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Patricia Callahan Obituary

Patricia Louise Callahan Age 49, died peacefully at home in Oakland among family members on December 2, 2010, after a short but valiant bout with brain cancer. Trisha is survived by her devoted parents, Jim and Margaret Callahan, and her loving siblings Claire, Kathleen, James, John, Michael, Mary Ellen and Matthew. She is also survived by brothers-in-law Bob Goodman and Andreas Neyer, sisters-in-law Nancy Callahan and Rhys Cheung, nieces Rebekah Callahan Goodman, Sarah Callahan Stanley and Aoibheann Cheung Callahan, nephews Christoph Neyer and Joey Callahan, uncle Tom Bendorf and aunt Patricia Carroll, cousins Heidi Bendorf and Sally MacLaughlin and 18 other first cousins. She also leaves many, many friends behind. Her devoted companion Bob the dog preceded her in death in August. She grew up in Piedmont and attended Piedmont High School. Her college degrees included BA in German from SF State University, MA in German Linguistics from University of Michigan, and MA in Spiritual Psychology from University of Santa Monica. Before her illness she had nearly completed a master's degree in Music Education at Holy Names University and CSU East Bay. During her lifetime Trisha visited many points around the globe. She spent time living in Sweden, in England and in Austin, Texas. She worked as a translator and textbook writer, a business analyst, and a massage therapist, and in recent years worked in the family business as a technician at Callahan Piano Service in Alameda, where she was featured in the documentary film "Miracle in a Box". An accomplished musician, she performed throughout her life with numerous choral groups, including the Oakland Youth Chorus, The California Bach Society, Coro Hispano, San Francisco Bay Area Chamber Choir and the Malmo Kammer Kor. She also played the oboe and the clarinet. Trisha was a proficient unicyclist and juggler, a skilled improviser, and an unforgettable character. A vast debt of gratitude is owed to John and Nancy Callahan, with whom Trisha lived during the final months of her life. Their patient, selfless care and devotion made it possible for her to experience many moments of joy and laughter in her final months. Good-bye, Trisha. To know you was to love you. A musical celebration of Trisha's life is planned for January 29. For information please e-mail [email protected]. Donations in Trisha's memory may be made to the Musella Foundation for Brain Tumor Research, 1100 Peninsula Blvd, Hewlett, NY 11557.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Dec. 11 to Dec. 14, 2010.

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William Scott James

March 24, 2021

I got here by looking for Bob the Dog's webpage. Trish and Bob were my housemates in Alameda. I miss them both.

Katherine Cramer

January 8, 2011

At one with water
skimming along in our boat
city lake so still
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Living forever
every cell knows your name
songs sung still so near

3rd grade?

Patrica Callahan

January 3, 2011

David Salinas

December 31, 2010

Patricia, I loved talking choir and music with you. I'm sorry I never heard you perform. It was great working with you at Paymap.

Mimi Kusch

December 21, 2010

Trish: I am so happy I got to sit next to you at Mary's recital in November and giggle with you. I'm so happy we sung in OYC together; hung out in Philadelphia a long time ago, at my mom's house; watched the bats fly out from under the bridge in Austin; watched a movie that I won't mention with Mary--and so many other memories I will always cherish. You were the most honest person I have ever known, and one of the funniest and one of the most understanding. I hope you are singing and speaking Swedish and juggling and taking movies. I love you, Meem

Tomas Jennbert

December 19, 2010

Missing You forever !
Goodbye
xoxoxo
Tomas

December 18, 2010

Trish, your uncontrollable giggle is my outstanding memory
of you. You were like my second "little" sister. Your mom would drive up in front of the house, do a little honk, someone in the house would yell out "Trisha, your mom is here" and you would look for your books and sweater and run to that beautiful green station wagon to go home.
More often than not , you would be back the next day to play with Anne, Tommy, and all the neighborhood gang.
We all loved you, you were always so funny!
You were Anne's best and closest friend. I'm so happy that
you reunited after some time apart.
With love,
Carole Holt

Madeleine Adkins

December 18, 2010

May your spirit continue to glow here in the world and beyond, Trisha, inspiring each of us who knew you and those who hadn't yet had the chance to know you, as well.
I wish I could attend your event in January, but I can't get there. Know that I'll be with you in spirit.
-Madeleine

Carol Boeck

December 15, 2010

Trisha, you taught me so much about so many things. I found myself thinking you wouldn't want me to cry, but then I realized that you would completely understand. RIP, we miss you dearly.

