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Drew Miller Obituary

Drew Miller Of San Francisco, died suddenly of cardiac arrest on March 8, 2010, at age 47. Drew leaves behind his wife, Chris Cavalier who he met while studying in London in 1983. He is also survived by his loving parents Adrienne and John D. Miller, sister Ruth Miller and her husband Richard Sherwood, brother John D. Miller II and his partner Karen Hansen, mother-in-law Hedy Cavalier and her husband Frank Neill, sister-in-law Kim Cavalier, and his beloved nieces Brittany and Emily Miller, Elizabeth Sherwood and nephew John D. Miller III. There was no more loving husband, devoted son, cherished brother, or more idolized uncle, and no more valued or loyal friend than Drew. With a generous, infectious spirit, an unfailingly positive approach to life, and a unique ability to bring moments of joy into the lives of those he cared about, Drew welcomed everyone he met as a friend. His family and his multitude of friends treasure their time with him and will miss him dearly. A private tribute will be held at Drew and Chris's home on Tuesday, March 16 from 4 to 7pm to celebrate his enthusiasm for life and watch his favorite Buffalo Sabres. No flowers please, for those who wish, donations can be made to Friends of Andrew Einck (paralyzed in an accident and trying to get back home to Kauai) or Marin Education Fund in care of Ramona Polk (college scholarship for aspiring documentary maker) or take a walk at Fort Funston and enjoy Drew's doggy friends.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Mar. 15, 2010.

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Roy Thompson

March 9, 2021

I thought about you today, fondly, with warm remembrance. Roy

michael De Luke

March 30, 2010

My name is Mike De Luke and i grewth up with andrew (andy) now Drew I understand. I and a few others were trying to locate Drew for our upcoming 30 year reunion. I am sadened for your loss. he was taken to soon. If his parents are still in Niagara falls , please give them my email so i can contact them. [email protected]

March 30, 2010

Drew I miss you more than ever....you will always be in my heart and soul. Until we meet again I hope you have a great journey. Love ya, Chrissy

Teresa Wann

March 23, 2010

I feel so lucky to have known you, Young Drew, for these past 12 years. I laugh and I cry when I think of you and your wonderful sense of humor and your wonderful sense of life.

Chris, I am so very sorry for your loss. I'm hoping you can find comfort in knowing he loved you and that the two of you had something very special.

Yours in sorrow,
Teresa

March 20, 2010

Chris
I am so sorry to hear of Drew's passing. You guys are such a special couple. I cannot believe that in your time of sorrow you would think of my Andrew! My memories of your times on Kauai will always make me smile. Andrew and I are thinking of you. Please call when you can. I left my number on your phone.

Chris Cavalier

March 17, 2010

Drewsy, you were the light of my life and will always be....27 years ago on this date I received my first kiss from you the love of my life. I will never forget all the fun times we shared Drew and how you made me feel so special. I was a lucky girl.

Eric Longnecker

March 17, 2010

Christine,
I knew your husband Drew by voice only through his work at RISI as he would call me to ask what I saw going on in the paper markets from my position as a senior buyer at Diamond Packaging in Rochester, NY. I saw the notice in this week's edition of RISI.

I want to express my condolences to you and Drew's family in your time of loss. My prayer is that you will find comfort in your time of loss and grief.
Sincerely,
Eric Longnecker

Elisa Welch

March 16, 2010

I was acquainted with Drew only slightly, having met and chatted with him at a couple of Miller Freeman reunion parties, and once when he and Chris an some friends came out to hear our band, The Buds, at a local farmers market. He seemed like a really wonderful person. My heart goes out to Chris and all of Drew's family, and to Jim and all of his friends and colleagues at RISI.

Brian Fiori

March 16, 2010

It's been over one week and I still can't believe it's true. Sometimes I find the energy to fight back the tears. This isn't one of those times.

I count myself fortunate to have known Drew his entire life. He was my surrogate little brother.

As has been noted many times, Drew was very special. He was completely genuine. You really couldn't ask for a better friend.

Chrissy, know that you made his life complete. You are so special and will always be one of my favorite humans.

-The Dean (AKA Mr. Belligerent)

Paige Dew-Ewing

March 16, 2010

Chris,
I will miss Drew because I always knew that the two of you had my back if/when I needed help during my illness. Whenever I saw him, he would always greet me with a smile and a greeting. I loved hearing his laugh when I asked him, "How's your Spouse"?
He got so much pleasure when I asked him about you. He was a Jewel who will surely be missed by me and everyone in our Complex who knew Drew.
Gone Too Soon!

