Franklin High School. You will be missed.
Robert Dunn
June 19, 2016
Always generous with hi music and his praise of others. I thank God I had the privilege of knowing Philip. Fr. Bob Dunn
Teresa Pastor
June 19, 2016
A great man. It was a big honor to be his friend. I traveled through his weekly letters. He opened the world to many.
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