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Meliza Orantes Obituary

Meliza Orantes April 28, 1975 ~ Sept.10, 2010 Resident of San Francisco. On Sept. 10, 2010 Meliza passed away after a strong battle with DSRCT. She is a graduate of St. Ignatius College Preparatory High School in San Francisco and University of California, Berkeley. Meliza is the beloved daughter of Irma and Fernando Orantes; loving sister of Denise, Eric, Janine and Fred; and a loving aunt. Meliza was a bright light in this world and will forever be cherished. Throughout her life, she showed much dignity and courage and was an inspiration to all who knew her. Her kindness, generosity and life-force is unforgettable. Friends may visit Friday, Sept. 17, after 6:45pm and are invited to attend Rosary/Vigil Service 8pm, and the Funeral Mass Saturday 10AM (ALL) at Notre Dame des Victoires Church, 566 Bush Street, SF. Burial to follow at Holy Cross Cemetery, Colma.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Sep. 16, 2010.

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Jennifer (Andrews) Waters SI'93

October 15, 2010

To Meliza's family. I was deeply saddened to see Meliza's name printed in the "In Memoriam" section of Genesis magazine. I remember Meliza so fondly from high school. She was one of my first friends there, and as time passed we grew apart, but I remember her so well. You may remember me as the other girl from Potrero Hill that bussed with her, and even my dad gave her a ride a few times. What I remember are her eyes, so bright with life and vitality, and a wisdom far beyond her years. She always seemed older (in a good way), brighter, smarter, more independent; and I remember her laugh. I am truly and deeply sorry for your loss.

Visiting my family in Nassau, with Holiday, in 2008

Anne Rahming

September 20, 2010

Meliza as Maid of Honour at my wedding

Anne Rahming

September 20, 2010

Surprise Party - Las Vegas - December 2007

Elaine Frazier

September 19, 2010

To Meliza, friendships were between 2 spirits, heart to heart, with no issues of age, distance or frequency of time together. Meliza, with friend Sandy Porter and Sandy's cousin from Ireland, made the trip to Las Vegas for my "Big SIX O" surprise party in December of 2007. This picture caught her between "blinks" of her eyes but her smile shines through. This visit was 2 years into her treatment and she carefully chose how she spent her precious time. I was so surprised and so honored that she made that trip. For that and for all the other precious memories of dinners in San Francisco and countless emails and text messages, I am proud to call her my friend, always. Now that I have met her family at the beautiful services in San Francisco, there is no doubt to me where that wonderful spirit came from. You are an amazing family and she loved you all so much. I know you will hold on to each other tightly through this terrible loss. I will keep in touch with Mr. and Mrs. Orantes and I will miss our beautiful Meliza. Rest in peace, my friend.

2007 Surprise Party - Las Vegas, NV

Elaine Frazier

September 19, 2010

September 18, 2010

Dear Fernando, Irma & Family: With deepest sympathy to you all at this time of sorrow. Please forgive our absence as we are out of the country. May God be with you and family. Nancy Yannacone and Henry Zuloaga.

September 18, 2010

Dear Orantes Family: May the love of God surround each and all of you during this time of sorrow...You are in our thoughts and prayers. Zonia Roe-Rosales & family.

Norma Talmadge

September 18, 2010

Orantes family, May memories comfort you in you time of sorrow. You are in our prayers.

Norma and family

Monique Appeldoorn

September 18, 2010

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Orantes & Family ,
Meliza will be sorely missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her.
Please let me extend my deepest condolences to you all.
Love , Monique

Anne Rahming

September 18, 2010

Dear Mr and Mrs Orantes, I am so sorry that I am not able to be there to give you my condolences in person. I will try calling when things are less hectic at your house to express my sympathies in person. Until then, I know you know how much I loved her and the huge gulf her loss leaves in my heart. You brought a truly beautiful person into this world and her light shone on so many. She will never truly be gone, while we all remember her so dearly. It doesn't change the fact that we will all miss her brilliant smile and infectious giggle. You and the rest of the family are in our prayers, as you go through this difficult time. Love, Anne and the family

January 2003, Meliza's visit to Basel, Switzerland

Mark DeMars

September 17, 2010

Mark DeMars & Aldo Randisi

September 17, 2010

Dear Orantes Family,

Our warmest thoughts are with you now. Meliza was and will remain a wonderful friend. We fondly remember our times with her, traveling, sharing, and laughing. She was good at laughing, really good, and she lifted any room with her presence. We'll miss her, but our strength is focused on you today.

Nancy Larreynaga-Yannacone

September 17, 2010

Your family is in our prayers. Rest in Peace Meliza.

Wilma Espinoza

September 17, 2010

Fernando and Irma - I will always remember Meliza because of the dignity, intelligence and courage with which she confronted this disease. I am so glad to have been part of her circle of friends. I was in awe of her enthusiasm for learning and her ability to create and maintain friendships literally around the world.

Leo Delucchi

September 16, 2010

Dear Orantes Family-I have such fond memories of Meliza as a youngster. She was so funny, smart, sweet and caring. Her smile would light up the classroom! She had that great way of phrasing things that made everything sound better!
Know that the thoughts and prayers of those who know/knew her are with you all. Mr. D

Tracy Day

September 16, 2010

Dear Orantes family, my visits to San Francisco won't be the same anymore, Meliza was one of the warmest, most vibrant people that i have ever met and i feel honoured to have known her for the past few years. She touched the lives of so many people and she will be missed by all. Rest in Peace Meliza, love always, Tracy (Ireland)

September 16, 2010

It was a privilege for the staff at Scottsdale Healthcare to participate in her care, and to recognize her bright spirit.
Carole Weber, BCC, SHC Chaplain

Allison Bunnell Cordero (SI '93)

September 16, 2010

Meliza was truly a genuinely wonderful & caring person. I am so sorry to hear of her passing. I send your family strength & prayers.

Sharon Udovich

September 16, 2010

Dear Orantes Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I will always remember Meliza as a sweet little girl at NDV playing in the school yard with her many friends.

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