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Pamela Donahoe Obituary

Pamela Nunotani Donahoe 1948-2010 ; age 62 passed away peacefully December 9, 2010. Beloved wife of Clarence "Sean" Donahoe III for 40 years; devoted daughter of Katherine and Wallace Nunotani; loving mother of Tracy Donahoe-Lim (Kenneth Lim), Kimberly & Erin Donahoe; adoring grandmother of Jake Lim; dear sister of Karen Kern, Marsha Nunotani & Daniel Nunotani. Pam graduated from George Washington High School (Class of '66), as the valedictorian earning the O.I. Schmaelzle Award for academic excellence. While a student at UC Berkeley (Class of '70), she was crowned a princess in the first Cherry Blossom Parade and fell in love with her future husband. Her involvement with the Japanese community continued throughout her life. She was loved by many and will be missed dearly. Memorial gathering will be held Sunday, December 19th between 1-3pm at Duggan's Serra Mortuary, 500 Westlake Ave, Daly City. In lieu of flowers and koden, donations can be made in her honor to Japanese Community and Cultural Center of Northern California and Kimochi, Inc.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Dec. 11 to Dec. 12, 2010.

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Larry and Sharon Lewis

December 5, 2021

We've missed you and Sean at our get-togethers. Rest in peace.

Velma Veloria

December 19, 2010

My condolences to SEAN AND FAMILY. I had hoped to renew ties during my trip back to SF this January. I regret not staying in touch.
Much love, Velma

Jack Tom

December 19, 2010

I am so saddened to hear this news of Pam's passing...I have nothing but wonderful memories of her and Sean before they had children. I had moved to NYC from SF in 1977, but she and Sean would keep in touch with me with their annual Christmas cards. I watch their children grow up through these cards. My love and prayers goes to her children, Sean and her immediate family...

Rami Rubin

December 18, 2010

What a devastating blow! Pam was an extraordinarily good friend. Mostly I remember Pam contributing to the fun times during the decades I have known her.

Jerry & Lindsay Belden

December 17, 2010

We shocked and saddened to hear about Pam. We will miss her very much. Our hearts go out to Sean and family.

December 17, 2010

December 17, 2010
I was deeply saddened and shocked by hearing about the untimely death of Pam. I have known her since junior high, high school and the University of California, at Berkely. Even though I have lived in Tucson, Arizona for 34 years, I periodically kept in touch with Pam and Sean. Anytime, my wife, Margo and I came to San Francisco, I would pick up the phone and tell Pam what dates we would be in the city and to help organize a high school reunion of Fall 1966. She did and I will always have these memories. What a wonderful individual who always had time to speak with you.
You will be sorrily missed and my love goes out to Sean and the entire family.
Ron Gray, Tucson, Arizona

David Minkin

December 15, 2010

I was shocked to hear of Pam's passing. Rami reminded me that Pam and Sean were not at the July reunion. I remember her well - when we were at Ridge Project I found out that we both went to GWHS and I had preceded her. I remember that she loved to talk about their children. I cannot attend the memorial service as I will be up in Seattle, but my thoughts will be with Sean and their family. We will always remember her when we meet at our future Co-Op reunions. Shalom.

December 15, 2010

Dear Sean,

I am so sorry to hear this sad news today. We have been separated in time and distance since the days at Berkeley. I am very grateful that I at least had the opportunity to see Pam and you again in SF several years ago. May you find some path to peace in the days ahead.

Ron and Carolyn Giannetti

Jonathan & Muriel Heritage

December 14, 2010

Sean,
Muriel and I were shocked and deeply saddened by the news of your sudden loss of Pam. I wish we had been closer to you both after we returned to CA. We always enjoyed seeing Pam at Rami's parties and picnics. I'm sure your lovely daughters and grandchild will give you strength to keep that irrepressible drive for life you have always graced us with.

Celia Mason

December 14, 2010

Sean and Family,
Our prayers and love are with you. Co-op reunions will definitely not be the same, but I hope you will be at the next one, Sean, so we can all give you a hug. Celia

Nancy RubinCuper

December 14, 2010

I am so sad to hear that Pam has gone. She and her smiling face will be missed. Our Ridge Project reunions just won't be the same without her. Condolences to Sean and the family.

December 13, 2010

I met Pam about 37-38 years ago. I was looking for a job as a Hemodialysis tech. I had to go to the office of Dr. Unger and Kronfield for an interview. Pam greeted me at the reception area, never forgot her round face. She was very nice.

Anthony C.

Diane Huntsinger

December 13, 2010

I will miss Pam very much - she was the one who always told me what Sean and the kids were all up to, and now the lynchpin is gone. My deepest condolences to all of her family. Her "COOP" family is grieving, too.

Sharon & Larry Lewis

December 13, 2010

We are so sorry to hear about Pam. She will be missed by all. We send our hugs to you and your family. Hold tight and keep the memories close.
All our love,

Barbara Vignola

December 13, 2010

I am so sorry for the loss of Pam.

Barbara Vignola

William Ball

December 13, 2010

My very deepest sympathy to Sean, all the kids, grandlids and Pam's brother and sisters. We will all miss Pam dearly.

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