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Ruth Gok Obituary

Ruth Wong Gok Mar. 15, 1917~Sept. 20, 2010 Ruth W. Gok died peacefully in her sleep last Monday morning. She was 93. Under the wonderful care of the staff at The Avenue and Sutter VNA & Hospice she died in accordance with her wishes: quietly, comfortably and quickly. Born in San Francisco, she was the youngest daughter of the late Wong Leong Shee and Wong Sim Chong. She was also pre-deceased by her older brother, Richard Wong, MD, her older sister, Lilly Sun, her husband, Harry and her son, Lester. She is survived by three of her children: Lynn, Roger and Cindy (and Brian Wong, MD), her two grandsons, Evan and Will and numerous nieces, nephews, grandnieces and grandnephews. A funeral service and celebration of her life will be held at 11 am on Saturday, September 25 at HALSTED N. GRAY-CAREW & ENGLISH, 1123 Sutter St. in San Francisco. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests remembrances be sent to Sutter VNA & Hospice, 1625 Van Ness Ave, SF, CA 94109 or to Hospice of Seattle 425 Pontius Ave N, Seattle, WA 98109.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Sep. 23 to Sep. 24, 2010.

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Stacey Wong

September 24, 2010

I will look back on the fond memories Auntie Ruth has left on my memories through her kindness and thoughtfulness. My sincere condolences go out to your family.

Casey Nunes

September 24, 2010

I will miss Auntie Ruth's kindness, warmth, and constant positive energy and feel extremely lucky to have had her in my life. Your family is in my thoughts.

September 24, 2010

We will always remember our times with Auntie Ruth and her thoughtfulness towards us. Her loving presence in our lives for so many,many years has been a joy and a privilege.
Sincere condolences.
God bless all of you and peace be with you.
Chatman, Florence, David, and Helen Yee (Downey, Ca)

September 24, 2010

What a blessing Auntie Ruth was to our family. She will be greatly missed. Her life is a wonderful example of how we should live. Sharing in your sorrow. God bless you all. Our love & prayers,
Elaine, Christopher, Stephanie Lee(San Diego, CA)

Michael L

September 24, 2010

Lynn and family...my sincere condolences

Susan Wong

September 23, 2010

Auntie Ruth was one of the kindest and most generous people I have been fortunate to know. My thoughts are with you all during this most difficult time.

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