A loving husband, father and grandfather, Robert died January 14, 2014 from complications due to Parkinson's disease. He was 80 years old.
Bob, known affectionately to family as Bud or Buddy, was the second child born to Carolyn and William Houghton on November 27, 1933 in Pasadena, California. He attended South Pasadena High School. After two years in the army and graduation from Claremont Men's College in 1959, he met and married Barbara, his loving wife of 54 years, proposing to her under the Rose Bowl Stadium sign.
Raising his family in San Carlos, Bob achieved his greatest career success with The Hartford but his family was most important above all. His gregarious personality served him well as scoutmaster, little league coach, soccer referee, school board member and treasurer for many local civic activities.
A prankster and jokester with a quick laugh, he knew how to make others feel welcome and at ease, loved hosting the 4th of July block party, blaring Swing Era music from the stereo and driving the neighborhood kids to Oakland A's games.
Bob is survived by his wife Barbara; son Dennis (Liz); son Dan: grandchildren; Ethan, Olivia, Will, Jared, and Lily; brother Bill (Candy); brother Michael (Susan) and sister Sue (Bert). He also leaves behind nieces and nephews; Patrick, Marina, Joel, Keir, Robin, Devon, Jesse and their spouses and children.
Dad, we knew you worried about us because you cared and we know that you are now at peace. Salute per tutti, Anche tu, Grazie tante.
A memorial will be held on Saturday, March 15 at 1:30pm at the Swedenborgian Church, 3200 Washington Street, San Francisco. Donations can be made to American Parkinson Disease Association.
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February 19, 2014
Barbara, Dan, Dennis & family,, my deepest sympathy to you. I feel your pain, I cannot believe our grandchildren lost both Opa & Grandpa in such a short. Jackie Connolly
Jim Schnereger
February 17, 2014
Barbara, Dennis and Dan, my deepest sympathy for your loss. What a guy he was! He'll always be remembered very affectionately as "Mr Houghton" to me. There just isn't enough space here to express the thanks for how he made my childhood, as well as every kids on our block, richer and more rewarding. The memories of the A's games, 4th of July block party's and so much more are overwhelming.
Jim Schnereger
February 7, 2014
Bob had starring roles in almost all of my good memories from San Carlos. I'll try to see you guys on March 15th.
-Tony Basso
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Adrienne & Brenda
January 30, 2014
The Danvers/Caselli corner will never be the same without Bob's quick wit and smile. We will remember Bob with fond memories.
January 24, 2014
I worked with Bob at Hartford. He hired me and was the best person someone could ask to work with. He made everyone feel warm and he always made people laugh. I truly value the time I spent with Bob and think of him often. The memories of Bob will live on and we will miss him. Tom Verducci
January 24, 2014
WOW!!! What a handsome brother I had!! Beautiful tribute and memory of Buddy! Love to all, Sue
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