Lila Saks Obituary

Lila Jean Saks

Lila Jean Saks loving wife, mother and grandmother passed away peacefully on the morning of April 3, 2013. Her strong spirit is survived by her husband Bob, daughters Vicki (Mark) and Lisa (Hal), Son Stephen (Gaye), five grandchildren Rachel (Juan), Kayla (Matt), Lizzy, Mathew, and Kody and her great grandchildren Jovi and Kaison. Lila lived her life for her family and friends and she will be dearly missed by all.


Lila was the first of three generations to attend UC Berkeley. She was a tenacious businesswoman and active in politics at the local, state and national level. In 1975 she founded Diversified Personnel, which has been honored with many awards through the years including Top 100 Fastest Growing Woman Owned Company in the Bay Area. During the Carter administration Lila was invited to the White House to be a representative of The National Woman's Caucus.


While she was business savvy Lila was also incredibly philanthropic. She started the Caring Committee at Temple Sinai and was later presented with the Women of Valor award. She was a founding member of the UCSF Cardiac Research foundation and was very involved with the Oakland Rotary.


Later in life some of her best times were enjoyed in the twenty-one years she and Bob spent at Silverado surrounded by dear friends and frequent family visitors. Amongst her family and friends and those who loved her most she was known for being strong, determined, loving and loyal with a zest for life. She will be missed each and everyday, however, her spirit and will, will live on.



Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Apr. 4 to Apr. 7, 2013.
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Dearest Lisa, Bob and Family. I am full of such wonderful memories of Lila. She gave me my first job in business, believed in me and mentored me. Remember aerobics in her living room with Pat? My thoughts are with all of you. Lila will always and forever hold a special place in my heart.

Susanne Marder

April 23, 2013

Dear Bob and Family,
Please accept my condolences. It was Lila's agency that placed me in my first back-to-work job which launched my marketing career.
My very best to you and your family.

Noreen Quan Bridgman

April 6, 2013

Dear Bob, Mark, Vicki, and family,
I was so sorry to hear of Lila's death. I always enjoyed her company. She was a strong business woman; smart, thoughtful, with such a sense of humor. Although I have not seen her in many years, it was a privilege to know her, to work with her, and I will miss her. I send my sincere sympathy to you.

Darlene Smith

April 6, 2013

We have such wonderful memories of our dinners and bridge together and what a fun time I had working with Lila on her books - a truly remarkable woman full of energy and cheer. Love to Bob and all her family.

Nancy Sellers

April 6, 2013

I met Lila and Bob in Silverado . Lila and Bob you could say it in one breath ! Very loving couple . Sorry for your loss .
Wilhelmina Schnitzer

Wilhelmina Schnitzer

April 6, 2013

So sorry to hear of the passing of my buddy, Lila Saks. Her giving spirit, love for politics, and entertaining meals at Trader Vic's left a lifelong impression on my work and my life. Love to Bob and the family.

Mary King

April 5, 2013

I so enjoyed meeting Rachel's grandmother at her wedding. She was so fun. Her contribution to the wedding was priceless.

Frances Claassens

April 5, 2013

Mark and Vicki and family, So sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Nancy Del Colletti

April 5, 2013

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