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Alicia Bruder
December 9, 2010
My great Aunty Clara was a beautiful woman! She had a few eccentricities.. but what early 20th century born Russian woman doesn't.. especially in our family. It is what endeared us all to her.
Clara was a very delicate, petite woman with the personality of a fully armored gladiator. At the annual Christmas party or the summer reunion, if Clara CHOSE to speak with you, she would sweetly call out your name once or twice: "Alicia... Alicia...", to which you didn't dare do anything other than march over to her side to be with her for the next half hour in conversation. There was no grand fist nor household rule governing this to be the case, but Clara's voice and presence at its smallest was so magestic that whether you were engrossed in conversation with your cousins or helping cook in the kitchen, you would drop everything and go to her when she called you just because she chose you.
Conversations with Clara were always special. In a full day, you might "catch up" with everyone through the celebrating with a little small talk here and there yet never really spend enough time with any one person.. except for Clara. Clara could repeat her lustrous stories of dancing, repeat advice about taking care of your health, repeat her comments about staying young, and give the same exact compliments as the years before, but in between the expected were conversation pieces that left me feeling truly connected to her. She was so present, so passionately interested in what each person had to say, so inspirational.. and above all, so proud of the family around her. So proud that it became an honor to sit by her side and listen as she reminisced about stories you could listen to a million times over! I loved my Aunty Clara.
My first vivid memory of Clara was as a little girl, visiting with my parents and sisters at their house in San Francisco. I remember Uncle Vasia going to get us ice cream (which was a rare treat) while Clara had us girls mesmerized by her enthusiasm. She showed us pictures of Aunty Vera when she was young along with baby pictures of Jennifer and Danielle, telling us details about each captured moment, and for the grand finale she pulled out a home video she had of them all together having a good time. I don't remember the exact contents of the video.. Uncle Vasia probably returned with the ice cream.. but I do remember even at such a young age realizing how proud Clara was of her family. That never changed.
Over the years, Clara taught me many things that I will carry with me throughout the journey of my life. And for a such a tiny, graceful, dancer, it never surprised me that her animal spirit of choice was an elephant,.. or that she lived to be 100 years old,.. or that she chose to leave us on Thanksgiving Day, so that we could give her a day of remembrance suitable to a woman of her stature for years to come.
Thank you Clara for giving us all of those extra years to marvel at you. May you rest in peace and happiness. I love you.
Victoria Mikulewicz
December 1, 2010
You will always be in my heart, Aunty Clara. I loved your spunk (and your apple rolls) and I will miss you dearly. I love you, Victoria
November 30, 2010
With deepest sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Love, Thelma Welch
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