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Madeline O'Donnell Obituary

Madeline Sullivan Conley O'Donnell A longtime resident of Menlo Park, Maddy passed away peacefully on August 4th at AlmaVia of San Francisco a few months after her 90th birthday. Born in Brooklyn, NY, in 1921, and raised in Bellerose, Long Island, she is survived by her younger brother, Robert Sullivan, and three children, Patrick, Keelin and John (her daughter Keavy left us in 1992). A loving step-mother to Kevin, Kerry and Mark as well, she was proud grandmother to Bill, Kimberly, Megan, Christopher, Katie, Joe & Mack, and 5 great grandchildren. After spending one year at Chevy Chase College in Chevy Chase, MD, Maddy enlisted in the Women's Airforce Service Pilots (WASP's) under Jacqueline Corcoran (Class 44-2) and spent two years doing something she absolutely loved - flying. Mostly bombers (B-26 Marauder) and mostly across the USA; she was 'accidently' shot down twice while towing targets for fighter pilot trainees. She met her first husband, John Conley II, while on the chow line in Colorado Springs in 1945; they were married nine months later in St. Patrick's Cathedral in New York City. She gave up her first love - flying - and they eventually settled in Larchmont, NY to raise their four children. A few years after John's passing in 1969, she married John Gerard (Jerry) O'Donnell and expanded her living horizons to Hong Kong and Beirut, where they spent four years before moving to Menlo Park. Her passion for tennis, fast driving (in her Miata) and story-telling were renowned. A Funeral service will be held at St. Dominic's Church in San Francisco on Thursday, August 11 at 11:30AM; donations to Vitas Innovative Hospice Care, 1291 East Hillsdale Blvd. Suite 225, Foster City, CA 94404

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Aug. 6 to Aug. 7, 2011.

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Kevin Purcell

August 29, 2011

Dear Pat, Keelin, and Johnnie,
I am sorry to hear about Mad passing away. I loved your house because it was the antithesis of 81 Prospect . In other words, your Mom let us get away with murder! When John would faux box with Mom I would laugh hysterically. I will always remember her for showing us Purcells a lighthearted childhood and for letting me stay up til all hours when I slept over. God Bless

Tricia Amy Madden

August 9, 2011

Maddy was one of a kind and not only my mom's sister, but her best friend. Now they are reunited in Heaven and I'm sure staying up all night laughing like they used to do well into old age. Much love to all my West coast family. Tricia Amy Madden

August 8, 2011

"I'll always remember mother's and my time with you and my dear uncle in Beirut......YOU WERE ONE OF THE MOST INTERESTING WOMAN I'VE EVER MET"....Love, Peggy Murphy McMillan

August 8, 2011

We loved having you and Jerry as our neighbors. You were so much fun! Be at peace in heaven, Madeline.
Love, Margaret and Tom

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