Frank Olivier

December 14, 2010

Hello Dear Trisha, and goodbye! I'm feeling sad, yet so grateful to have spent that magical day with you, Allison, and Kit in GG Park so recently. It's hard to see you go. The world needs more, not fewer, people like you; more smiles like your smile; and more of the cheerfulness and humor that were somehow part and parcel with your being. It was an honor and pleasure helping with the forming of each other in our formative years. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I have a sense you haven't gone all that far, your spirit feels very close right now.
All my love, Frank

Kit Lofgren

December 14, 2010

You will always hold a special place in my heart. - Kit

Andrew Luey

December 14, 2010

Trisha had a talent for softball too. She spent some summer's playing at Roberts Park with some real characters. Because of our skill level, we had many laughs. Thinking of you a lot Trisha

December 14, 2010

Hey Trisha,

You know.

Love,

Shannon

Anonymous

December 13, 2010

Bless you...onward into the Light.

Monica Aiken

December 13, 2010

Dearest Trisha,

I will never forget you or your sparkling, smiling eyes, your biting humor, your humble, innocent, honest, down to earth, warm regard. Your devotion to music. Your sweeping knowledge of literature. I remember countless birthday parties, choral concerts, concerts at your incredibly musical family's house, outings to Tilden, to Tahoe, to walk the dog, to Ferryland as a kid. I remember being a toddler watching you and Ali in Golden Gate Park, juggling clubs like it was nothing. Thank you for being my big sister's best friend, for being there for our family through ups and downs, and over the years, for being so amazing, and consistent, for spreading the love whereever and whenever it was due. For being there when it mattered, like my senior recital, coming early to set up the hor d'oevres. Thank you for being whimsical and fun, for doing the things best friends do without second thought. Yes, you rode across the Golden Gate Bridge on a unicycle with my sister, only 2 years ago. Has to be said. I can't even walk across the Golden Gate bridge without freaking out at how far down it is to the water,or worry about the wind. But I remember you saying it was mostly the giggles that made it hard to unicycle across. You always said it best. And your humor was so natural. So many conversations both serious and not. You helped me figure out my life and pointed me often in the right direction, made sure I didn't miss this or that opportunity. You knew what it was like to feel the pressure to marry and have kids and yet you knew it was important to follow your heart. When I debated over majoring in Music after dabbling in French for so many years, you could relate, and you reassured me that not everyone knows exactly what they want to be when they grow up, and that that's ok. You saw life as a journey, not the destination. You understood what it was to hold fast to who you were, even as it changed over the decades, and yet your friendship was like a sturdy rock. You always had such warm and light-hearted perspective. You were always there. You knew what it was like to have your roots in the Bay Area, and yet to be a little bit wanderlust and have to travel. You knew being homesick when you'd end up somewhere else because the winds of change blew your life to someplace other than the Bay Area. You knew how to get over Scandinavia's dark winters, how to find unity and harmony from within a choir. I remember discovering "Der Kanon" through you. What a revelation. You were so smart, generous, reliable, you were always your sweet, adorable, charming self. So many memories. And yet what we wouldn't give to have you back here for just one more concert, for just one more giggle, to see you juggling with Ali, Frank and Kit. You were special, and your place is now eternally cast in our hearts, in gold. Let me just tell you from one youngest little sister to the other, you you were precious and perfect and mature and insightful, and your life touched so many for the better. Never, ever doubt that! You were the stuff poetry is made of. I always kind of wished I could have a best friend like Ali had. How'd she get to be so lucky?! Good thing she shared! ;) I'm so grateful to have known you for as long as I could, and that you were part of our family. The bond was strong, and it will remain. Always love,

your BFF Ali's tag-along kid sister,

Monica Munch who loves you a bunch...
yes Jessica Monica Mary Veronica

...still not quite as cool as Trishafisha, though!

December 12, 2010

Trisha, our fondest farewell to you and to your magic. We will celebrate your bountiful life together with your family in January. We have nothing but wonderful Callahan memories!!!
Love, Randy and Kristine

Matthew Callahan

December 12, 2010

My closest sister, I miss you more than I can express. You were my musical guide throughout childhood and adulthood. If not for you I would never have relished so many beautiful things that this sentient life has to offer. I will always love you and treasure your memory. Now, get that choir of angels in order!

Maura Sipila

December 12, 2010

Trisha is such an amazing talent and wonderfully warm person - I am so blessed to have known her and to have raised my voice in harmony with hers.

December 12, 2010

My love and prayers go to Trishas' loving friends and family. It is so hard to lose a loved one and such a special lady. She will be with you all in your hearts. I'm so sorry you lost such an amazing loved one. Sherri Zink, Spring Hill. KS

December 11, 2010

Marta McGuire

December 11, 2010

Trisha, you certainly packed a lot into your short life. You are missed.

Claire Goodman

December 11, 2010

1000s of tears shed - I miss you very much, my dear little sister.

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