Rae Ann Rockhill

March 16, 2010

Drew was one of the first friends I had at Paperloop - giving a young journalist quick tips on how to get along with the locals on a trip to Montreal. Many colleagues didn't take the time to learn my name. Drew took the time to be a friend. My heart goes out to his family during their time of loss. His warmth and compassion were ever-present from his first Hello.

Jessica Zimbalatti

March 16, 2010

Very sorry indeed for your loss.

Wendy Webber

March 16, 2010

Dear Christine and family,
I met Drew through my husband John--we had the honor of going to your wedding, just a few short years ago. He was such a warm and loving person. Cherish your memories-my sincere love and condolences to all of you.

Janet Kincaid

March 16, 2010

I had the great fortune of working with Drew at Miller Freeman/Paperloop as his managing editor. Not only was he my boss and colleague, but he became a dear and trusted friend. His generosity of spirit, kindness, compassion, good humor, and positive outlook have always stuck with me and are values I look for not only in friends, but in work colleagues. My thoughts go out to Chris and his family. To say Drew will be missed is a gross understatement!

Miryam Areas Chae

March 15, 2010

Drew was a truly wonderful person. I had the honor of meeting him early in my career and he provided such a positive and supportive outlook. Always made me feel like I could do anything. Of course the support was always balanced by some fun ribbing when the Bills played the Dolphins. His smile and bear hugs will be truly missed.

Dick Loomis

March 15, 2010

When I first met Drew at the semi-monthly lunch meeting of our Northern California St. John's University Alumni Group, he made me feel like we'd been friends for a long time. He was at once humorous, easy-going and welcoming. And that is how I will remember this wonderful guy and I will miss him.

Michael Cowan

March 15, 2010

"I met Drew at his beloved Kiahuna Plantation in Kauai. He made every room he entered a happier place and worked tirelessly on behalf of the homeowners as Chairman of the Rental Advisory Board. He approached every problem with intelligence, thoughtfulness and humor and worked always to construct solutions that worked for everybody. I express my sadness for this gentle man's so very premature passing to Chris and every single person who ever met Drew. He was a very special man.

Roy Thompson

March 15, 2010

Drew has been, and always will be, my friend. He is shown enjoying his beloved paradise at his home away from home in Hawaii, where I had the priveledge of working with both him and Chris. He will be missed.

Kurt Schaefer

March 15, 2010

This is such a loss to all of us who knew Drew, it can't be understood. Drew was the rock-solid down-to-earth guy who saw the best in those he met and who easily became their friends. I keep thinking of the story he told me about being at a sports bar in SF and sitting at the bar and talking to Tim Russert while they were watching a Buffalo game (not sure what sport). They hit it off and had really a lot in common. Both from Buffalo, both huge Buffalo fans, both liked by all, and dedicated to doing their best at their professions. A great chance encounter. Drew, I will will miss you and so countless others.

Mary Atchison

March 15, 2010

Drew was one of the kindest and most generous people I have ever had the opportunity to know. In fact, years ago, he introduced me to the phrase "it's nice to be nice," which I have since used over and over again. He was always able to make me laugh. He will be so dearly missed.

Misty Belser

March 15, 2010

Drew was a cherished friend and colleague. He was always available for a laugh and a smile and to lend an ear or a hand. He was a treasure, the whole his passing will leave in the lives of those who knew him will be great.

Karen Hansen

March 15, 2010

Thirty seconds after meeting Drew I was wrapped in a big bear hug -- one I wish I could send out today to all who miss him. Hug someone today and think of our warm, wonderful, funny Drew.

Chris Cook

March 15, 2010

It was a privilege to know and work with Drew. His ready wit, generous spirit and upbeat attitude will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

Natalie Rotondi

March 15, 2010

I admired Drew's enthusiasm and patience. I could always count on him to spend a few minutes helping me understand the crazy world of pulp and paper. He is sorely missed by all his colleagues and I'm very grateful to have known him. My heart goes out to his loved ones.

David Allan

March 15, 2010

I have rarely met anybody with such a positive and open attitude toward life and towards everybody he met. Drew left more friends in more places around the world than probably even he realized.

Dan Temple

March 15, 2010

Drew was a special friend who I had the pleasure to work with. I was impressed with his ability to interact and help all he came in contact with. I will miss him a lot, Drew, was very, very special!

Dan Temple

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